Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion

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Just a little sneak peek of @Andi_dorfman just after make up before she's getting ready to get into her dress for Monday nights show.
 

@andi_dorfman is all dressed and ready to talk to @chrisbharrison on Men Tell All tomorrow night.

OMG!!! Josh is a lucky man   

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stuckinsc wrote:I am not sure where to post this opinion, as we don't have a general opinion thread of the bachelorette, but this is my opinion.

I know this is nit picky, but this isn't Josh and Andi's season yet.  It is still Andi's season.  It will only become Josh and Andi's season once Andi picks her F1 on tv on July 28th and it is Josh.

Everytime I read that it is all Josh and Andi, it is like nails on a chalkboard.  

Sorry for the downer, but this is the last week, if we can wait one more week for Josh and Andi everything that would be awesome.

Admin wrote:Moved from another thread.

stuckinsc wrote:I am not sure where to post this opinion, as we don't have a general opinion thread of the bachelorette, but this is my opinion.

I know this is nit picky, but this isn't Josh and Andi's season yet.  It is still Andi's season.  It will only become Josh and Andi's season once Andi picks her F1 on tv on July 28th and it is Josh.

Everytime I read that it is all Josh and Andi, it is like nails on a chalkboard.  

Sorry for the downer, but this is the last week, if we can wait one more week for Josh and Andi everything that would be awesome.

  Am I missing a rule here?  Aren't we allowed to post our opinions freely?  The above post IMO is a directive of how members should post in order to keep certain posters happy.  I have a problem with that.

It's my opinion that this season has been the Josh and Andi show.  They have had the main storyline for weeks.  Nick and the guys are the B story.

cindebugg wrote:

Admin wrote:Moved from another thread.

stuckinsc wrote:I am not sure where to post this opinion, as we don't have a general opinion thread of the bachelorette, but this is my opinion.

I know this is nit picky, but this isn't Josh and Andi's season yet.  It is still Andi's season.  It will only become Josh and Andi's season once Andi picks her F1 on tv on July 28th and it is Josh.

Everytime I read that it is all Josh and Andi, it is like nails on a chalkboard.  

Sorry for the downer, but this is the last week, if we can wait one more week for Josh and Andi everything that would be awesome.

  Am I missing a rule here?  Aren't we allowed to post our opinions freely?  The above post IMO is a directive of how members should post in order to keep certain posters happy.  I have a problem with that.

It's my opinion that this season has been the Josh and Andi show.  They have had the main storyline for weeks.  Nick and the guys are the B story.

If Nick is the B story why did he get so much screen time ? I agree that you should be able to freely state your opinion buy that is all it is. We will not know the ending to the show till after Monday so it is still Andi's show .

cindebugg wrote:

Admin wrote:Moved from another thread.

stuckinsc wrote:I am not sure where to post this opinion, as we don't have a general opinion thread of the bachelorette, but this is my opinion.

I know this is nit picky, but this isn't Josh and Andi's season yet.  It is still Andi's season.  It will only become Josh and Andi's season once Andi picks her F1 on tv on July 28th and it is Josh.

Everytime I read that it is all Josh and Andi, it is like nails on a chalkboard.  

Sorry for the downer, but this is the last week, if we can wait one more week for Josh and Andi everything that would be awesome.

  Am I missing a rule here?  Aren't we allowed to post our opinions freely?  The above post IMO is a directive of how members should post in order to keep certain posters happy.  I have a problem with that.

It's my opinion that this season has been the Josh and Andi show.  They have had the main storyline for weeks.  Nick and the guys are the B story.

I am going to put my neck out there on the chopping block.   

First, let me say the above post was moved to this thread by our admin to the Andi discussion thread for a reason. This is the topic here. 

Secondly, the op (original poster) most graciously IMO expresses her opinion. 


Thirdly, I think --IMOAA--it was stated graciously...did I say that? 

I do not think this is a directive.(which in my mind, in this instance, has a very negative connotation) This is MHO. I also think things need to be stated --um---more "amicably"(graciously) all around, especially considering the admin/mod team moved this post into this thread. 

I'll step down now.

Andi's season has some of the best guys, but man is the forum is so chaotic between Josh and Nick everywhere I go. I almost feel like there should a thread Nick v Josh and everyone attacks Hunger Game style. May the odds ever be in your favor.   

Ok, I'm really kidding about that.

california90 wrote:Andi's season has some of the best guys, but man is the forum is so chaotic between Josh and Nick everywhere I go. I almost feel like there should a thread Nick v Josh and everyone attacks Hunger Game style. May the odds ever be in your favor.   

Ok, I'm really kidding about that.

I know it. It's kind of hilarious.

california90 wrote:Andi's season has some of the best guys, but man is the forum is so chaotic between Josh and Nick everywhere I go. I almost feel like there should a thread Nick v Josh and everyone attacks Hunger Game style. May the odds ever be in your favor.   

Ok, I'm really kidding about that.

But I don't want to compare Nick v Josh, and I don't want to attack any other contestants. (Maybe a little bit towards Andi at times, when she's live tweeting next to Kelly)   

And MF wins again! He has truly galvanized the audience.

Admin wrote:Moved from another thread.

stuckinsc wrote:I am not sure where to post this opinion, as we don't have a general opinion thread of the bachelorette, but this is my opinion.

I know this is nit picky, but this isn't Josh and Andi's season yet.  It is still Andi's season.  It will only become Josh and Andi's season once Andi picks her F1 on tv on July 28th and it is Josh.

Everytime I read that it is all Josh and Andi, it is like nails on a chalkboard.  

Sorry for the downer, but this is the last week, if we can wait one more week for Josh and Andi everything that would be awesome.

This is a form where you can post your opinion, however, I understand what you are saying, and I agree.

I hear you girl. I find the lineup of men in this season to be amazing. First they were all handsome, in their own way (talking about those who made it through the 1st RC), each brings interesting story to the table, and I must say I find them all intelligent and intellectual guys (at least all that made it after the 2nd RC) ... probably a good selection by TPTB for a GA ADA girl. So I actually never felt a need to put down any of them, just because I like one guy more. I would go and say I like "my guy" with Andi more, because I like Andi more when she's with him. But I see her connection with others and I see her great attraction with Josh. The reason I don't write about Josh, despite finding him adorable and really liking him (just like I really like Marcus - in his own right and like I adore Marquel) is because he already has enough vocal group of fans and I feel a need to give a voice to Nick's side, for balance.
I think Andi is, as far as "job" requires, the best Bachelorette ever. This of course implies some great acting skills, a good poker-face, an amazing ability to go with the flow and not over-think it, be selfish and do as you please kind of mentality, because as a lead, she needs to not only choose the right guy for herself, but choose a future fiance (possible husband) and lead the rest of the group happily to their last episode according to TPTB plot edit. She needs to bring certain situations to extremes, because in the "bubble" situation a normality doesn't give enough clear results to come to easy conclusion. I think we all fall in love with a person when we see how they interact with other people around us. It's not just about them together, just 2 people alone, it's about how one deals with the company of the same sex or opposite sex (and here the Bette is the only "subject of desire", so it isn't easy to see that part), pressure, expectations, family, friends, in-laws ...
I think the guys (all of them, including Nick with his "arrogant" behavior - even though for me his actions were dictated more out of selfishness, to do what he wants and needs to come to his own conclusions, than act of arrogance towards the guys) conducted themselves fairly good and respectful, at least I appreciate there was no "behind the back" talking (maybe that is the only reason why some had issues with JJ at the MTA), so everything was done pretty much in their faces, so if there were problems they resolved it, even by going separate ways if they felt their characters don't fit. I think fans get much more emotional and rally against one of the contestants when they feel he wronged their favorite ... even though their issue is probably buried in the past.
As for Andi, she did what she felt that needed to be done, for coming to the final RC and be sure to want that man to propose, with intention to get married ...
I'm sure we can discuss things that we might disagree with her or that we find her decisions unfair or insensitive towards some guy or call her out on the BS that TPTB sells for creating the show, but at the end it is all about the actions and words taken place at that moment in time and doesn't really define the people and their real character outside of the show in real life.