Bachelorette 10 - Andi Dorfman - Episode 10 - Men Tell All - July 21/14 *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion

Beagle wrote:

emusha wrote:

Alanna wrote:
Oh man. I love Jodi but their friends are ruthless. We know! Dawgs on top! This has been like watching a guppy war with a great white shark, both on the show and post-show imo.

seriously....there's way too little compassion going around this season jeeeezzzz have people forgetting this is real emotions from real people? this is the worst behaved f1-lead fam & friend group i've seen on this show.... the gloating, the making fun...

so far only josh is seeming normal in the midst of this

i guess tptb is contagious this season and even they stepped it up with the throwing nick under the bus with a villainous edit AFTER he was already heartbroken and AFTER leading him on enough with a frontrunner edit AND leading him to give her a letter to only be thrown under the bush AGAIN.....   I thought JPG's season was the lowest of the low but this one is starting to sink lower for me on levels of basic humanity and consideration

Thank you. I want this to be so over. The gloating from Andi, his family and friends is nauseating. I really, really hope that Nick would not show up at the ATFR. It will just be another opportunity for more humiliation. Too many bullies this season.   

Sorry, but I have to ask, wasn't one of Josh's reasons for being so mad at Nick that he made fun of Cody for saying Blessed and it as bullying? At least Nick had the courtesy to say it to Cody directly and apologize for that when it was brought up. Josh's friends are cyberbullying and it is cute and funny? I am sorry isn't this one of the biggest problems in schools today and haven't the actions of the "cool" kids bullying the not cool kids been linked to at least some of the school shootings. Sorry, it isn't cute and it isn't funny.

Also to me his isn't a guppy in war with Sharks. The guppy isn't bothering to fight, it is just a bunch of bullies showing their true colors.

I know that I am judged by the friends I keep, so yes, I feel we can judge Andi partially by Kelly and if these really are Josh's good friends and just not former teammates or Athens dudes, then I judge him a little two.

Please don't quote me scripture and tweets about being a good person, then turn around and have your friends post vile bullying things. Yes we all make fun of people, but this board while not fully private is no where near as public as twitter. To equate them to me is rather funny.

nutty1 wrote:What baffles me is how nasty Kelly is (most here agree with that), and how most weeks, Andi is with her when she is tweeting. If what Kelly says doesn't bother Andi, then truthfully I'm happy she didn't pick Nick.

I'm sure there's some Freudian explanation. Andi is too smart to let her mean girl out too publicly (although the RBF seems to be a window to her soul.) I think Kelly says what she wishes she could. Kelly's like her id.

I'm getting to be get-off-my-lawn old. They all irritate me. A LOT. Nick's manpris and color block outfits make me want to punch something. Josh's over active sweat glands make me want to hurl. And Chris playing hide and go seek on a fantasy date made me want to kick baby seals. Wait... maybe Kelly's my id?  :shocked!: 

Spencer81 wrote:I'm wondering about her myself for Josh..   Will she be the loving, caring wife and mother, or is she turning into a diva...  hmmmm

IMO, I think she she just needed to find that right guy who she would WANT to dote on herself and be caring and loving and I see that with Josh in wanting to make sure he has his family's attention, working herself into a wreck when he was mad at the lie detector, wiping his face, telling him how amazing he is, all the nose/neck kisses and all this sm stuff makes me think she's just all about Josh. He's certainly over the moon thrilled post-show and all his family and friends are supportive so I doubt there are issues. I think he loves his little diva   

MTA is the topic.   

I guess that Im in the minority because i didnt find chad's tweet to be that offensive, he probably referenced the lie detector part because they were trying to make a big deal out of Josh's results and IMO all of Josh's friends are going to defend him and attack Nick because of the things he said about Josh on video. I haven't seen anything said about Chris from any of them even when he was in the F3, they have solely gone after Nick

hope everyone has a wonderful week

chloep wrote:^^ ITA, nutty. I am baffled by what people actually compare.

There is a comparison. Both said how they felt. Some were claiming it was Nick lying. So, people were going around saying that it was OK for him to say what he did, because it was all a ruse to fool RS. I don't see the difference for the people it's directed to.

GuardianAngel wrote:

Spencer81 wrote:I'm wondering about her myself for Josh..   Will she be the loving, caring wife and mother, or is she turning into a diva...  hmmmm

You beat me to it. I like both Nick and Josh, I just don't like Andi for either one of them. I'm not sure she's the one that's ready for marriage.

That's the clincher--all of her F3 appeared more ready for marriage than the lead.

whit90 wrote:

chloep wrote:california90- see my response above. Cat was asked a question, why should she have "kept her mouth shut" and act fake? They were emotional and fired up and it clearly showed, but they were right in the gist of things.

That is your own opinion many disagree with you.

Nope, many don't. A lot of people agreed with them. JP has been known as the worst Bachelor ever and he deserved it. Even Andi poster was mocking him, he acted like a douche and he deserved all the backlash he got.

Tiggerlgh wrote:

atem wrote:

soccermom333 wrote:Josh can't control what his friends do.  They love him and are just defending him.  He was thrown under the bus tonight by chris H.  

How was he 'thrown under the bus'?

I would guess his two lies and CH saying if he was in my F2 I would want to know.  Making it sound like a bigger deal than it was as usual.

Yes, I agree with this. I am sure Josh is fine and his family is fine but some of his friends are just defending him on twitter. Josh can't control what his friends say on twitter. I bet he got a lot of texts tonight.

Kashathediva wrote:

Spencer81 wrote:I'm wondering about her myself for Josh..   Will she be the loving, caring wife and mother, or is she turning into a diva...  hmmmm

Turning? Are we watching the same show?   It's all MeandI all the time.

hahahaha can't believe i was naive enough to miss this for most of the season best screencaps evaaa

I really don't want to start deleting posts.

Please stay on topic.