Devin Strader - Bachelorette 21 - Discussion

I've been reading the details of the restraining order, and I'm stunned. Whatever I was imagining, it wasn't something at that level. He honestly thought that he could come on a TV show and get national exposure, and this *wouldn't* come out? Jenn was very lucky to have walked away from him so soon after the final. She must be breathing a big sigh of relief right about now. She will have a lot of people around her during DWTS, and will be kept very busy with rehearsals and performances. Hopefully Sasha and the others can help to keep a close eye on her.

Never mind a European vacation. I think TB producers owe her a bodyguard for a certain length of time.

https://ew.com/bachelorette-devin-strader-arrested-2017-burglary-restraining-order-ex-girlfriend-8713522

Oh lordy. And he thought this would stay away and nobody would find out!?

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https://variety.com/2024/tv/news/bachelorette-winner-devin-strader-arrest-restraining-order-1236147550/

https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/bachelorette-jenn-trans-ex-fiance-devin-strader-had-a-restraining-order/

Devin's misdeeds are proven while Marcus are alleged. Is one shadier than the other? If so, I'd guess Devin. Jenn is lucky things turned out the way they did.

Wow. Poor Jenn. She really did get the worst cast.

Norcalgal wrote:Devin's misdeeds are proven while Marcus are alleged. Is one shadier than the other? If so, I'd guess Devin. Jenn is lucky things turned out the way they did.

What ever happened to Marcus’ alleged dumpster fire? Aren’t we expecting to see her brother sharing that info with Jenn during MTPs?

@luvstx I have 2 thoughts - one is RS could not verify the allegations and did not go any further with it and one is perhaps it was a rumor (maybe he even created it to get viewers) that her brother had tea and told Jenn at the MTP episode.

I am reading this book and found this so interesting - I realize Marcus wasn't an officer but I'm sure the training was equally as daunting. In this book, Gene Yu, describes the use of random sex as a regular release from the stress of their missions. I AM NOT approving of this but I suspect Marcus' actions were just part of Army life, one that I can see continuing after discharge. It's a very dark side of the military.