Ashley & JP - Site and Wedding Updates - Discussion

Could be she is coming home and they are going back together. Doubt JP would be away on Mother's Day.

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So many theories, how dare JASH not inform us about their plans i think JP is going to visit his mom for mothers day and stay for a while and then leave Boo with them and head to Mexico to be with Ashley..

I dont know, I find her actions from the past week a little selfish, but that is jmo!!

jashfan wrote:So many theories, how dare JASH not inform us about their plans i think JP is going to visit his mom for mothers day and stay for a while and then leave Boo with them and head to Mexico to be with Ashley..

THIS.

48 days until residency starts. 18 days or so until the move to NJ. So many things to do. So little time to get it all done. Life is gonna change...big time.

Ultimately, JP's opinion is the only one relevant to me. If he doesn't have a problem (and he obviously doesn't), it boggles my mind why anyone else would.

Anyway, I hope they have a great time when Ashley get home.

Archer23 wrote:Ultimately, JP's opinion is the only one relevant to me. If he doesn't have a problem (and he obviously doesn't), it boggles my mind why anyone else would.

Anyway, I hope they have a great time when Ashley get home.

I totally understand what you are saying Archer, and you are right about the only opinion that matters is JP's. He does seem fine with it. It is not so much this Mexico trip that is bothering me, but the fact that she went to LA for a Winesbywives launch party for three days, knowing she would be gone for their anniversary weekend. I just feel she could have sacrificed one party for the other. Also, I might be old fashioned but I dont think I would be ok with my husband going out early in the morning for a snack with a married woman. I really have my doubts that Ashley would be ok with JP doing this. I am sure it was harmless, but just dont think it was appropriate. JMO

Archer23 wrote:JP's anniversary message to Ashley. So sweet!

May 13 – It was 1 year ago today that I proposed to the woman of my dreams. Wishing the love of my a life a very happy first anniversary. Thank you for all that you do and all that you are. I’m by far the luckiest man on earth and I have no idea what I would ever do without you. I love you.

ETA: There was a picture too!

Love!! I have no doubt this was taken shortly after the FRC -- same hair, same nail polish, bright new ring. Super cute!

prettyinpink wrote:

Archer23 wrote:Ultimately, JP's opinion is the only one relevant to me. If he doesn't have a problem (and he obviously doesn't), it boggles my mind why anyone else would.

Anyway, I hope they have a great time when Ashley get home.

I totally understand what you are saying Archer, and you are right about the only opinion that matters is JP's. He does seem fine with it. It is not so much this Mexico trip that is bothering me, but the fact that she went to LA for a Winesbywives launch party for three days, knowing she would be gone for their anniversary weekend. I just feel she could have sacrificed one party for the other. Also, I might be old fashioned but I dont think I would be ok with my husband going out early in the morning for a snack with a married woman. I really have my doubts that Ashley would be ok with JP doing this. I am sure it was harmless, but just dont think it was appropriate. JMO

"Sacrificed one party for the other?" Who are we to say which events in Ashley's life are important or not?
I can't tell you how many times when I was engaged that I had out of town wedding showers or other obligations in which I had to be away from my fiance. We were a long distance couple so missing my fiance for consecutive weekends was certainly difficult. But because we had such a strong relationship it was ok....absence does make the heart grow fonder in a SOLID relationship!

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prettyinpink wrote:

Archer23 wrote:Ultimately, JP's opinion is the only one relevant to me. If he doesn't have a problem (and he obviously doesn't), it boggles my mind why anyone else would.

Anyway, I hope they have a great time when Ashley get home.

I totally understand what you are saying Archer, and you are right about the only opinion that matters is JP's. He does seem fine with it. It is not so much this Mexico trip that is bothering me, but the fact that she went to LA for a Winesbywives launch party for three days, knowing she would be gone for their anniversary weekend. I just feel she could have sacrificed one party for the other. Also, I might be old fashioned but I dont think I would be ok with my husband going out early in the morning for a snack with a married woman. I really have my doubts that Ashley would be ok with JP doing this. I am sure it was harmless, but just dont think it was appropriate. JMO

"Sacrificed one party for the other?" Who are we to say which events in Ashley's life are important or not?
I can't tell you how many times when I was engaged that I had out of town wedding showers or other obligations in which I had to be away from my fiance. We were a long distance couple so missing my fiance for consecutive weekends was certainly difficult. But because we had such a strong relationship it was ok....absence does make the heart grow fonder in a SOLID relationship!

LOL, I guess I should have known my post would spark some strong opinions. It is ok to express your opinion as it is ok for me to express mine. I understand what you are saying, and I am very happy your hearts grew fonder!!! All i was saying is that since she was going to be gone for their anniversary weekend, maybe she could have spent the week with JP. I personally think my fiancee' is more important than a winebywives launch party, especially since they were at the one in NYC. However, you are right, it is up to Ashley to decide what is important to her. JP is a wonderful man, and I think he deserves the best.

Woo hoo, I was right. They ARE going to spend their anniversary together in Mexico!

I don't see the big deal with them not being together anyways (even though apparently they wont be for much longer because JP's going to Mexico) They are engaged not married. It's not like she is missing their first wedding anniversary. When they miss their first wedding anniversary because Ashley is playing with friends in Mexico then I will change my mind