Bachelorette 10 - Andi Dorfman - Episode 4 - Mon June 2/14 *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion

Isabel123 wrote:

bleuberry wrote:

emad0722 wrote:Can i just say I find it extremely weird that Andi is favouring tweets from Reality Steve. RS was sticking up for her and she favourited them? Isn't that like breaking no 1 bach code??

Well Andi needs all the support at this point. Some bachelor alumni are sympathetic with Eric i.e. Ashley Spivey and Ashley Rosenbaum. See below tweets:

Retweeted by Ashley L. Rosenbaum
Dana Weiss @Possessionista  ·  3h
I think, looking back, Eric will go down as the most authentic, observant and honest contestant in #Thebachelorette history.


Ashley L. Rosenbaum @ashhebert  ·  3h
I will say.. There are moments where you do have to be diplomatic...Wish she would have just explained that a bit better to Eric. loved him!

Ashley L. Rosenbaum @ashhebert  ·  3h
I feel like you can really tell who Andi likes... She either looks through them or at them. Anyone else agree??? #TheBachelorette

Ashley S. @AshleySpivey  ·  3h
This is less commemorating Eric and more let's help Andi save face. #TheBachelorette

Ashley S. @AshleySpivey  ·  3h
Andi has had a chip on her shoulder since JuPa's season. Can someone eat it off? What flavor is it? #theBachelorette

Ashley S. @AshleySpivey  ·  3h
I feel like Andi is mistaking Eric's confidence for aloofness. Dude didn't need to pander to her and it made her insecure. #thebachelorette

The Ashley didn't sugar coat did they

You know what I dislike more and more about these Alumni how easy they forget when they were being racked over the coals it truly amazing....

luvlady345 wrote:You know what I dislike more and more about  these Alumni how easy they forget when they were being racked  over the coals it truly amazing....

I think them being through it, makes, their opinion more valuable, in situation like this.

happygirl77us wrote:

luvlady345 wrote:You know what I dislike more and more about  these Alumni how easy they forget when they were being racked  over the coals it truly amazing....

  I think them being through it, makes, their opinion more valuable, in situation like this.

Well when people was calling Ashley ugly, stupid and a fool on her season I dunno know it's just best sometimes not to say anything  but I guess that is too much to ask.

I wonder know if Andi fully understands the position Juan Pabelo was in, maybe an apologize to him would be nice.

Can you image if had talked to her like she talked to Eric

Goldie2 wrote:

atem wrote:Eric's sister posted this about their 1 on 1 date on Facebook

Thoughts on tonight's "Bachelorette":
- Eric, you're darling. Building sand castles and having snowball fights never got old to you.
- What a gentleman for not kissing on the first date and helping Andi on the slopes.
- Eric had shared with me all of those sentiments about family before--all totally sincere and perhaps even too real for reality TV. (I loved it.)
- I'm so glad you blessed us with more than this show to remember you by. #livelikeEric
- That was an answer to prayer that his mother didn't have to watch him in a Hollywood nightclub.

Absolutely love that his sister posted this. During such a difficult time she is handling his experience on the show with such grace and beauty.  What a meaningful tribute to her brother -adding more insight into his life and the person he was- # LivelikeEric

TPTB should have taken a lead from his family if they really wanted to honor Eric last night and shown some behind the scene footage and outtakes of more of time on the show ....

I have a feeling that we're going to see more of Eric in the MTA. I think they did the right thing by not showing the guys' reaction to what happened and the RC but they could have ended with a little montage. I think CH had to talk to Andi about what happened. I wonder if she watched it again and what he said in the PI after? She said she couldn't watch his 1 on 1 date.

I liked Andi last season and agreed with her rant to JP even though she could have scaled it back a bit. I like her this season and think she's doing a good job as lead. Her conversations with the guys are well done and I do think she's trying very hard with them. She let her exhaustion get the best of her and lost it a little last night but she's not the first and won't be the last. If you look back, most of the women leads did the same at one time. Even Jillian who I adore. I also am not assuming Andi's in this to get in show business. Maybe she is but you never know. Only 2 have managed to do it so far so it's not that easy. I think she's getting a taste of the bad side right now. Maybe law will seem easier in comparison.  

luvlady345 wrote:You know what I dislike more and more about  these Alumni how easy they forget when they were being racked  over the coals it truly amazing....

Me too. It annoys me to no end. Most of them snark every Monday night as if all of a sudden they are higher and mighty then anyone else. Why can't they just be normal, funny, and supportive, to their "family".  :greenman: 

Alanna wrote:Seeing Andi lash out tonight makes me fear we're going to see a Vienna and Jake meltdown scene with her and Josh in the not too distant future. Yikesss. He's perfect on paper for her but I think she needs someone who is softer and a great listener without being a pushover.

Yes, TA.

I wonder if she and Josh will discuss this during their 1on1 next week at all. It will be interesting to see how he handles her.

GuardianAngel wrote:

luvlady345 wrote:You know what I dislike more and more about  these Alumni how easy they forget when they were being racked  over the coals it truly amazing....

Me too. It annoys me to no end. Most of them snark every Monday night as if all of a sudden they are higher and mighty then anyone else. Why can't they just be normal, funny, and supportive, to their "family".  :greenman: 

   This is what struck me first about reading those tweets as well. Things were pretty ugly for Ashley, and thank goodness she had JP. I adore them as a couple.

I didn't think Ashley R.'s tweets were so bad. 
Ashley S., well, she likes to snark.   

This bach family thing is a joke. If they choose to call it a family, fine. Perhaps a family that feeds on it's own is more like it.

happygirl77us wrote:I wonder know if Andi fully understands the position Juan Pabelo was in, maybe an apologize to him would be nice.

Can you image if had talked to her like she talked to Eric

I don't know either of them, but I think if he(JuanP) had responded as she did with Eric the discussion might have been over sooner. She wanted some type of reaction and she got none--ees okay made her feel as if she meant nothing to him at all. By getting upset and showing some type of passion she may have felt that at least it upset him that she was leaving. The lack of caring is what really got her going.

GuardianAngel wrote:

luvlady345 wrote:You know what I dislike more and more about  these Alumni how easy they forget when they were being racked  over the coals it truly amazing....

Me too. It annoys me to no end. Most of them snark every Monday night as if all of a sudden they are higher and mighty then anyone else. Why can't they just be normal, funny, and supportive, to their "family".  :greenman: 

ITA. Just now when I read Ashley Spivey's tweet, I was thinking, Whoa, really? You were so mousy and insecure on Brad 2.0. What makes you think you can judge anyone else?