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More of the Ya'll coming out...it is driving me crazy. Way more annoying than eeezz OK.

Top tip when dating...shut off the bloody cell! No texting or answering the phone when on a date. Talk to the person you are there with and at least pretend to be interested.

She ends it off by saying don't honk the horn, I'll be there when I'm ready.   

I have to look past all the traits that annoy me about her, which are many.
Between laying on the thick accent, and saying STOP, she will get her share of backlash if it doesn't quit soon. We are only going into epi 3, it already appears by her tweets she is getting told.

GuardianAngel wrote:She ends it off by saying don't honk the horn, I'll be there when I'm ready.   

I have to look past all the traits that annoy me about her, which are many.
Between laying on the thick accent, and saying STOP, she will get her share of backlash if it doesn't quit soon. We are only going into epi 3, it already appears by her tweets she is getting told.

Well I have to admit that here in South Louisiana we use Ya'll and stop all the time. So it does not bother me when she says it. I guess you can call it a southern thing.   

GuardianAngel wrote:She ends it off by saying don't honk the horn, I'll be there when I'm ready.   

I have to look past all the traits that annoy me about her, which are many.
Between laying on the thick accent, and saying STOP, she will get her share of backlash if it doesn't quit soon. We are only going into epi 3, it already appears by her tweets she is getting told.

Woah Joshy has his hands full with this delightful young lady. Hope he's strong enough to manage!

nannymargie wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:She ends it off by saying don't honk the horn, I'll be there when I'm ready.   

I have to look past all the traits that annoy me about her, which are many.
Between laying on the thick accent, and saying STOP, she will get her share of backlash if it doesn't quit soon. We are only going into epi 3, it already appears by her tweets she is getting told.

Well I have to admit that here in South Louisiana we use Ya'll and stop all the time.  So it does not bother me when she says it.  I guess you can call it a southern thing.   

I love hearing it when I'm in the South!    I just find she stresses it more often when she feels the need. She never spoke like that on JPG's season.

In other words, just another promotion for the show that means nothing. Glad I can't even see it.

Alanna wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:She ends it off by saying don't honk the horn, I'll be there when I'm ready.   

I have to look past all the traits that annoy me about her, which are many.
Between laying on the thick accent, and saying STOP, she will get her share of backlash if it doesn't quit soon. We are only going into epi 3, it already appears by her tweets she is getting told.

Woah Joshy has his hands full with this delightful young lady. Hope he's strong enough to manage!

Actually I would think he would need to be the opposite, which would be to let her do whatever she wants and ironically enough what Nick alluded to in his phone conversation on the plane, "He will do whatever she wants." Gee, maybe this is all starting to make sense after all!   

There are ways to be a "strong" woman and not come off as cold/cynical/hard as she attempts to sound. I feel like she's overcompensating, maybe it's because of her career, or her education, or her upbringing, I'm not sure. She parades her hard outer shell a little too much for me to believe it's entirely real. There is a way to be viewed as a strong woman, but still possess a level of compassion. It seems like she defaults to mad and defensive when things don't go her way. She is certainly an enigma to me!  

noobsleuth wrote:

Alanna wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:She ends it off by saying don't honk the horn, I'll be there when I'm ready.   

I have to look past all the traits that annoy me about her, which are many.
Between laying on the thick accent, and saying STOP, she will get her share of backlash if it doesn't quit soon. We are only going into epi 3, it already appears by her tweets she is getting told.

Woah Joshy has his hands full with this delightful young lady. Hope he's strong enough to manage!

Actually I would think he would need to be the opposite, which would be to let her do whatever she wants and ironically enough what Nick alluded to in his phone conversation on the plane,  "He will do whatever she wants." Gee, maybe this is all starting to make sense after all!   

There are ways to be a "strong" woman and not come off as cold/cynical/hard as she attempts to sound. I feel like she's overcompensating, maybe it's because of her career, or her education, or her upbringing, I'm not sure. She parades her hard outer shell a little too much for me to believe it's entirely real. There is a way to be viewed as a strong woman, but still possess a level of compassion. It seems like she defaults to mad and defensive when things don't go her way. She is certainly an enigma to me!  

To me Andi comes off as a stuck up 'mean girl'. Totally agree with the sentence bolded.

GuardianAngel wrote:

nannymargie wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:She ends it off by saying don't honk the horn, I'll be there when I'm ready.   

I have to look past all the traits that annoy me about her, which are many.
Between laying on the thick accent, and saying STOP, she will get her share of backlash if it doesn't quit soon. We are only going into epi 3, it already appears by her tweets she is getting told.

Well I have to admit that here in South Louisiana we use Ya'll and stop all the time.  So it does not bother me when she says it.  I guess you can call it a southern thing.   

I love hearing it when I'm in the South!    I just find she stresses it more often when she feels the need. She never spoke like that on JPG's season.

I can understand it being annoying when someone is not use to hearing it all the time. I can't say she was not like that on JP's season because she wasn't front and center like she is now. On JP's season we only saw a little of her. That is just my opinion of course.

noobsleuth wrote:

Alanna wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:She ends it off by saying don't honk the horn, I'll be there when I'm ready.   

I have to look past all the traits that annoy me about her, which are many.
Between laying on the thick accent, and saying STOP, she will get her share of backlash if it doesn't quit soon. We are only going into epi 3, it already appears by her tweets she is getting told.

Woah Joshy has his hands full with this delightful young lady. Hope he's strong enough to manage!

Actually I would think he would need to be the opposite, which would be to let her do whatever she wants and ironically enough what Nick alluded to in his phone conversation on the plane,  "He will do whatever she wants." Gee, maybe this is all starting to make sense after all!   

There are ways to be a "strong" woman and not come off as cold/cynical/hard as she attempts to sound. I feel like she's overcompensating, maybe it's because of her career, or her education, or her upbringing, I'm not sure. She parades her hard outer shell a little too much for me to believe it's entirely real. There is a way to be viewed as a strong woman, but still possess a level of compassion. It seems like she defaults to mad and defensive when things don't go her way. She is certainly an enigma to me!  

   Noobsleuth. I think that's very accurate. Perhaps she's identified her past herself so much with the "image" of a powerful woman (according to her list) that she somehow lost touch with her feminine side. A "great" love doesn't happen if you are unyielding. Half of your responsibility is to take ownership of what you are willing to do FOR your partner, not just what you expect FROM your partner. Her "rules of dating" video comes to mind. Isn't not so much about being vulnerable, it's about being compassionate and wanting to satisfy the needs of your partner in equal measure to him doing likewise. Given freely, not upon demand.

What is her 'list'?

ITA with these thoughts that she's just being ruled by her outer shell, but I hope that'll change throughout this show.