Episode 9 -- Fantasy Dates -- airs TUESDAY February 25

relaxing wrote:The thing that has really turned me off Andi is the tweets making fun of JP's accent.  So classless rude and unneeded.  Sharleen found the only thing she liked about JP was the physical and that she wasn't interested otherwise, so she left.  But she left classy.  Sure maybe JP was insensitive to Andi's feelings, but take the high road.

Making fun of his accent as your parting shot on twitter is just low and in poor taste.  Many wonderful people aren't Americans with English as their first language!!  You knew he was from another country coming in.

Yes! In fact, I was coming here to post he very same thing. Very cringe worthy.

relaxing wrote:The thing that has really turned me off Andi is the tweets making fun of JP's accent.  So classless rude and unneeded.  Sharleen found the only thing she liked about JP was the physical and that she wasn't interested otherwise, so she left.  But she left classy.  Sure maybe JP was insensitive to Andi's feelings, but take the high road.

Making fun of his accent as your parting shot on twitter is just low and in poor taste.  Many wonderful people aren't Americans with English as their first language!!  You knew he was from another country coming in.

We'll said .. Nooooo need to be insulting when one willingly signs on .. Not kewl at all

When I saw how pissed she was, I figured there's only one reason she was so enraged... she was mad at herself a little too... :whistle: 

bleuberry wrote:

relaxing wrote:The thing that has really turned me off Andi is the tweets making fun of JP's accent.  So classless rude and unneeded.  Sharleen found the only thing she liked about JP was the physical and that she wasn't interested otherwise, so she left.  But she left classy.  Sure maybe JP was insensitive to Andi's feelings, but take the high road.

Making fun of his accent as your parting shot on twitter is just low and in poor taste.  Many wonderful people aren't Americans with English as their first language!!  You knew he was from another country coming in.

Yes! In fact, I was coming here to post he very same thing. Very cringe worthy.

And know the guestion is…..Does Andi and Nikki's friendship effect the outcome of the show?  Nikki posted on IG her feelings about Andi knowing full well what happened.  Plus, I will say that I don't have a true favorite, but I am one here on the forum that through the edit and on this show my thoughts are that I see a little bit of "holier then thou" attitude with Nikki.  It has shown her, not a VO, say that her connection is greater then anyone else's, making fun of Kat "guacamole", saying she didn't want to be on a group date with these women, glad to go out on 1:1 and be out of the house from these women….etc. etc.   Maybe they both have a "negative" attitude and tptb highlighted Nikki's because she was in the F2 and not Andi's.

I thought the whole 2 hours was a trainwreck. IMHO that about says it all.

bleuberry wrote:

relaxing wrote:The thing that has really turned me off Andi is the tweets making fun of JP's accent.  So classless rude and unneeded.  Sharleen found the only thing she liked about JP was the physical and that she wasn't interested otherwise, so she left.  But she left classy.  Sure maybe JP was insensitive to Andi's feelings, but take the high road.

Making fun of his accent as your parting shot on twitter is just low and in poor taste.  Many wonderful people aren't Americans with English as their first language!!  You knew he was from another country coming in.

Yes! In fact, I was coming here to post he very same thing. Very cringe worthy.

I couldn't agree more. The entire thing just felt so odd and fake to me. JP seemed very caught off guard and everything she said did not seem like it was coming from her. There is a reason she didn't confront him in the FS. She wanted the Bachelorette gig and I really feel this was all just a build up for that. She knew she was there "by default" and was getting ready to be let go so she made a story up of it to make him look like the bad guy. As you noticed she only talked about HER in the convo so who is self centered? All she wanted to do was argue and he was over it. I applaud him for sitting there and not going off or arguing back. I really feel JP wasn't feeling it with her and she did probably make it by "default". Honestly the F2 usually does too but they have 2 keep stringing them along because it is a show after all. They aren't going to let him send girls home early just because he knows who he really wants or there woulnd't be a show. At this point I honestly just feel sorry for JP. I feel he was played by TPTB and had no idea what he was getting into. They have basically turned their backs on him and made him look like this. I sincerely think he is a good guy with a language barrier and had no idea what he was doing or getting into. I think he is a strong and very honest man who says how he feels. Andi and the rest of the girls knew what they were getting into, they knew his English wasn't that good. If she didn't like it she should of never come on the show. I also think different cultures have different ways of dealing with things, showing feelings ect. so this is just him and he can't change that.
I think at this point the finale can't come soon enough, he is so ready to write this show off and get on with his life. Hate to say it but looks like next week isn't going to do him much good either....

Just my 2 cents on this lol!

oless4 wrote:

relaxing wrote:The thing that has really turned me off Andi is the tweets making fun of JP's accent.  So classless rude and unneeded.  Sharleen found the only thing she liked about JP was the physical and that she wasn't interested otherwise, so she left.  But she left classy.  Sure maybe JP was insensitive to Andi's feelings, but take the high road.

Making fun of his accent as your parting shot on twitter is just low and in poor taste.  Many wonderful people aren't Americans with English as their first language!!  You knew he was from another country coming in.

Yes!  I agree!

Ditto. JPab is much more gracious in his blog of Andi.

4health wrote:

bleuberry wrote:

relaxing wrote:The thing that has really turned me off Andi is the tweets making fun of JP's accent.  So classless rude and unneeded.  Sharleen found the only thing she liked about JP was the physical and that she wasn't interested otherwise, so she left.  But she left classy.  Sure maybe JP was insensitive to Andi's feelings, but take the high road.

Making fun of his accent as your parting shot on twitter is just low and in poor taste.  Many wonderful people aren't Americans with English as their first language!!  You knew he was from another country coming in.

Yes! In fact, I was coming here to post he very same thing. Very cringe worthy.

And know the guestion is…..Does Andi and Nikki's friendship effect the outcome of the show?  Nikki posted on IG her feelings about Andi knowing full well what happened.  Plus, I will say that I don't have a true favorite, but I am one here on the forum that through the edit and on this show my thoughts are that I see a little bit of "holier then thou" attitude with Nikki.  It has shown her, not a VO, say that her connection is greater then anyone else's, making fun of Kat "guacamole", saying she didn't want to be on a group date with these women, glad to go out on 1:1 and be out of the house from these women….etc. etc.   Maybe they both have a "negative" attitude and tptb highlighted Nikki's because she was in the F2 and not Andi's.

Sorry what did Nikki post on IG please?

see2love wrote:

4health wrote:

bleuberry wrote:

relaxing wrote:The thing that has really turned me off Andi is the tweets making fun of JP's accent.  So classless rude and unneeded.  Sharleen found the only thing she liked about JP was the physical and that she wasn't interested otherwise, so she left.  But she left classy.  Sure maybe JP was insensitive to Andi's feelings, but take the high road.

Making fun of his accent as your parting shot on twitter is just low and in poor taste.  Many wonderful people aren't Americans with English as their first language!!  You knew he was from another country coming in.

Yes! In fact, I was coming here to post he very same thing. Very cringe worthy.

And know the guestion is…..Does Andi and Nikki's friendship effect the outcome of the show?  Nikki posted on IG her feelings about Andi knowing full well what happened.  Plus, I will say that I don't have a true favorite, but I am one here on the forum that through the edit and on this show my thoughts are that I see a little bit of "holier then thou" attitude with Nikki.  It has shown her, not a VO, say that her connection is greater then anyone else's, making fun of Kat "guacamole", saying she didn't want to be on a group date with these women, glad to go out on 1:1 and be out of the house from these women….etc. etc.   Maybe they both have a "negative" attitude and tptb highlighted Nikki's because she was in the F2 and not Andi's.

Sorry what did Nikki post on IG please?

I don't know exactly where it is Litta??? Help…but a picture of herself and Andi in their suite in Miami. and also a tweet saying that they are BFF's for life.

JesseJames24 wrote:

bleuberry wrote:

relaxing wrote:The thing that has really turned me off Andi is the tweets making fun of JP's accent.  So classless rude and unneeded.  Sharleen found the only thing she liked about JP was the physical and that she wasn't interested otherwise, so she left.  But she left classy.  Sure maybe JP was insensitive to Andi's feelings, but take the high road.

Making fun of his accent as your parting shot on twitter is just low and in poor taste.  Many wonderful people aren't Americans with English as their first language!!  You knew he was from another country coming in.

Yes! In fact, I was coming here to post he very same thing. Very cringe worthy.

I couldn't agree more. The entire thing just felt so odd and fake to me. JP seemed very caught off guard and everything she said did not seem like it was coming from her. There is a reason she didn't confront him in the FS. She wanted the Bachelorette gig and I really feel this was all just a build up for that. She knew she was there "by default" and was getting ready to be let go so she made a story up of it to make him look like the bad guy. As you noticed she only talked about HER in the convo so who is self centered? All she wanted to do was argue and he was over it. I applaud him for sitting there and not going off or arguing back. I really feel JP wasn't feeling it with her and she did probably make it by "default". Honestly the F2 usually does too but they have 2 keep stringing them along because it is a show after all. They aren't going to let him send girls home early just because he knows who he really wants or there woulnd't be a show. At this point I honestly just feel sorry for JP. I feel he was played by TPTB and had no idea what he was getting into. They have basically turned their backs on him and made him look like this. I sincerely think he is a good guy with a language barrier and had no idea what he was doing or getting into. I think he is a strong and very honest man who says how he feels. Andi and the rest of the girls knew what they were getting into, they knew his English wasn't that good. If she didn't like it she should of never come on the show. I also think different cultures have different ways of dealing with things, showing feelings ect. so this is just him and he can't change that.
I think at this point the finale can't come soon enough, he is so ready to write this show off and get on with his life. Hate to say it but looks like next week isn't going to do him much good either....

Just my 2 cents on this lol!

Good post!

Also see2love; in Nikki's PI at the F3 RC last night she even mentioned that she has been asked why Andi and Her are such great friends and she said because they are a like, but not this time with moving forward with JP.    Nikki also said that she knew that Andi had her doubts…and Nikki wanted an answer now to the reason why Andi left.   Plus you saw Andi and Kelly making fun of Clare and JP on a group date in Korea so Andi does have a little bit a negativity but tptb didn't highlight it because it didn't go with the storyline….so, it will be interesting to see if she is actually the ette …..my daughter loved Andi at first for weeks but in the past couple weeks she has not been impressed….JMO

It's usually when one doesn't feel good about themselves that they belittle others.