Bachelorette 10 - Andi Dorfman - Episode 8 - HTDs - Jul 07/14 *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion

I don't think Josh would be around if he wasn't a good communicator . He already told Andi his next ILY will not happen until he's sure it's the girl he wants to marry. It's kind of early in the game after having had just one date and a couple makeout sessions with her. More than anything, I think Josh is really struggling having to share her ..He's obviously crazy about her....he's so cute !!!

Judiful wrote:I don't think Josh would be around if he wasn't a good communicator . He already told Andi his next ILY will not  happen until he's sure it's the girl he wants to marry. It's kind of early in the game after having had just one date and a couple makeout sessions with her. More than anything, I think Josh is really struggling  having to share her ..He's obviously crazy about her....he's so cute !!!

Yes but dont you just know his lack of ILU is seen as bad communication/doesnt love her/combative...? :shocked!: 
I see early ILUs as fake personally.
My fav couple ever is Jash, and JP said ILU last (after her even!) and was shown as jealous in the last episode before HTD...

Bottom line: I am not hitting at anyone who takes Josh's lack of ILU/communication (or his editing) as a negative on him, or proof he isnt F1.

I personally am only able to picture Andi with Josh. If I am wrong and she picked Nick/Chris/Marcus... I will be delighted for them and wish them the best !
As with the Jef/Arie/Emily situation, I think people have favourites, which is fine... but let's not hit each other over them!

    

^^^Love both of your posts, Sophie and judiful. Well said.

I am reminded that it really does happen that one season you can be totally reading a different book than some members, and then the next season you are totally on the same page with them. No need to be upset or anything with anyone because, and I do remind myself of this, it's what makes things interesting when we all don't agree and see things exactly the same way. Eeeees ok!   

 

sophienette wrote:

Judiful wrote:I don't think Josh would be around if he wasn't a good communicator . He already told Andi his next ILY will not  happen until he's sure it's the girl he wants to marry. It's kind of early in the game after having had just one date and a couple makeout sessions with her. More than anything, I think Josh is really struggling  having to share her ..He's obviously crazy about her....he's so cute !!!

Yes but dont you just know his lack of ILU is seen as bad communication/doesnt love her/combative...? :shocked!: 
I see early ILUs as fake personally.
My fav couple ever is Jash, and JP said ILU last (after her even!) and was shown as jealous in the last episode before HTD...

Bottom line: I am not hitting at anyone who takes Josh's lack of ILU/communication (or his editing) as a negative on him, or proof he isnt F1.

I personally am only able to picture Andi with Josh. If I am wrong and she picked Nick/Chris/Marcus... I will be delighted for them and wish them the best !
As with the Jef/Arie/Emily situation, I think people have favourites, which is fine... but let's not hit each other over them!

    

Nice post! Sometimes I am on the same "team" with posters one season then the complete opposite the next! It is what makes this board fun.

I also see Andi picking only Josh. If she chooses different, I will be happy for them.  :cutesmile!: 

Piper61 wrote:^^^Love both of your posts, Sophie and judiful.  Well said.

I am reminded that it really does happen that one season you can be totally reading a different book than some members, and then the next season you are totally on the same page with them.  No need to be upset or anything with anyone because, and I do remind myself of this, it's what makes things interesting when we all don't agree and see things exactly the same way.  Eeeees ok!   

   Okay, this is why I need to read all the way through a page before I post!!! I just said this. LOL

soccermom333 wrote:

Piper61 wrote:^^^Love both of your posts, Sophie and judiful.  Well said.

I am reminded that it really does happen that one season you can be totally reading a different book than some members, and then the next season you are totally on the same page with them.  No need to be upset or anything with anyone because, and I do remind myself of this, it's what makes things interesting when we all don't agree and see things exactly the same way.  Eeeees ok!   

    Okay, this is why I need to read all the way through a page before I post!!!  I just said this.  LOL  

 :cutesmile!:  We are reading the same book, on the same page, at the same time!

Considering it seems sometimes Andi can only communicate in pitches only heard by dogs but it's pretty clear both are really happy post show, I'm guessing someone in that relationship is a good communicator.

Alanna wrote:Considering it seems sometimes Andi can only communicate in pitches only heard by dogs but it's pretty clear both are really happy post show, I'm guessing someone in that relationship is a good communicator.

Yeah they seem pretty happy post show.

Max64 wrote:

b wrote:

Judiful wrote:
     The bottom line is we are only exposed to the  heavily edited portions to the conversations allowed by TPTB..It would be cool to be a fly on the wall. There is no way all Andi and Josh talked about all day long and late into the evening was those infamous trust issues .....That's JMO  From the little we have seen...I would guess they are playful, flirty and lots of fun together..and I think it        was game over after their first kiss !!  

    Enjoyed reading this.  I bolded my thoughts as well.  Are they just trying to show Josh as the physical edit and Nick as the emotional/mental one?  If so, they've succeeded w Josh (lots of chemistry between them), but I think her relationship w Nick has been shown to emotional/intellectual and physical.  If spoilers are true, I hope Josh is a better communicator than they have shown, otherwise, I don't see them lasting b/c Andi (the edited version anyway) certainly needs that.

I agree on that one!  I think that was a large part of her frustration with him last episode on the GD.  She was looking for him to articulate what it is that he "liked" about her and their relationship, something to make her feel confident in how he felt (I don't think she was necessarily looking for an ILY at that point either).  Instead he was giving her an 8th grade response.  Nick expresses himself much better, I think Marcus and Chris do as well, but we've just seen more of Nick.

She did say in her blog that there was more to that conversation with Josh so maybe he did express himself much better to her and we just didn't get to see that part. I see Josh having a bit of a hard time because he knows she is looking for him to replace the word "like" with "love". And he isn't ready for that yet. He said in his PI that it's "hard to put himself completely out there when he dosen't know how she feels" Especially with so many other guys still left. JMO

I guess I have a hard time as I don't see this as a done deal for Josh. I'd prefer to say the IF when dealing with who she may/may not be with and not the I know comment. IMO, we don't REALLY KNOW yet.

Aunties_Love wrote:I guess I have a hard time as I don't see this as a done deal for Josh.  I'd prefer to say the IF when dealing with who she may/may not be with and not the I know comment.  IMO, we don't REALLY KNOW yet.

I agree Aunties_Love, we do NOT KNOW.   I realize that Josh is the spoiled F1, but we all know RS has been wrong before.  It just seems as if anyone mentions clues that may indicate Nick or anyone else is the F1, they quickly get dismissed, however, the clues that Josh is F1 are rock solid.  As, we know Fleiss has outsmarted RS before, and it can happen again.