Episode 6 - 7/01 - Bachelorette 9 - Discussion - Spoilers

sfrank wrote:

charriotoffire wrote:

Granted, he's not on a reality show competing for the love of a woman

 

this makes a world of difference.

I hesitate bring this up because its not tied to the Bachelorette but I still think some-what relevant. Based on your avi and signature you are fan of Henry Cavill (aka superman) as I have for years when he was the Duke of Suffolk on Tudors. So you'll have to excuse me for pointing out the irony in your poo-pooing the cast for being effeminate and perhaps disingenuous in their interest of women while adoring Henry who has been accused of the same thing for nearly a decade.

If you have followed him through the years then you are aware that he himself as been accused of being "effeminate" in the past and has been rumored to be gay for years. This is because before Henry made it big in Hollywood, many of his friends were gay and they would hang out everywhere in Hollywood. And while Henry has stated publicly that he is not gay and has dated women, the rumors still persist.

All this does not matter but the larger point I am trying to illustrate is that just because someone doesn't conform to a stereotype doesn't mean that their sexuality should be called into question.  So if they may come off a little effeminate or hang out with gay people in West Hollywood, like Henry, people should be allowed to be who they are and feel comfortable in their own skin without the judgments. Peace.

99% of actors are probably gay and have homosexual experiences.  I know and accept that.  I've been a  fan of Henry Cavill for years.

I don't care about their real sexual preferences in their private lives since I don't have a chance in hell of getting on with them anyway.

However, some  men in the Bachelorette can't even fake it for the viewers to save their lives.  

Take Michael G for example,  when he was in the hot tug he was blatantly playing with his hair like a dainty debutante whilst batting an eyelash

at Ben then  proceeded to cross examine him while managing to sound like Judge Judy.  It was horrifying!

In the Mr America Pageant,  Brooks and Michael were appeasing each other that "if its not me bro, I hope its you, oh gosh were samesies, snaps all around!!

"  while making googly eyes

at each other like they were the only people in the universe at that time.  Im sure they connected but,  I dont want it played out on my tv.

It's bad enough that Brooks sounds and talks exactly like my little sister and seems to be so delicate,  like a wilting flower. You poke him

and he will weep.   He should come with an ambulance cause Im always afraid something's gonna happen to him and Des cannot rescue him in time.

I mean okay,  Henry Cavill might be gay  in real life but he's Superman for goodness sake!  Brooks cannot even pass for

the part of Zan from the Wonder Twins, Catwoman   would kick his ass  and get him hooked up to an EKG machine in 10 seconds flat.


Sometimes its fun to watch these men channel their inner Dolly Parton and flutter their wrists  while complaining about how "vulgar" James is. I imagine
them having pajama parties, (while Des is away)  prancing around to "Its Raining Men"  while exchanging hair care tips.   Its no wonder Bryden had a
nervous breakdown and can't wait to leave.  He's probably wondering how  they managed to cast a bunch of  buffed men
all sounding like Honey Booboo  while throwing a tantrum.  Poor Bryden probably thought he was in the twilight zone)


Except Chris..  Chris is perfect.  Chris is the perfect husband material.  And his poetry is a window to his beautiful soul (... Im just saying this because
I love Murasaki, and Im not gonna mention anything about his receding hairline, his robotic voice, his sucky kissing style and his cheesy poetry, I love Murasaki
that much)

James is a Guido who is Jersey Shore casting reject, Mikey is a crosseyed meathead,  Juan Pablo is a latin sex symbol who probably doesn't
know what's going on 99% of the time.


So I'm forced to like Zak, who I called a butterface and a tall version of an ooompa loompa  early on.  He is the only non effeminate  left and guy

has game!   The fact that he looks old enough to be Chris Harrison's uncle doesnt bother me anymore.  He is the smartest, funniest, best kisser

though I want to put a paper bag on his head half the time.  Zak just might be the guy to save this season for me.




So to the above poster,  its not that Im a homophobe,  far from it.  Its a matter of preference,  dont care if they're gay or not in real life. But when I watch
tv,  just give me the illusion that you sound masculine, you act masculine your character is masculine.  It helps me to imagine you as a straight guy
who will live happily ever after with the lead.  For me if the male lead sounds exactly the same as the female lead, I see them as best girlfriends, I dont see
them as prince charming and cinderella.  



Sorry for the long explanation but this is the last one I promise.  And no offense taken I hope I didn't offend anyone.

Does anyone know who gets the GD rose from the soccer date?

Charriotofire...tell us how you REALLY feel....... I don't agree with much of what you said but some parts were really funny (not your comments about Brooks). Especially liked your praise for Chris because of your devotion to Murasaki. She must be very special.

gruder wrote:Does anyone know who gets the GD rose from the soccer date?

Not James. I don't know who does.

atem wrote:

gruder wrote:Does anyone know who gets the GD rose from the soccer date?

Not James.  I don't know who does.

NOt Juan P...who i was sure would get it...the date was made for him. I wonder if she doesnt give it out at all?? Since she we know she cuts down to 5 guys after this epi.

I enjoy your posts, Chariot! They entertain me and keep me laffing. Thanks.

No worries Chariot! I don't think Henry Cavill is gay. He's been dating the badass Gina Carano, who use to be a mixed martial artist and was just in the Fast & Furious 6 movie. The fact that he is dating her and not some swimsuit model or hollywood starlet is one of the sexiest things about him, IMO!

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DMBFan wrote:No worries Chariot!  I don't think Henry Cavill is gay. :giggling:He's been dating the badass Gina Carano, who use to be a mixed martial artist and was just in the Fast & Furious 6 movie.  The fact that he is dating her and not some swimsuit model or hollywood starlet is one of the sexiest things about him, IMO!  

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I really wish she would come back to MMA.

Di_ATL wrote:

atem wrote:

gruder wrote:Does anyone know who gets the GD rose from the soccer date?

Not James.  I don't know who does.

NOt Juan P...who i was sure would get it...the date was made for him. I wonder if she doesnt give it out at all??      Since she we know she cuts down to 5 guys after this epi.

i wonder why JuanPa gets cut in spain over michael?! i'm thinking producers made her keep michael yet another week because he brings the drama. des seemed to like JuanPa from all the makeout sessions we've seen caps of with them. i don't think she's been making out with michael!

gabriele wrote:

Di_ATL wrote:

atem wrote:

gruder wrote:Does anyone know who gets the GD rose from the soccer date?

Not James.  I don't know who does.

NOt Juan P...who i was sure would get it...the date was made for him. I wonder if she doesnt give it out at all??      Since she we know she cuts down to 5 guys after this epi.

i wonder why JuanPa gets cut in spain over michael?! i'm thinking producers made her keep michael yet another week because he brings the drama. des seemed to like JuanPa from all the makeout sessions we've seen caps of with them. i don't think she's been making out with michael!

The bolded may be exactly why she cut Juan Pa before Michael. Get rid of the sexy kisser that may cause F1 some stress!

Great to see one of your lively posts once again Charriot!

Lol charriot! That was all so funny! I agree with most expect chris' hairline!!! How dare you??? That's manly and sexy!!! Just joking, please don't delete your henry cavill avi to torture me.