Bachelorette 10 - Andi Dorfman - Episode 10 - MTP-LCD-FRC- July 28/14 *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion

I have never seen a less sympathetic Bachelorette.  She sucks. You can quote past bachelorettes/bachelors ad nauseum.  The fact is: she knew Nick loved her, she slept with him, and then she gave him nothing (both when she said goodbye, when she tried to get closure and tonight).  SHE SUCKS.

chloep wrote:Why? Why should Nick have kept mum???? To make her look better? Why? She was unfeeling, cold, giving no answers and then she started the whole "I never loved you".... Then, why? Why? would he have kept mum? To not mess up the picture of the perfect couple? Essentially to do a favor to the woman who treated(and in that moment too) him like he was worth-less???

There is such a thing called boundaries.

atem wrote:

chloep wrote:Why? Why should Nick have kept mum???? To make her look better? Why? She was unfeeling, cold, giving no answers and then she started the whole "I never loved you".... Then, why? Why? would he have kept mum? To not mess up the picture of the perfect couple? Essentially to do a favor to the woman who treated(and in that moment too) him like he was worth-less???

You people make no sense.

This show doesn't make any sense.

Agree completely with both posts!   That's why I constantly remind myself that I'm watching for entertainment only and try very hard not to get invested in any of the contestants.  

I do feel so very sorry for Nick, Josh and the Murray family and the Dorfman family.  MeAndi?  Nahhh...

soccermom333 wrote:
Yes, but Andi started fighting back and I don't blame her.  No love lost between these two and it is really sad to me.  Josh and Andi are madly in love and they are not giving Nick a second thought.  Wish he had kept it classy.  Just my honest opinion.  

          

We may not all feel as gooey-chewy-chocolate-gum-drop-gooey over "Jodi" as you do, but I definitely admire your spirit and energy defending the couple against Heartbroken But Tricky Nicky. Too bad they couldn't make the entire ATFR show a "bleachable moment".

Keep up the fight.

At least we can be confident "Jodi" will get over it all in a few months from now, either with or without each other. Once they make the four month hump as a "showmance", they will at least qualify as a Bachelor Family "success".

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StacyNor wrote:
No Difference at all. God doesn't like ugly Andi she accused JP doing the same thing she did to her contestants   her actions are much worse because she comes off as a hypocrite. ABC should do the same thing they did on Andi's poster to the next bachelor because the is not much difference between Juan and Andi.

Andi definitely is a hypocrite. She was constantly nagging at Josh about her fear of him cheating on her and yet at the end of the day, she did that exact same thing. High five to Nick for having the balls to expose her for what she really is. Hopefully, Mama Murray will knock some sense into her son before it's too late.

Yes, Nick made love to Andi.  Andi used Nick for sex.  She KNEW 100% how he felt about her and she chose to mislead him and use him to scratch her itch.  So selfish.  So unkind.

Like Nick would be any better if he were the Lead?

atem wrote:

chloep wrote:It's not like he was just gone who to make her look bad.... He wished them well. He even said that Josh was good guy. He was trying to take the high road, just for RBF to make and appearance and make him feel like poop. Can you guys even imagine who he felt??? He loves/loved her. They made love. She reassured him throughout this whole thing, just to get told that she knew it was always Josh. That it was just an act....

Seriously, after what he said on that video and the out takes?  Seriously?!

YES! That's what she said and with that unfeeling and cold expression. It was ridiculous. Nick was tearing up the whole time.

What is happening now is a déjà vu Jash's time. Ben F's fans "attacked" Ashley. And in Courtney's tell all book she says Ashley slept with Ben F. Why is it even a surprise to us that people with call Andi names? My previous posts in the unspoiled side knew Nick would be blindsided. What with the producers goading him, and most likely telling he is the one! I've transcribed his very confident statements and he was so certain earlier on Andi loves him! We at the unspoiled side KNEW that the Confident F2 will not take it well. I understand the sympathy for him now. But I believe he dint leave room for doubt unlike Josh even at the very end is not sure if Andi will pick him. We hear past contestants saying it over and over again. TPTB will say stuff to get the "drama" they wanted. Is Andi to be blamed if she slept with both Nick and Josh? I dunno. But I felt she really liked Nick a lot. She probably wanted to check if there is also a physical connection with Nick by sleeping with him. Not my preference but anyone who enters this type of show should be prepared for a heartbreak. As we at the unspoiled thread were prepared IF Josh wasn't picked.

And I can't help but feel sad for Nick, I have this icky feeling that all his post show actions where calculated. Dint the guys say he was always "strategizing"? Chris S even said they're tired of him talking on and on. Yes, he's heartbroken but he wants his revenge served cold... On national TV. It is Ben F all over again but it turns out Ben comes out classier. Perhaps, Nick should be The Next Bachelor so he knows how it would feel. Andi now should thank Juan Pablo.    Niw she knows.

And I think tptb would like nothing more than to induce another jason mesnick-like season. They really could care less about the happy couple jmo. 2 ATFR in a row that leave a sour taste. Oh well, time for the train wreck known as BIP- #yopo

Did they ever announce the next Bachelor?

chloep wrote:

atem wrote:

chloep wrote:It's not like he was just gone who to make her look bad.... He wished them well. He even said that Josh was good guy. He was trying to take the high road, just for RBF to make and appearance and make him feel like poop. Can you guys even imagine who he felt??? He loves/loved her. They made love. She reassured him throughout this whole thing, just to get told that she knew it was always Josh. That it was just an act....

Seriously, after what he said on that video and the out takes?  Seriously?!

YES! That's what she said and with that unfeeling and cold expression. It was ridiculous. Nick was tearing up the whole time.

She is the worst. Thank God she didn't pick Nick.

chloep wrote:

atem wrote:

chloep wrote:It's not like he was just gone who to make her look bad.... He wished them well. He even said that Josh was good guy. He was trying to take the high road, just for RBF to make and appearance and make him feel like poop. Can you guys even imagine who he felt??? He loves/loved her. They made love. She reassured him throughout this whole thing, just to get told that she knew it was always Josh. That it was just an act....

Seriously, after what he said on that video and the out takes?  Seriously?!

YES! That's what she said and with that unfeeling and cold expression. It was ridiculous. Nick was tearing up the whole time.

No, I meant that Nick didn't expect that after what he said?

Bullwinkle wrote: Did they ever announce the next Bachelor?

They will wait for the finale of BIP to announce. Sorry.