Bachelorette 10 - Andi Dorfman - Episode 9 - Fantasy Dates - July 14/14 *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion

GuardianAngel wrote:she reminds me of a spoiled brat, that starts crying when they need to handle a situation ....she could have handled that way better...poor Chris

exactly if she doesn't feel it...she needs to woman up and deal with it...

Poor Chris, he seems like a sweetheart i feel bad he's pouring his heart out and she's trying to find a way to send him home

It still bothers me that she is able to send Chris home and talk about her feelings and lack thereof with Chris and spare him further hurt, but she can't have the same conversation or express her doubts with Nick. That's what is so puzzling to me

docnash14 wrote:

Alanna wrote:Josh's PI was so adorable and Andi was glowing the entire date. I love that she's onboard with this big guy that's going to protect her and love her unconditionally even though at the start of this show, she acted too icy to be interested in that.

Also #unconditionallove is both for Andi and Sabel, now we know

Thought exactly the same thing as soon as I heard him say that.

Me three. Feel bad for Chris. Glad andi is not just blaming it on Iowa. Poor chris.

Chris looked good out with Marcus after MTA.

She was never right for him. Don't be sad. It was a great audition for TB.

GuardianAngel wrote:she reminds me of a spoiled brat, that starts crying when they need to handle a situation ....she could have handled that way better...poor Chris

It is a manipulative trick.  I will cry, so when I admit that you were never there compared to the other two you won't get mad at me.  Not attractive at all.  Too bad, I had started warming up to her with Josh, but this is the Andi I didn't like at all this season.

GuardianAngel wrote:she reminds me of a spoiled brat, that starts crying when they need to handle a situation ....she could have handled that way better...poor Chris

I love her but yeah, pretty much. At least she knows this about herself and knows she's a handful   

Catherine Lowe ‏@clmgiudici 1m
       Now that was a serious and honest conversation that needed to be had. Proud of you @AndiDorfman

Andi Dorfman ‏@AndiDorfman 13s
Thanks girl! Always sad "@clmgiudici: Now that was a serious and honest conversation that needed to be had. Proud of you @AndiDorfman

isittrue wrote:It still bothers me that she is able to send Chris home and talk about her feelings and lack thereof with Chris and spare him further hurt, but she can't have the same conversation or express her doubts with Nick.  That's what is so puzzling to me

She is under the direction of the producers. The show must go on, no matter who is getting sliced and diced. That's what they all signed up for.

I agree with those who think they are setting up a one man finale, though we know nick at least meets her parents.

That was an intensely positive date.  Josh was choked up in the city portion of the date.  I just happen to be someone who sees them as extremely well suited.  And that's coming from a Lady Lawyer (as my grandfather used to refer to my career) who can relate to the need for a strong kart re who keeps you in line and supports you in your career 100 percent.  There's a chapter in Lean In (Sheryl Sandberg) about the importance of choosing a supportive partner and I have seen a lot of good in Josh.  I'm usually a cynic, but here I'm a fan of this couple.  

They could easily have met at a party and ended up together.  I hope she doesn't blow it by chasing a hollywood dream.  

He doesn't talk about it on the show for obvious professional reasons but he is a successful financial advisor at Capstone, positioned with his family stature to really have a great success.  I wish she'd stick to law.

I actually feel bad for Andi. I mean if she could have, she would have sent him home sooner, I am sure. After all, it is her Job as the 'ette to keep them interested enough to come this far. I am sure it is really hard on her to have to bring them this far knowing that she would have to let them go.