Tyler Cameron - Bachelorette 15 - Discussion #3

Tea from Reddit: Tyler was seen checking into a hotel room with Jen Selter https://www.instagram.com/jenselter/ in NY before he went to LA. They were following each other on IG, but then unfollowed each other when Tyler was spotted with Stassie.

He started following Jen Selter not too long ago. Sometime this month. Guess it was a one and done.

Seriously, what is this obsession with these women posting pictures of their a**?

I like Tyler. I think he is a decent guy, but he is young and seems to still be trying to find himself. I hope he is able to keep a good balance between having fun and seizing the opportunities and not screwing himself over a la Blake.

Sprite wrote:Seriously, what is this obsession with these women posting pictures of their a**?

I like Tyler. I think he is a decent guy, but he is young and seems to still be trying to find himself. I hope he is able to keep a good balance between having fun and seizing the opportunities and not screwing himself over a la Blake.

To get the attention of men? I mean...it obviously worked with Tyler.

I think Tyler is a chameleon and is influenced strongly by who he surrounds himself with. On the show we saw the more wholesome aspect of his personality that we also see when he is with his family. When he's with people like the Kardashians and their hanger-ons, we see the less wholesome aspect of his personality.

He's very young and figuring things out, but I hope he doesn't go the Blake route and stays true to himself. JMO

I’m uncomfortable with blaming women for men’s actions. He just met stassie and the jenners and met them after the hook up with Jen (assuming that’s true). Jen is in NY, not LA. The fans go hard at
Matt James but he seems like a normal guy on the nerdy side at that. He works a normal job and does a lot of community service. We haven’t seen him out partying with Tyler. I think Tyler is just being Tyler. All JMO

Summerfun1980 wrote:I’m uncomfortable with blaming women for men’s actions. He just met stassie and the jenners and met them after the hook up with Jen (assuming that’s true). Jen is in NY, not LA. The fans go hard at
Matt James but he seems like a normal guy on the nerdy side at that. He works a normal job and does a lot of community service. We haven’t seen him out partying with Tyler. I think Tyler is just being Tyler. All JMO

I think the person most to blame in the poor optics of the Stassie hook-up is Tyler and the second is Dylan (who seemed to enjoy being photographed with the Kardashians at the Rams game - he was waving while Tyler was hiding) . While Matt hasn't been seen clubbing with the Kardashians, he definitely encouraged Tyler with the Gigi situation (remember all of his ridiculous memes) and he has an Instagram post with him on a horse at the Hadid farm. He seemed to very much enjoy the proximity to fame with the Hadids.

I certainly don't blame women for men's actions and I also don't think hanging out with the Kardashians or the Hadids or any of their various hanger-ons is anything to be proud of. JMO.

Matt wanting Tyler to move on from Hannah is not the same as encouraging all of Tyler’s post show actions. I’m sure Matt was invited to the farm and did not invite himself. Going to a farm is not the same as out partying etc. Matt doesn’t seem to be on that scene at all and probably can’t be because he works a full time job.

Dylan didn’t seem into it to me. He looked awkward in a lot of pics and did not go out with them after. And if you see the full clip of them on the screen, Tyler was not hiding. He was laughing and smiling and at one point bent to the side laughing and was looking around, behind him, a little tipsy. He then did a stroll for the paparazzi with stassi at a club so he was not trying to hide anything.

All JMO

Summerfun1980 wrote:I’m uncomfortable with blaming women for men’s actions. He just met stassie and the jenners and met them after the hook up with Jen (assuming that’s true). Jen is in NY, not LA. The fans go hard at
Matt James but he seems like a normal guy on the nerdy side at that. He works a normal job and does a lot of community service. We haven’t seen him out partying with Tyler. I think Tyler is just being Tyler. All JMO

*edited*  Yes Tyler is being Tyler still does lots of community service. Has a great time with the kids. Enjoyed his Thanksgiving with friends and family. Out shopping with Matt now and still posting about food like he always has. He has a job that suits him well. Every person who has met Tyler says he is a great guy. Even RS couldn’t find any dirt on him because he was well liked in high school and college. JMO rant over

whit90 wrote:

Summerfun1980 wrote:I’m uncomfortable with blaming women for men’s actions. He just met stassie and the jenners and met them after the hook up with Jen (assuming that’s true). Jen is in NY, not LA. The fans go hard at
Matt James but he seems like a normal guy on the nerdy side at that. He works a normal job and does a lot of community service. We haven’t seen him out partying with Tyler. I think Tyler is just being Tyler. All JMO

*Edited*  Yes Tyler is being Tyler still does lots of community service. Has a great time with the kids. Enjoyed his Thanksgiving with friends and family. Out shopping with Matt now and still posting about food like he always has. He has a job that suits him well. Every person who has met Tyler says he is a great guy. Even RS couldn’t find any dirt on him because he was well liked in high school and college. JMO rant over

You are attacking the wrong person. I never body shamed stassie or said anything negative about her. And another poster posted tea from Reddit about Tyler and Jen. That didn’t come from me.  What are you talking about?

The only opinion I gave was about Tyler looking out of it in pics/videos, which was my opinion.

Summerfun1980 wrote:

whit90 wrote:

Summerfun1980 wrote:I’m uncomfortable with blaming women for men’s actions. He just met stassie and the jenners and met them after the hook up with Jen (assuming that’s true). Jen is in NY, not LA. The fans go hard at
Matt James but he seems like a normal guy on the nerdy side at that. He works a normal job and does a lot of community service. We haven’t seen him out partying with Tyler. I think Tyler is just being Tyler. All JMO

*Edited*  Yes Tyler is being Tyler still does lots of community service. Has a great time with the kids. Enjoyed his Thanksgiving with friends and family. Out shopping with Matt now and still posting about food like he always has. He has a job that suits him well. Every person who has met Tyler says he is a great guy. Even RS couldn’t find any dirt on him because he was well liked in high school and college. JMO rant over

You are attacking the wrong person. I never body shamed stassie or said anything negative about her. And another poster posted tea from Reddit about Tyler and Jen. That didn’t come from me.  What are you talking about?

The only opinion I gave was about Tyler looking out of it in pics/videos, which was my opinion.

Sorry you are right it is another poster @Blieiby that said those things . I just don’t understand why he is being trashed by others for being a single man doing what most people do at that age. My mistake and sorry again.