Re: Bachelorette 10 - Andi Dorfman - Episode 4 - Mon June 2/14 *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion

by luvlady345 Mon Jun 02, 2014 5:37 pm

And in who's world if this did happen is it ok to call someone Phoney and Fake? Eric didn't know Andi the total of hours spent with her was less than 24 hours.

by Kashathediva Mon Jun 02, 2014 5:46 pm

Honestly, why didn't she just agree with him? You have to have a degree of phoniness to proceed in this genre. So own up to it and move on. And if you can't move on, move out--move him out--like he did and move on as she did.
In my world, I would have called someone fake if this is how they were acting toward me or doing something to effect me and moved on. And this is what happened.

by Isabel123 Mon Jun 02, 2014 5:47 pm

nutty1 wrote:I know this will not be popular opinion, but….
I think it doesn't reflect unfavorably on Eric. I do think though, for Andi, that it wasn't her fault either. I know some will crucify her for this, but I really believe you lead people on, especially in week 3. I don't think she actually lead all on (like JJ for instance) but she may have had an interest in Eric. She wasn't going to only concentrate on 1 or 2. First of all, she couldn't be totally sure at that point, second of all, there would be no show.
I am sure it is tough on the guys being there in the moment…….I wonder if he was truly interested n her, would he have approached it a little differently and not left??

Regarding Eric and the other guys interest towards Andi, here's an interesting comment posted in RS blog:

tia89 on June 2, 2014 at 10:53 AM said:
I’m actually happy to finally know the reason why Eric left, as it was not nearly as bad as I was thinking. Yes, you can tell Andi is extremely upset by what he says however you have to respect the fact that he was honest with her about what he was feeling. It was kind of clear that Andi wasn’t as interested in him as she was with some of the other guys and he obviously realized that.

I really like Andi as The Bachelorette however comparing how she is this season to last season, it’s literally like two different people.

Eric seemed like the most genuine guy in the house and I’d be surprised if this truly changes anyone’s opinion of him. I was in the audience for the Magic Mike group date and it was so interesting to see that really only Josh and Marcus paid attention solely to Andi. The other guys were more interested in getting to know all of us in the audience then Andi(obviously that wasn’t shown). I’m sure Eric was not the only one who felt that way, but probably the only one who valued being honest and risking getting sent home, then staying quiet on hopes of more screen time.

by atem Mon Jun 02, 2014 5:49 pm

I don't give a rip about Andi or the stupid show.

by Guest Mon Jun 02, 2014 5:50 pm

Bet2Win wrote:I don't feel bad for her. In who's world is it okay to yell at people you barely know?

How do we know he didnt yell at her first? Just saying lets not jump the gun.

by bleuberry Mon Jun 02, 2014 5:51 pm

Good for Eric. He probably wasn't even auditioning for anything, imagine that.

by Guest Mon Jun 02, 2014 5:52 pm

bleuberry wrote:Good for Eric. He probably isn't even auditioning for anything for anything, imagine that.

by Bet2Win Mon Jun 02, 2014 5:52 pm

sophienette wrote:
Bet2Win wrote:I don't feel bad for her. In who's world is it okay to yell at people you barely know?

How do we know he didnt yell at her first? Just saying lets not jump the gun.

She was yelling at all of them.

I think she's a yeller. laugh out loud

by ThankMeLater Mon Jun 02, 2014 5:55 pm

Weren't people saying Eric was on the show for the sole purpose of promoting his documentary? Anyways to me that would make him fake as well. So I don't think its fair to blame everything on Andi.

by Alanna Mon Jun 02, 2014 5:56 pm

Isabel123 wrote:
nutty1 wrote:I know this will not be popular opinion, but….
I think it doesn't reflect unfavorably on Eric. I do think though, for Andi, that it wasn't her fault either. I know some will crucify her for this, but I really believe you lead people on, especially in week 3. I don't think she actually lead all on (like JJ for instance) but she may have had an interest in Eric. She wasn't going to only concentrate on 1 or 2. First of all, she couldn't be totally sure at that point, second of all, there would be no show.
I am sure it is tough on the guys being there in the moment…….I wonder if he was truly interested n her, would he have approached it a little differently and not left??

Regarding Eric and the other guys interest towards Andi, here's an interesting comment posted in RS blog:

tia89 on June 2, 2014 at 10:53 AM said:
I’m actually happy to finally know the reason why Eric left, as it was not nearly as bad as I was thinking. Yes, you can tell Andi is extremely upset by what he says however you have to respect the fact that he was honest with her about what he was feeling. It was kind of clear that Andi wasn’t as interested in him as she was with some of the other guys and he obviously realized that.

I really like Andi as The Bachelorette however comparing how she is this season to last season, it’s literally like two different people.

Eric seemed like the most genuine guy in the house and I’d be surprised if this truly changes anyone’s opinion of him. I was in the audience for the Magic Mike group date and it was so interesting to see that really only Josh and Marcus paid attention solely to Andi. The other guys were more interested in getting to know all of us in the audience then Andi(obviously that wasn’t shown). I’m sure Eric was not the only one who felt that way, but probably the only one who valued being honest and risking getting sent home, then staying quiet on hopes of more screen time.

Thanks for posting! I like the comments in red. So clear that they're both extremely taken with her. I cannot imagine her choosing someone who isn't downright smitten and amazed with her. She's not Des, who seemed to chase after someone who wasn't interested. She strikes me as a woman who will immediately force herself to turn off any attraction, no matter how strongly she feels it, if the object of her affection isn't reciprocating.

by atem Mon Jun 02, 2014 6:02 pm

Oh, for crying out loud. So, it's ok for Andi to get upset at Eric, because he tells her the facts that this show is a farce? That all he had to do is be the stupid puppet and keep quiet until SHE was ready to dump him and have him shed some tears over it? I don't get what people thinking this makes any sense!

by Bet2Win Mon Jun 02, 2014 6:03 pm

Friendly reminder.

Please keep the personal comments/criticisms limited to the contestants/show and not each other.

Thanks!

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