Bachelorette 15 - Hannah Brown - Media - SM - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #11

@suzq Maybe Tyler can connect Matt to Hannah for that apology when they go west coast Friday. I, too, hope an apology is made. Perhaps it has been dealt with privately. I don't think they owe us a public statement. I also don't think Tyler should drop Matt as a friend because of Matt's IG stories. It was petty, but each and every one of these contestants have posted something just as shady if not worse than the memes he posted. This guy has been a friend to Tyler for years and was there for Tyler when he got back from being dumped on the show. I would hate to see a friendship ruined because of a few IG stories. Most importantly, they are doing great work with their charity and I don't want to see all the progress go to waste. JMO.

@allykat I don't expect anything less than a few pap shots of them going in and out of her apartment. Maybe she can join his food tour  P.s. Charlie

I believe Hannah knew about Tyler's date because she posted the Ford model IG story the same morning Tyler left her place and before the date.

As far as timing, I said the other day, is there a specific time frame of mourning when you are allowed to start dating you are not in a relationship to begin with? Once these people are off the show, they are free to date whomever and whenever they want IMHO.

I read a post somewhere here that she said she wasn't clear on where they stood, well, here we go again. If Tyler spent the night there, and they talked, according to her, would you not make sure you have a clear understanding of where the two of you stand? Would you not come right out and say, are we seeing other people, are you trying to sort your feelings, what exactly is going on? IMHO she would have taken him back in a heartbeat, and I'm not so sure it's because she was so gaga over him. He on the other hand had a lot of time to digest what happened and was more than ready to move on.

@Summerfun1980 totally agree with your post and the reason I didn't want her to be the 'ette.

I don’t think they’ll see each other this trip. That’s a quick turnaround. She’s still in her feelings about Gigi, so she might not want to see him. And she’s annoyed by the press. If they’re seen together so soon, that’s going to start another wave. But she needs to get her bag back. maybe she can send a friend to get it. Lol

Isn’t his shoot on the 12th? Guess he’s staying until then?

I read at another site that they heard Tyler lead  Hannah to believe that they would hang out more and be together after his court date.  But he didn't go to court he went on a date with Gigi instead.  This also make sense because of what she said to Rachel and Ali on the pod cast about their private conversations. I guess we will have to see if anymore comes out.

@nannymargie I saw that too except his court appearance was supposed to be in Florida and she’s in LA? Was he planning to fly to FL, then CA just to hang with her? It’s clear they were not on the same page IMO but this one confused me.

Maybe he was going to hang out with her. Maybe his lawyer told him he didn't need to be there. Does he have to check in with her at all times now?

If he planned on hanging out with her, after all the shading the last couple of days, I don't blame him if he changes his mind. These two cannot just hang out IMHO because she wants more.

@nannymargie Tyler was likely never planning to go back to FL for his court date. He did a goodbye/I love Fl post before he left for ATFR. And at least in FL, I know it’s common for the lawyer only to handle the traffic/accident violations. Plus, if he was planning to go back to FL, he would’ve never gone back to NY at all after the finale. Gigi’s date has been on his calendar. JMO

chicagoowl wrote:

Summerfun1980 wrote:@appiah01 The problem is Hannah hasn't developed the true confidence you described yet.  She can fake it, but then she cracks quickly because it's not real. She's all talk. The woman was obsessed with Luke and Jed a few short months ago, that tells you right there what she thinks of herself.  And true confidence is not developed in a couple months no matter what she says.  When watching her videos, ig posts, interviews, it's just very obvious to me that she's just wearing the pageant smile and is severely struggling on this inside (not just about tyler, but about everything). She needs to sit in a therapist's office and that's no shade, but my honest thoughts.  She might have had an entertaining season but I'm not sure how good it was for her mentally or emotionally.  She needs to at least do something positive to deal like Tyler did with his running and diving into abcfoodtours.  Hannah seems to just be sitting around in LA and going to BN stuff and meetings.  That stuff doesn't help her get better, mentally. JMO

Yes, yes, yes! This. It's almost word for word what I was thinking. It's about the law of attraction... what you put out, you get back. If you seek drama and dysfunction, that's what you'll get. And... she spent her whole season hyper-focused on drama with Luke and then Jed. I don't think she understands how to be with someone like Tyler.

IMO once she actually had him back, fawning and loving and caring for her, Hannah would be bored with Tyler. That girl loves the whole “oh, I’m so mmaaadddd!” She thrives on chaos and tears and disfunction and uncertainty. She brought it to her season almost every week. IMO She is reactionary and blows up when she doesn’t get her way. She strikes out when there is disapproval or criticism and goes for the jugular. IMO as beautiful as she is, she is insecure, a lethal combination. Everyone knows women like that. IMO, It takes a lot of serious work to get past that behavior because it’s deep-rooted. I don’t expect her to do the work. Her beauty will assure her of a partner who puts up with the tantrums and many men will find the passion that fuels that hair trigger temper, exciting. She’ll eventually find the right mate. Fortunately, shel gave Tyler the opportunity to figure out its not him. That’s a good thing. All IMO.

@allykat I doubt it.

IMO Men have ego's and after her dumping him publicly on National TV like she did maybe when CH asked her " What are you thinking"? She could've elaborated a little more towards Tyler and the mistake she made not choosing him yada yada ( you can even see the women in the audience behind her shaking her head NO) as Hannah is talking about what SHE learned and how SHE grew and how SHE knows what she wants in a relationship now ect... I know she just broke off an engagement but God for someone who wants her F2 back IDK I think she could've just swallowed some pride and let it all out... that's JMO who knows maybe she did just that in private. I hope she continues to reach out, be a good friend, make it a point to hang with him & his friends and chase him a little now., he chased her for 8 weeks, maybe he needs that from her if there's anything left of his feelings. Hey it worked for Ashley and Jared. Ya just never know. I say Go after what you want . jmo

Am I the only one who thinks that Han doesnt give a crap about getting the bag back?

1. When I loan something, I never loan something that I would be really pissed off about missing bc chances are u are not going to get it back. She probably got the bag free from the show to hold some of the free swag she has gotten and probably doesnt value it.

2. I think she has a lot of things going on in her life to worry about a bag.

3. If they dont meet again, Tyler could easily ship it back via UPS. It only costs $25. No elaborate arrangements or angst necessary.

It cracks me up that there could be thousands of people stressed about that stupid bag. Who cares about these people’s love lives WE NEED BAG CLOSURE!!!