Bachelorette Australia - Season 4 - Ali Oetjen - Episodes #2 - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

LeapofFaith wrote:@AllAboutLove  Thanks  Seriously though when Taite is on the screen i can't watch their relationship reminds me of  highschool just pash no substance

Popcorn For All wrote:

AllAboutLove wrote:@LeapofFaith woohoo welcome to the part that I am here for as well   

I can't work Taite out either. I don't see him interested in Ali like past F1s were in their leads. I honestly feel like he is into her physically but that is all it is.Like he wants to bang her but that's about it. 

He's been on reality tv First Dates before and was sleazy acting there and all about the physical on that show too. I think it's just physical for him with Ali and there's not much of an emotional connection. 

I don't see it lasting with Taite and honestly it's like he is being pushed to chase her (fight for her as she said) but he's not really into it. I don't see it 

I agree, imo it is physical, but even then, I don't think he is that physically attracted to her either' he may be moderately attracted to her  and I think he can see she is good looking her but there may still be something about her looks that doesn't really captivate Taite. He may not be into big breasts either (I know many men who like small breasts and hate fake breasts), or her mouth, or just something about her that doesn't quite please Taite. Sometimes I think he kisses Ali to avoid talking to her and the way he responds to her questions makes me feel that he doesn't necessarily want to spend too much time with her, that he feels uncomfortable and resourceless after spending a long time with her. That is all IMO

Sundy wrote:@Bobette I noticed the ‘close business here’ too. Weird. Maybe nerves, maybe a reshoot. On a similar but slightly different note Sam F took Richie out of Sydney to Victoria For a F3 date. Goventhough thatthere has not been a helicopter in sight this season I would doubt it would be anything extravagant

Enough wrote:On the website, they put up the waltz that Taite danced with Ali. I know some of you did mention about the waltz. Why was it not shown last night?
They both even talked about the wedding dance

AllAboutLove wrote: Taite not being shown makes sense considering he got the SD. Reminds me so much of Sam and Sasha/F1 where he got so much extra time and yet he still wasn't all in like she was. Production BTS had to work HARD to get Sasha to stay on the show even though Sam made it all about him. It was a huge red flag to me back then. Ali working so hard chasing Taite and him not chasing her already giving me shades of Sasha/F1 (and even Sasha acted more into Sam than Taite does imo)

Popcorn For All wrote:

HEA wrote:

But him doing bodybuilding to gain confidence. yes. To not be able to articulate his feelings... well news flash here: most guys are the same.

I disagree, what you are stating is not a fact (you are stating it as a fact), it  is a subjective perception. Even my opinion isn't factual. In my experience most guys have been perfectly capable to articulate their feelings when they were really into the girls .My exes, friends, brother, cousins etc, express their feelings well when they really want to do it, the rest are excuses. If we are talking about teenagers, perhaps they have difficulties because of brain development, but a man over 25 usually knows when he wants a girl and wants to let her know about it. In spite of that,  I cannot claim that 'most men of the world' are the same, but only what I have seen in my experience or learnt from studies I have read. Also, using terms as 'most' is making a huge generalisation since the World's  male population exceeds the 3 billion (close to  4 billion, actually) and there are significant cultural differences among populations. Overstatements are not reality; hence that is not an excuse for Taite, or anyone to behave in certain ways. Also, all the other remaining guys have had no issues communicating their feelings, so what makes Taite special?