Finale/After the Final Rose March 10

FLChica wrote:I'm dismayed by the amount of time some viewers spend cyber stalking the contestants for any little tidbit of information on their personal lives.  They seem to live vicariously through the contestants' lives which is really sad and a little unnerving.  If you don't worship the same contestants they worship, they'll hound you on a public message board and justify their actions in "support" of their favorite contestant.  I can't imagine that any of the Bachelors / Bachelorettes would want this "support".  

Oh yes, exactly. It's creepy.

notarose wrote:

Mommyof1 wrote:^^  Why do I get the feeling that CH and JP are not best buds?  They seem irritated with one another whenever they chat.  

I'm not all that familiar with CH's sit downs with other leads however I sense he is accustomed to being seen as the guru of fatherly advice.  That's not happening here.  JP has put him on a level playing field and must be wondering:
Why CH is interfering when the issue was between Andi & himself and they already talked it between themselves so why is it CH's business?

I think CH had a good point about dealing with caused hurt but CH was downright silly trying to get JP to "admit I'm right, say it, say it" ( my thought bubble creation)

What I find almost comical about that scene is that CH approaches JuanPa with the question something like "What just happened?" and then proceeds to tell JuanPa what Andi was upset about (kind of gave it away that he already knew). Then CH seems to become frustrated that JuanPa didn't seem to get it that Andi was upset about JuanPa not trying to get to know her on a deeper level when in fact as JuanPa was trying to say (and Chris didn't seem to want to allow him to do so) that Andi had expressed upset not just about that but about a myriad of things including that he (JuanPa) had mentioned Clare, had, at least according to Andi, used the word default to describe her status (I think JuanPa emphasized this one because he was pissed about her putting a word in his mouth that he didn't believe he had used - don't blame him for that), and that he continually used the phrases "it's fine" and "it's okay." So, in fact, JuanPa demonstrated that he had heard Andi and that he actually "got" more of the complete picture than CH seemed to have gotten.

docnash14 wrote:

notarose wrote:

Mommyof1 wrote:^^  Why do I get the feeling that CH and JP are not best buds?  They seem irritated with one another whenever they chat.  

I'm not all that familiar with CH's sit downs with other leads however I sense he is accustomed to being seen as the guru of fatherly advice.  That's not happening here.  JP has put him on a level playing field and must be wondering:
Why CH is interfering when the issue was between Andi & himself and they already talked it between themselves so why is it CH's business?

I think CH had a good point about dealing with caused hurt but CH was downright silly trying to get JP to "admit I'm right, say it, say it" ( my thought bubble creation)

What I find almost comical about that scene is that CH approaches JuanPa with the question something like "What just happened?" and then proceeds to tell JuanPa what Andi was upset about (kind of gave it away that he already knew).  Then CH seems to become frustrated that JuanPa didn't seem to get it that Andi was upset about JuanPa not trying to get to know her on a deeper level when in fact as JuanPa was trying to say (and Chris didn't seem to want to allow him to do so) that Andi had expressed upset not just about that but about a myriad of things including that he (JuanPa) had mentioned Clare, had, at least according to Andi, used the word default to describe her status (I think JuanPa emphasized this one because he was pissed about her putting a word in his mouth that he didn't believe he had used - don't blame him for that), and that he continually used the phrases "it's fine" and "it's okay."  So, in fact, JuanPa demonstrated that he had heard Andi and that he actually "got" more of the complete picture than CH seemed to have gotten.

LOL I totally missed the bolded! Now it's even funnier!!!! I knew he knew but that he actually revealed he knew is just so tweeny.

atem wrote:Seems that Juan Pablo likes it just fine, since he tweets every day.

Juan Pablo acknowledged obsessed fans that hound non-fans on message boards? I don't follow him on Twitter, so I didn't know! Can anyone post these tweets?

pbmax wrote:

Lol! him and Brad was just too hard-headed, they just didn't want to follow the rules. They wanted to go and be all honest and everythang...and they don't like that word, it makes them break out with a rash. They're allergic to that word. hehe

Honesty is not a virtue when TPTB have a story the want to tell...

IMO it is so amusing to read posters out themselves for bashing other posters and not even realize they did it. It gets tough to keep the stories straight sometimes, especially after a long season. LOL. It's all good.

I really like JP, I think this season was good....So what if he doesn't find lasting love most of them don't anyway..

luvlady345 wrote:I really like JP, I think this season was good....So what if he doesn't find lasting love most of them don't anyway..

i'm with you! I just enjoy the fun and getting to know the contestants (as much as we can!). Some i end up really loving and following after, others are just a page on my blog But it's always fun and that's what it's all about.
Now, do take JP's stance and statements abou Venezuela more seriously than the stupid jokes he retweets, yes. But that's because I think people are basically good, with levels of stupid thrown in (I know try - well the stupid comes naturally to me   )

But, I am happy this season is almost over, it is getting a bit heavy on the social media side!

Bring on some new boys

sophienette wrote:

luvlady345 wrote:I really like JP, I think this season was good....So what if he doesn't find lasting love most of them don't anyway..

i'm with you! I just enjoy the fun and getting to know the contestants (as much as we can!). Some i end up really loving and following after, others are just a page on my blog But it's always fun and that's what it's all about.
Now, do  take JP's stance and statements abou Venezuela more seriously than the stupid jokes he retweets, yes. But that's because I think people are basically good, with levels of stupid thrown in (I know try - well the stupid comes naturally to me   )

But, I am happy this season is almost over, it is getting a bit heavy on the social media side!

Bring on some new boys

  

Way to keep the next Bachelorette a secret! LOL

Spending today in @BriSeeley's studio getting our @lesportsac bags ready for @Clare_Crawley @AndiDorfman and @Nikki_Ferrell tomorrow

atem wrote:Way to keep the next Bachelorette a secret!  LOL

Spending today in @BriSeeley's studio getting our @lesportsac bags ready for @Clare_Crawley @AndiDorfman and @Nikki_Ferrell tomorrow

Oops.

Mirzam wrote:

atem wrote:Way to keep the next Bachelorette a secret!  LOL

Spending today in @BriSeeley's studio getting our @lesportsac bags ready for @Clare_Crawley @AndiDorfman and @Nikki_Ferrell tomorrow

Oops.

Here's another tweet to go with ^^ The PR person Maile Cabral was mentioned the other day by someone re: asking if Des & l think Andi are following on twitter but l could be wrong.
Retweeted by Bri Seeley
Maile Cabral PR‏@MailePRMedia·1h
Cutting bow ties for @briseeley for the men on the #Bachelorette. Does this make me a fashion designer???