Bachelorette 10 - Andi Dorfman - Episode 3 - Sun - Jun 1/14 *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion

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notarose wrote:

luvlady345 wrote:For me I respect the fact that Josh went to Andrew first instead of telling Andi.... He was right Andrew is getting a number from a girl, but how would it feel if someone else got cut when Andrew evidently not into Andi or he wouldn't be getting a number if he was...I like Josh, I am sure Andi will appreciate Josh and forgot the other guy's name name looking out for her.....

I haven't watched the epi yet.  Reading about this issue with Andrew, if the guys went out to eat with him and he accepted the waitress's number why didn't they confront him on the way back to the mansion or when they returned?  How did this get to be part of this particular evening of filming?  Don't you think that just makes it a bit of showman drama on the part of everyone involved?  Just doesn't make sense to me to wait if it was really that much of an issue.  

Or maybe I misunderstood and it did happen just before the blowout?

bc JJ just told Josh NOW..and Josh is the one who got play a role to protect her by confronting Andrew

Ash2214 wrote:Just my thoughts on the episode:

Nick is sweet and he's really cute! His two outfits though were horrendous. He's got great suit game, but those two outfits were hideous. Especially the jacket. I actually like their relationship. It's sweet and cute like Nick, but I saw no chemistry. That could change as the season goes on, but I just didn't see it, although I can totally see why he makes it so far.

Marcus is gorgeous, but good lord it's only episode three and I just wish he would shut up. He's a whiner and already seems extremely jealous. I get it, I do, but it's too much. He seems just a tad immature, which is normal for being 25. One thing I find interesting though is that people have thought Josh was the most arrogant - tonight that was 100% Marcus and he did it in a far less appealing way.

My heart broke during the scene with Dylan and Chris. I can't even imagine what it was like for Dylan to go through all of that and it was so sweet seeing Chris comforting him. It made me love the both of them more and if Chris is the next bachelor then the ladies are going to be going after a great catch.

I cringed every time JJ said "can I steal another kiss?" Friend zone big time.

Again we only see the physical chemistry between Josh and Andi, but that was the most "real" I've seen her. She was relaxed. She didn't seem like she was forcing anything. It was cute banter with the "I told you not to make that face" remark she gave him, pinching his cheeks, and the whispering. On their 1-on-1 date if we see the substance, then I'm just about sold that she did pick him.

I'm praying they don't show Andi screaming at Eric tomorrow night. Absolutely praying. It seemed tonight that he was just utterly confused about the whole process and if he questions her about it tomorrow I really don't think it was done to be rude or inconsiderate. Ugh.

I enjoyed this episode screamed and cringed throughout the b2m date, enjoyed the out takes during credits the most. Tasos was cute falling off his chair during his interview.  Agree with the bolded Ash.  

Here are my observations so far:

Andi: take charge very alpha female behavior - definitely playing the lead role.  She has the tendency to exude supercilious (can't think of a better term) attitude when she purses her lips and nods her head.  You can tell she is confident with interviewing people and conversations.  I like that she can have intelligent conversations, I wonder if she really uses her lawyer skills on her dates as it seems like a lot of the men are opening up early? But seems like when she starts getting comfortable with people her eyes brightens up and her interviews become conversations.

Nick: Date started as a getting to know you no chemistry like Eric's date, but definitely there were sparks towards the of the night lots of kisses there, some initiated by Andi.  The flowers and note endeared him more to the ette I bet as Andi initiated the kisses on the stoop.  

Josh: Andi is playful and attracted to Josh. She acts more of a female with Josh than with anyone to date and let's him lead - very promising and different

Marcus:  there is attraction and he is very sweet.  But,  Andi saying, "you're sweet," to him sounded patronizing.  At this point Marcus' feelings are stronger than andi's that he almost sounds desperate.

JJ: very friend zone date. Him looking old most of the first date was a disservice to JJ I believe as I don't know how Andi could be attracted to an 80 yr old looking man. Anyway, Andi was leading the date and gave out rose because JJ was a good sport.  

Is it just me or I am getting Andrew and Eric interchanged?  They seem to look alike.

^ For Eric's sake. I don't need to see a really sweet guy, who is no longer here, be screamed at by Andi over something I bet is ridiculous. His family doesn't need to see that.. especially if Eric gets upset about it in the episode.

notarose wrote:

luvlady345 wrote:For me I respect the fact that Josh went to Andrew first instead of telling Andi.... He was right Andrew is getting a number from a girl, but how would it feel if someone else got cut when Andrew evidently not into Andi or he wouldn't be getting a number if he was...I like Josh, I am sure Andi will appreciate Josh and forgot the other guy's name name looking out for her.....

I haven't watched the epi yet.  Reading about this issue with Andrew, if the guys went out to eat with him and he accepted the waitress's number why didn't they confront him on the way back to the mansion or when they returned?  How did this get to be part of this particular evening of filming?  Don't you think that just makes it a bit of showman drama on the part of everyone involved?  Just doesn't make sense to me to wait if it was really that much of an issue.  

Or maybe I misunderstood and it did happen just before the blowout?

That whole situation sounds suspicious to me. How are they able to go out for dinner. And who exactly went out for dinner. He says he "was given" this number. He says he didn't brag about it, and some say they weren't even there. Why didn't the guys that were with him that heard him brag, confront him? Or did I miss that?

This was a weak scripted scenerio to create drama IMO

notarose wrote:

luvlady345 wrote:For me I respect the fact that Josh went to Andrew first instead of telling Andi.... He was right Andrew is getting a number from a girl, but how would it feel if someone else got cut when Andrew evidently not into Andi or he wouldn't be getting a number if he was...I like Josh, I am sure Andi will appreciate Josh and forgot the other guy's name name looking out for her.....

I haven't watched the epi yet.  Reading about this issue with Andrew, if the guys went out to eat with him and he accepted the waitress's number why didn't they confront him on the way back to the mansion or when they returned?  How did this get to be part of this particular evening of filming?  Don't you think that just makes it a bit of showman drama on the part of everyone involved?  Just doesn't make sense to me to wait if it was really that much of an issue.  

Or maybe I misunderstood and it did happen just before the blowout?

JJ was with Andrew along with 3 other guys, Andrew told them when he got back in the car..... JJ told Josh at the cocktail party....

soccermom333 wrote:

nd4reality wrote:

sydney1 wrote:Andi and Josh remind me of Chantal and Brad.

Yes - thanks for that.

I couldn't figure it out till I read it here. lets see how their relationship progresses.

Totally disagree. Brad was so different with Emily. Andi is so different with Josh. Time will tell. I need to see Andi and Josh's first real date.

In what way? I noticed she always sit back with him, like JPG did with Clare. she doesn't get up under him for someone who is so love in already. You know Major Harris say "love won't let you wait" I'm curious why she waited so long to give him a 1-1 date, especially after this episode when it supposely so obvious of this love.

luvlady345 wrote:

JJ was with Andrew along with 3 other guys, Andrew told them when he got back in the car.....  JJ told Josh at the cocktail party....

Were those other 3 guys in on the confrontation?

Alanna wrote:

docnash14 wrote:

nd4reality wrote:Josh Nick and Marcus are going over the top. Definitely.
Each in their own way.
What about Chris  ? He seems more normal than the other guys but last episode we had a bit of over the top from him as well.

So all her final guys are drinking the kool air but different flavors.

I like Chris and found him very endearing tonight in his interactions with Dylan.  That being said, I think he was more than a bit over the top last week with his more than once "Andi is the most amazing woman on the planet."

With Josh, in all of his IM's (I am blanking on whether that is the correct word), he seems quite reasonable in his comments about Andi (last week "I want to get to know her better").  And really with the exception of "I am your guy and you are my girl" (alright and maybe I want to be with you every day and kiss you every day!) he hasn't been that over the top ("I want more time with you" last week and tonight "I like you, I like you alot")

I think Josh's mannerisms are silly to the extreme with Andi but she likes it and she's just as silly back, which for Andi is even more amazing than for anyone else because she keeps such a tight leash on herself and displaying any emotions. Telling Josh about some face he makes to her and whispering was kind of incredible to witness because no other man, Marcus and Nick included, have been able to melt her down like that and it's week 3. It'll be interesting to see if anyone else will be able to catch up with the intimacy she and Josh already naturally share.

Week 3 on the show...........  :hidingchair 

jen689 wrote:The date with JJ and Andi seemed to drag on and on and on and on   

The date with Nick and Andi seemed so short  

right?? so rude haha I'm hoping its all a producers ploy to trick us haha  :cutesmile!: 

GuardianAngel wrote:

luvlady345 wrote:

JJ was with Andrew along with 3 other guys, Andrew told them when he got back in the car.....  JJ told Josh at the cocktail party....

Were those other 3 guys in on the confrontation?

I dunno, there were other guys around.....

im watching with the west coast.

still feel bad for the little girl covering her ears on B2M GD.haha!