Bachelorette 10 - Andi Dorfman - Episode 10 - MTP-LCD-FRC- July 28/14 *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion

Great posts, stuckinsc, emusha, & MiaHawk. ITA  I really think Andi could have handled the whole thing so much better and perhaps given Nick closure before his comment. She was cold when letting him go (more tears for Cody than Nick). The main thing to me was how she was talking about not being in love with him with absolutely no empathy. Yes you have a new fiance but have a heart and throw the guy a bone. I don't feel he was lashing out but was trying to understand. I've liked Andi all season but tonight I really saw the Me in the MeAndi.

They seem to be very happy. I can't say I'll follow them but will wish them well.

Rolly wrote:

docnash14 wrote:

chloep wrote:Why? Why should Nick have kept mum???? To make her look better? Why? She was unfeeling, cold, giving no answers and then she started the whole "I never loved you".... Then, why? Why? would he have kept mum? To not mess up the picture of the perfect couple? Essentially to do a favor to the woman who treated(and in that moment too) him like he was worth-less???

There is such a thing called boundaries.  

Exactly.... Andi has poor boundaries. Leads a guy on, continues to reassure him, has sex with him, dumps him blaming him because he is too "analytical "  but admits that she was in love with Josh from day one. Yep the gal has pretty poor boundaries.  

Like all the other Leads do.

BKay wrote:Of course he is getting bashed. Most people don't think beyond the scenes that are put in front of them, and don't consider how they would feel if they had been in Nick's situation. And tptb ran the bus over him again by showing the bleachable moment at a point when he was sitting there defenseless.

Omg yes the bleachable moment on top of all of this! They ran the bus over him, backed it up and did it some more!

Rolly wrote:

docnash14 wrote:

chloep wrote:Why? Why should Nick have kept mum???? To make her look better? Why? She was unfeeling, cold, giving no answers and then she started the whole "I never loved you".... Then, why? Why? would he have kept mum? To not mess up the picture of the perfect couple? Essentially to do a favor to the woman who treated(and in that moment too) him like he was worth-less???

There is such a thing called boundaries.  

Exactly.... Andi has poor boundaries. Leads a guy on, continues to reassure him, has sex with him, dumps him blaming him because he is too "analytical "  but admits that she was in love with Josh from day one. Yep the gal has pretty poor boundaries.  

Rolly, they admitted on Kimmel that they met before taping of the show. My respect for Josh and MeAndI is gone. Thanks for taking Nick along to the end to mess with him, you are awesome MeAndI. Nice of Josh who knew MeAndI to say to not over express Nick's intelligence, since he knew her before taping. All that sweet, nervous tongue tied crap from Josh was just that crap.

Thank you for fooling us all Josh and MeAndI.

Rolly wrote:

docnash14 wrote:

chloep wrote:Why? Why should Nick have kept mum???? To make her look better? Why? She was unfeeling, cold, giving no answers and then she started the whole "I never loved you".... Then, why? Why? would he have kept mum? To not mess up the picture of the perfect couple? Essentially to do a favor to the woman who treated(and in that moment too) him like he was worth-less???

There is such a thing called boundaries.  

Exactly.... Andi has poor boundaries. Leads a guy on, continues to reassure him, has sex with him, dumps him blaming him because he is too "analytical "  but admits that she was in love with Josh from day one. Yep the gal has pretty poor boundaries.  

MeAndi was in charge here and she made that clear to everyone.  Remember that nasty scene with Eric?  No boundaries or rules for Pookie!

FLChica wrote:

Rolly wrote:

docnash14 wrote:

There is such a thing called boundaries.  

Exactly.... Andi has poor boundaries. Leads a guy on, continues to reassure him, has sex with him, dumps him blaming him because he is too "analytical "  but admits that she was in love with Josh from day one. Yep the gal has pretty poor boundaries.  

MeAndi was in charge here and she made that clear to everyone.  Remember that nasty scene with Eric?  No boundaries or rules for Pookie!

Eric who? Yeah, well I did. But, fans of the show don't care about F2 on.

stuckinsc wrote:

Rolly wrote:

docnash14 wrote:

There is such a thing called boundaries.  

Exactly.... Andi has poor boundaries. Leads a guy on, continues to reassure him, has sex with him, dumps him blaming him because he is too "analytical "  but admits that she was in love with Josh from day one. Yep the gal has pretty poor boundaries.  

Rolly, they admitted on Kimmel that they met before taping of the show.  My respect for Josh and MeAndI is gone.  Thanks for taking Nick along to the end to mess with him, you are awesome MeAndI.  Nice of Josh who knew MeAndI to say to not over express Nick's intelligence, since he knew her before taping.  All that sweet, nervous tongue tied crap from Josh was just that crap.  

Thank you for fooling us all Josh and MeAndI.

Yep, can't believe I spent so many hours on this crap.

 So the girl who trashes JP for keeping her through the FS, even though he knew he wasn't going to pick her, is getting called out by her F2 for sleeping with him in the FS all while knowing she wasn't going to pick him!

Now, Andi and Josh are admitting they did meet before the show!

This season just keeps getting better and better! I'm just going to embrace TPTB's love of irony for a moment.

I'll give her a little bit of pass because it was a live show, but seriously how hard is it for a lead to say that they had feelings for the F2, but stronger for the F1, and that since the show has wrapped everything has been going really well? Why deny the F2 feelings altogether? I will never understand that. Another indication that they don't cast for normal.

Bennett went to visit Nick to bring on this scenario. It sends a clear message as to how production felt about Andi. IMO

I agree with whoever asked how would people react had the roles been reversed and this was the Bachelor. That's a great point... the Bach would have been burned at the stake had this happened (oh wait, previous ones have!)

atem wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:

mercieme wrote:

Wow so the rumor Choep heard that they had met each other before was true, wow, just wow!!!!

To think how many came out saying they knew each other pre-show and were told over and over "no".   
Now the couple admits having met?  
I may join team Atem and not watch anymore. May being operative word.

There isn't anything to watch.  You can read RS's spoilers, catch some screen caps, read articles and see what's going on.  

I actually did some of that JPG's season and don't feel like I missed anything! Something to think about. 

YAY!!!!! Josh and Andi look awesome together and so in love!!!!!!!

noobsleuth wrote: So the girl who trashes JP for keeping her through the FS, even though he knew he wasn't going to pick her, is getting called out by her F2 for sleeping with him in the FS all while knowing she wasn't going to pick him!

Now, Andi and Josh are admitting they did meet before the show!

This season just keeps getting better and better! I'm just going to embrace TPTB's love of irony for a moment.

I'll give her a little bit of pass because it was a live show, but seriously how hard is it for a lead to say that they had feelings for the F2, but stronger for the F1, and that since the show has wrapped everything has been going really well? Why deny the F2 feelings altogether? I will never understand that. Another indication that they don't cast for normal.

Bennett went to visit Nick to bring on this scenario. It sends a clear message as to how production felt about Andi. IMO

I agree with whoever asked how would people react had the roles been reversed and this was the Bachelor. That's a great point... the Bach would have been burned at the stake had this happened (oh wait, previous ones have!)

I totally disagree. Doesn't matter if the Lead is Male or Female. The person that is the final 2 dumped person is to pretend that nothing happened. Doesn't matter what they want, what they feel. It doesn't matter as no one cares.

Kashathediva wrote:

atem wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:
To think how many came out saying they knew each other pre-show and were told over and over "no".   
Now the couple admits having met?  
I may join team Atem and not watch anymore. May being operative word.

There isn't anything to watch.  You can read RS's spoilers, catch some screen caps, read articles and see what's going on.  

I actually did some of that JPG's season and don't feel like I missed anything! Something to think about. 

Now, to have some fun watching The Bachelor Australia... well, portions of it. LOL