Bachelorette 15 - Hannah Brown - General Discussion - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #4

appiah01 wrote:I actually believe him when he says there are still feelings there. But he did get hurt and not many people want to stick their hand back on a flame to potentially get burned again. Maybe he really does just need some time to see if he can trust her and if the feelings are more than nostalgia and friendship. And in the meantime, dating other people gives him a point of comparison. And Hannah knows she needs to give him that space because as she acknowledged, she hurt him. Maybe they don't work out but more likely they need time and space. (although if I was Hannah, I would shut down so fast after the guy I liked went out with Gigi Hadid. My need to self-protect would go into overdrive).

avacaroline wrote:

Pichic121 wrote:

Billysmom wrote:So anyone guessing what might have been the straw that broke the camels back if Tyler is really not interested in getting back with Hannah?  The Frc? Windmill? Long distance (which supposedly she'd discussed with her final guys)? could Tyler be afraid of the ghost of Jed? I'm flummoxed, because of any guy we've met in bn he seems like the only one who might've been able to rise above all of these seeming impediments. But maybe that would have cost him too much....? Did Hannah's proclamation of herself as strong and independent make him feel un-needed?? 

I'm presently thinking his heart still wants her but his head is thinking she needs time to heal and be certain of her feelings and he needs time to heal and be sure he's not just being a doormat. But unicorn that he is I think his concern for Hannah's well being is still the hugest factor. Or at least it would be for the Tyler I've created in my mind, .

It seemed so perfect, each of them sorta between real jobs, having flexibility, perhaps doing dwts together. So much fun. But not to be.
Part of me applauds their seeming maturity, the other part of me thinks, you silly fools, you can grow together (there's a song by ben platt about that...) - as long as you are similar enough and respectful enough, etc etc. 

But maybe each had served his purpose in the others life already, and it's time to move on. Personally, if I were Hannah, I'd unfollow him. Not healthy. Jmo

I’ve been wondering the same thing, honestly.  I just need an answer as to why.  

Gigi Hadid. Not many 20 somethings would turn down the chance with her and she seems to get what she wants. Unfortunately, she’ll chew him up and spit him out the minute the next shiny object comes along.

IMO

Summerfun1980 wrote:@appiah01 Honestly, Gigi is more likely to quickly drop him than the average girl he meets. Tyler meeting some nice girl somewhere who is ready to settle down is more of a threat. Gigi could be done with him in a week. IMO

Summerfun1980 wrote:@appiah01 Honestly, Gigi is more likely to quickly drop him than the average girl he meets. Tyler meeting some nice girl somewhere who is ready to settle down is more of a threat. Gigi could be done with him in a week. IMO

Pichic121 wrote:

avacaroline wrote:

Pichic121 wrote:

Billysmom wrote:So anyone guessing what might have been the straw that broke the camels back if Tyler is really not interested in getting back with Hannah?  The Frc? Windmill? Long distance (which supposedly she'd discussed with her final guys)? could Tyler be afraid of the ghost of Jed? I'm flummoxed, because of any guy we've met in bn he seems like the only one who might've been able to rise above all of these seeming impediments. But maybe that would have cost him too much....? Did Hannah's proclamation of herself as strong and independent make him feel un-needed?? 

I'm presently thinking his heart still wants her but his head is thinking she needs time to heal and be certain of her feelings and he needs time to heal and be sure he's not just being a doormat. But unicorn that he is I think his concern for Hannah's well being is still the hugest factor. Or at least it would be for the Tyler I've created in my mind, .

It seemed so perfect, each of them sorta between real jobs, having flexibility, perhaps doing dwts together. So much fun. But not to be.
Part of me applauds their seeming maturity, the other part of me thinks, you silly fools, you can grow together (there's a song by ben platt about that...) - as long as you are similar enough and respectful enough, etc etc. 

But maybe each had served his purpose in the others life already, and it's time to move on. Personally, if I were Hannah, I'd unfollow him. Not healthy. Jmo

I’ve been wondering the same thing, honestly.  I just need an answer as to why.  

Gigi Hadid. Not many 20 somethings would turn down the chance with her and she seems to get what she wants. Unfortunately, she’ll chew him up and spit him out the minute the next shiny object comes along.

IMO

That’s actually kind of sad that he’s a shiny new toy. IMO
I don’t find her attractive at all.  Neither do my 20 something boys.  To each their own, I guess.

HavaDrPepper wrote:

Summerfun1980 wrote:@appiah01 Honestly, Gigi is more likely to quickly drop him than the average girl he meets. Tyler meeting some nice girl somewhere who is ready to settle down is more of a threat. Gigi could be done with him in a week. IMO

I honestly know nothing about her. Never heard of her before...

My first impression of her though was that she will use anybody she can to stay relevant.  Even a C-list reality star.

And, looking at photos of her last night, I am of the opinion that Hannah is much prettier.

IMO