Bachelorette 14 - Becca Kufrin - Episode 8 - July 16th - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

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omg this is so so sweet. Jason is definitely the guy this season that given more time and maybe a real life situation and not this hyped up situation could have made Becca very happy.

I want him as the next Bachelor over Blake and Colton so bad!

I'm casting my vote for Jason as the next Bachelor. He has impressed me ever since his one-on-one.

Jason mom is pretty

Smart mom. She knows Becca's BS.

His mother is lovely. And seems pretty astute. His whole family seems very warm & obviously are very accepting.

GuardianAngel wrote:I'll believe the poster who is close to him, before I believe someone else, who may have their own favourite.

Preach @guardianangel   ....it seem very common to me that fans dig out stories about non F1 guys to make the F1 look better IMHO....just pathetic....jmho.

GuardianAngel wrote:Garrett's facial expressions and the way he talks reminds me of my son when he was 10.

Glad Becca is going to be honest with all the guys. So when she see's Blake 100% her husband we know she's being honest.

There is only so much honesty they can do on the show. I think she is being as genuine as she can within the perameters of the show...You know, kind of like every other lead. Besides, most of those things are said in ITMs at the instigation of producers.

Is it bad that I am crushing on Jason's brother with the glasses? I love me the dorky guys.

His brothers are so wonderful and intuitive.  Please adopt me Tartick family.

metalgirl wrote:He was married for 60 days!  How can your "deep values" support breaking those vows and throwing in the towel after 8 weeks?  

I just don't get it.  How did his ex pull the wool over all their eyes for YEARS?  Who can keep the crazy completely hidden for so long?

In my opinion..many! I know of three recent divorces that happened within a year! Two (wives) discovered pornography issues within weeks of the marriage (and yes they knew each other well before marrying) the third, a man discovered tons of hidden credit card debt, and a prescription drug issue his new wife had hidden. Who knows what Garrett' s truth is but...In the above instances and IMO if you see huge red flags, better to get out before children are involved.

That said...Jason is my favorite! Loving his date!

Brokenhearted F3 !! He's so darn sweet!

There’s a legit chance Garrett was in an abusive relationship, IMO. I won’t write it off because he’s a guy. I thought last week he did take ownership for his lack of communication and being naive. It was good he got out, probably for both of them. Let’s remember she remarried 6 months later. Becca’s a smart girl I don’t think she listened to a guy bash his ex wife for hours straight, he was letting her in, answering her questions. We’re getting an edited version and this is clearly his story line.

I actually think Garrett’s extremely genuine. He seems so very taken with Becca. And I love that he seems less filtered and just sort of stumbles along with his words and so quick to smile, to me it comes out like real life and not some forced dialogue on a reality show.