Ashley & JP - Site and Wedding Updates - Discussion

CarrieA wrote:I don't see the big deal with them not being together anyways (even though apparently they wont be for much longer because JP's going to Mexico) They are engaged not married. It's not like she is missing their first wedding anniversary. When they miss their first wedding anniversary because Ashley is playing with friends in Mexico then I will change my mind

prettyinpink wrote:

Archer23 wrote:Ultimately, JP's opinion is the only one relevant to me. If he doesn't have a problem (and he obviously doesn't), it boggles my mind why anyone else would.

Anyway, I hope they have a great time when Ashley get home.

I totally understand what you are saying Archer, and you are right about the only opinion that matters is JP's. He does seem fine with it. It is not so much this Mexico trip that is bothering me, but the fact that she went to LA for a Winesbywives launch party for three days, knowing she would be gone for their anniversary weekend. I just feel she could have sacrificed one party for the other. Also, I might be old fashioned but I dont think I would be ok with my husband going out early in the morning for a snack with a married woman. I really have my doubts that Ashley would be ok with JP doing this. I am sure it was harmless, but just dont think it was appropriate. JMO

If you're old fashioned then I am, too, PrettyInPink because I agree with every word you wrote.Why on earth would she choose to be gone on their anniversary? That should have been more important to her than any other party, IMO. Sure JP probably did tell her it was OK, but it had to have stung him just a little bit and it's small things like this that can cause resentment to start creeping in. I hope in the end they will be OK, but the history of the show's couples doesn't speak will. ; (

They are still going to celebrate it. Why is it a big deal that it won't be on the exact day?

arcuel wrote:They are still going to celebrate it. Why is it a big deal that it won't be on the exact day?

I don't know. IMO it's up to them what and how much significance they place on the anniversary of their engagement. I've been married for almost 10 years and we celebrate our WEDDING anniversary. But even if others are reading too much into it, they are STILL going to be together today. Oh well, some will complain no matter what

Thomigirl wrote:

arcuel wrote:They are still going to celebrate it. Why is it a big deal that it won't be on the exact day?

I don't know. IMO it's up to them what and how much significance they place on the anniversary of their engagement. I've been married for almost 10 years and we celebrate our WEDDING anniversary. But even if others are reading too much into it, they are STILL going to be together today. Oh well, some will complain no matter what

So now an opinion has turned into complaining... Sometimes I think I'm back at the place that started with a F and ended with a T Sheesh!!!! @@

prettyinpink wrote:

Archer23 wrote:Ultimately, JP's opinion is the only one relevant to me. If he doesn't have a problem (and he obviously doesn't), it boggles my mind why anyone else would.

Anyway, I hope they have a great time when Ashley get home.

I totally understand what you are saying Archer, and you are right about the only opinion that matters is JP's. He does seem fine with it. It is not so much this Mexico trip that is bothering me, but the fact that she went to LA for a Winesbywives launch party for three days, knowing she would be gone for their anniversary weekend. I just feel she could have sacrificed one party for the other. Also, I might be old fashioned but I dont think I would be ok with my husband going out early in the morning for a snack with a married woman. I really have my doubts that Ashley would be ok with JP doing this. I am sure it was harmless, but just dont think it was appropriate. JMO

Well, apparently JP was out for lunch or dinner yesterday with Nancy Schuster, and she's SINGLE. Is that inappropriate too?

Seriously, I don't get all the hand-wringing and judgment about how they choose to live their lives. Just because they may do things differently than some of us would, it doesn't make them wrong and I don't understand why people are so anxious to find fault. I really think it's unfair (mostly to Ashley, as she's the one people seem to think is constantly on the verge of ditching JP in order to chase fame in L.A.) to judge a relationship, which we really know nothing about, and find it lacking just because it's not the way we would do things. They're both grown-ups with good heads on their shoulders. Why can't we trust them to decide what's best for them and their relationship?

Just catching up from the w/e and jeez Louise! Is there anyone on this board who can say precisely why Ashley went to LA last week, and what she might have been doing in addition to attending one party? I think people are making judgements based on a very small amount of information. It's like watching the Bach/Bachelorette and trying to guess what's really going on although only a tiny percent of what is filmed is actually shown.

instinct wrote:Just catching up from the w/e and jeez Louise! Is there anyone on this board who can say precisely why Ashley went to LA last week, and what she might have been doing in addition to attending one party? I think people are making judgements based on a very small amount of information. It's like watching the Bach/Bachelorette and trying to guess what's really going on although only a tiny percent of what is filmed is actually shown.

Does anyone think that Ashley could have been using the WBW party as a cover to go work with TPTB to finalize wedding details??

We know it's coming soon - remember the "future Mrs. Rosenbaum" jacket, guys! The cupcake couple is fine :Smiley:

IF we see Ashley blowing off her residency and her new hubby to go party it up in LA, then I'll start to be skeptical - but as of right now, what they are doing seems to work for them, so I'm just gonna sit back and watch the cuteness :Smiley:

I've been married 17 years and we don't really make a big deal out of our anniversary. We'll get cards for each other and maybe a nice bottle of wine to share, but that is all. I'd rather be surprised on days that aren't our anniversary, for no particular reason. As for celebrating the one year anniversary of when they got engaged, I personally wouldn't make a big deal out of that day at all.

I have a feeling the wedding will be this summer/JULY. Emily's season will be over. Could the wedding air the first monday in Aug. Abc only gave 4-6 weeks before Jason and Molly's wedding someone said. did abc start emily's season a week early? why did abc move up the start date?

ninu wrote:

instinct wrote:Just catching up from the w/e and jeez Louise! Is there anyone on this board who can say precisely why Ashley went to LA last week, and what she might have been doing in addition to attending one party? I think people are making judgements based on a very small amount of information. It's like watching the Bach/Bachelorette and trying to guess what's really going on although only a tiny percent of what is filmed is actually shown.

Does anyone think that Ashley could have been using the WBW party as a cover to go work with TPTB to finalize wedding details??

We know it's coming soon - remember the "future Mrs. Rosenbaum" jacket, guys! The cupcake couple is fine :Smiley:

IF we see Ashley blowing off her residency and her new hubby to go party it up in LA, then I'll start to be skeptical - but as of right now, what they are doing seems to work for them, so I'm just gonna sit back and watch the cuteness :Smiley:

I don't know about that since weren't TPTB all out of the country still filming Emily's season? She may have gone there for more than just the WBW party but I would think if it were for wedding specifics JP would have also gone. JMO

lizb wrote: I have a feeling the wedding will be this summer/JULY. Emily's season will be over. Could the wedding air the first monday in Aug. Abc only gave 4-6 weeks before Jason and Molly's wedding someone said. did abc start emily's season a week early? why did abc move up the start date?

I think they moved up the date by a week so as not to have the finale compete with the Olympics. Speaking for myself only, I would ditch the Bachelorette in a heartbeat for the Olympics, so whether that was the reason or not, I'm glad I won't have to make that choice. :Smiley: As for the wedding, I doubt it would be in July, since Ashley starts her residency July 1. I would think she would want a least a month or so to settle into the program before getting married, but who knows? I definitely think they'll be married in or before fall, and I can't wait to watch it, whenever it happens!