Bachelor Ukraine - Season 9 - Nikita Dobrynin - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

Has anyone watched last week's after show? If so, can you please explain the stoush between Dasha and Lilya, which was about Olga? It's the most animated I have seen Dasha about anything on this show.

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Checking out the latest episode in parts as from the above site.

We start with Lilya meeting up with Nikita at some restaurant called Spoon. Why is she not taking him home? She makes him a coffee and they chat. He meets her mom, dad or step dad?, sister and a little girl. I think it may be her niece. It's a little awkward. What did they chat about?

Nikita goes to chat with the sister while mom grills Lilya. What did the sister talk with Nikita about? The sister is really cute and seems fun and her mom is beautiful.

Next is mom's turn for a chat with him. What did she tell him and what was he saying in his ITM after?

Finally Nikita pulls dad aside. What did they talk about? I think he liked them and he called them "zrele ljude"...mature people.

After dinner I think Lilya took Nikita to her place? What were they talking about? It seemed serious, but relaxed at the same time. They were sitting together. He had his arm around her shoulder and was kissing her temple. Later he was rubbing her knee. Very affectionate around her.

Marina's home town is next. She meets him on a rooftop with coffee and a peck on the cheek and hug. She takes him to her studio and he meets her coworkers. She gets roses from them and he gets a photo book. There is a photo of him and Marina but it looks from several years ago. Did they meet before or was that just photoshopped by them? What did that guy tell Nikita...he looked impressed.

Marina then takes Nikita to see her family. They are being driven there and while they seem to be having a good time, they are sitting pretty far from one another? They get to an apartment building...doesn't look the greatest area....where her sister greets him with her baby. Nikita gets right to the floor and watches Marina as she interacts with the baby. Vision of things to come? What did the sister tell him? Nikita looked pretty comfortable holding that baby.

Finally, Marina takes Nikita to another apartment to meet her parents. What were they talking about as they were sitting and what was her mother going on about? Marina seemed a bit embarrassed. What did he talk about with her father and mother when they went for their chats?

Marina and Nikita go off on their own for a bit. Not sure if it is in her parents apartment, but they are on a bed and seem to be having a serious chat. What were they discussing and what where they saying in their ITMs? They end cuddling with his arms all the way around her and their faces touching.

I did notice that this date was shorter than Lilya's date by a quite a bit...8 minutes or so.

Agent99 wrote:Has anyone watched last week's after show?  If so, can you please explain the stoush between Dasha and Lilya, which was about Olga?  It's the most animated I have seen Dasha about anything on this show.

I watched it but I don't remember it anymore, it was a long time ago. But Dasha and Lilya hate each other, especially Lilya hates Dasha. But it was something personal. They were getting at each other about something that happened on the show and they didn't like it about each other.

Idlemess wrote: How many more episodes are there?

Next week 3 girls will be meeting Nikita's family. Then we'll see if they have another episode after that or not, probably they will. And after the show is over they'll show a post show about what is happening now. That will be the last episode.

Sprite wrote:We start with Lilya meeting up with Nikita at some restaurant called Spoon. Why is she not taking him home?

She took him home later, she lives with her sister, her parents live in a different city, they were visiting. In Ukraine they often do THDs in restaurants.

Sprite wrote: He meets her mom, dad or step dad?, sister and a little girl. I think it may be her niece.

It was her step dad and her little sister, her mom has a new family.

Sprite wrote:Nikita goes to chat with the sister while mom grills Lilya. What did the sister talk with Nikita about?

She said that they are not affectionate with each other, kiss each other about 2 times a year for each birthday. And Lilya sometimes doesn't clean when she doesn't feel like.

Sprite wrote:Next is mom's turn for a chat with him. What did she tell him and what was he saying in his ITM after?

She was asking how serious Nikita was and didn't want Lilya to be hurt. But they've never seen her so happy and so affectionate. Mom said she was almost not like her daughter, she had never seen her like that, she was in love,

Sprite wrote:Finally Nikita pulls dad aside. What did they talk about?

Step dad told Nikita that Lilya doesn't like sports so it would be great if they were together and he could make her run with him and things like that. Nikita said in ITM that he wanted somebody who knew what they wanted and he didn't need to be their parent.

Sprite wrote:After dinner I think Lilya took Nikita to her place? What were they talking about?

He was asking her if she really doesn't clean at times. She said yes, he didn't like it.

Sprite wrote:Marina's home town is next. She meets him on a rooftop with coffee and a peck on the cheek and hug. She takes him to her studio and he meets her coworkers. She gets roses from them and he gets a photo book. There is a photo of him and Marina but it looks from several years ago. Did they meet before or was that just photoshopped by them? What did that guy tell Nikita...he looked impressed.

Marina has her own model agency with her business partner for last 3 years and very busy with it. They were planning to open a branch in Paris, but she went on The Bachelor. He was impressed. When Marina was in college Nikita was there and was giving a speech. They took a pic together.

Sprite wrote:Vision of things to come?
Finally, Marina takes Nikita to another apartment to meet her parents. What were they talking about as they were sitting and what was her mother going on about? Marina seemed a bit embarrassed. What did he talk about with her father and mother when they went for their chats?

They were telling Nikita that she works a lot while she is already 21 and it's time for her to have a family and have kids. Her father sent her to apply for The Bachelor at the last day they were accepting applications. They don't live in a big city, so they believe she needs to get married soon and have children. Mom told Marina she had to have a baby before she was 25.
Marina's parents wanted to know how serious Nikita was and if he wanted a family, she said yes, he wanted a family

Sprite wrote:Marina and Nikita go off on their own for a bit. Not sure if it is in her parents apartment, but they are on a bed and seem to be having a serious chat. What were they discussing and what where they saying in their ITMs?

Yes, it was in her parents apartment. Marina was telling him she was not happy her parents were complaining all the time how much she works, she didn't want to talk about her work anymore. And Nikita asked her if she was going to have a baby before she was 25 as her mom was thinking. Marina said that she was letting her mom thinking what while she was going to have her own life.
Marina said in her ITM that she didn't now how to express her feelings to Nikita. Sha may be falling in love.
Nikita said in his ITM that Marina works too much and she needs more time for her personal life.
And everybody before was talking about Marina not being very expressive, she was just like her dad.

Time for the next instalment of HTDs.

Sophia meets Nikita in front of another apartment block. He's brought a bouquet. She takes him to a some kind of design/dress making business. Apparently this is what she does and she demonstrates for him. They work on a t-shirt together. What were they chatting about while they worked?

Sophia takes Nikita to meet her mom, sister and nephew. What did her mom say that Sophia was not happy about … twice? He seemed to be enjoying listening to whatever was said. They looked through a photo album.

Mom takes Nikita for a chat. What did they discuss? Whatever it was, it seemed to give him pause. While they were talking, Sophia was talking with her sister. What did they say?

As an aside, can I say that she annoys me with all that hair twirling. Just stop!

Sophia then gets annoyed with her sister because of what sis said. What was it? Nikita then takes sis aside for her chat. What did they discuss? And what was Sophia talking about with her mom while he was with sis?

Sophia takes Nikita for a chat in her bedroom. What did they discuss? They get flirty and he hugs her and kind of nuzzles her neck.

We find ourselves at an alley with Nikita meeting Dasha. She is super giddy and is bringing him to meet her family at their house where they are having a BBQ. He meets her mom and dad, I think her two sisters and somebodies toddler. What were they all talking about?

Mom got them sweatshirts and then some appliques for them to put on one another. Nikita explains his choices and then Dasha explains hers. ???

Dad takes Nikita aside for some bonding over chopping wood. Dad is impressed by his skills. What did they discuss after? Meanwhile, what were the ladies talking about?

Mom and Nikita go off for a chat. What did they discuss? Something went down there. She said something that was uncomfortable for him.

Nikita pulls aside the sister. What did they talk about? and what did the rest of them discuss while they waited?

Another bedroom chat up next. Her room is full of teddy bears. :babies: What does he ask her that gets her upset and crying?

RC time, but first up a chat between Nikita and Grisha. What did they discuss?

Grisha leaves Nikita with a tablet with some videos from the ladies.

First up message from Lilya's mom and Lylya. What did they say?
Next Marina and her mom. What did they tell him? What was he saying in his ITM?
What did Dasha and her mom tell him?
Sophia is once again rolling her eyes at what her mom is saying. What was it?

Here come the ladies all glammed up. Marina and Lilya look gorgeous. Lilya asked Sophia what she was holding...gift for Nikita...and rolled her eyes at Sophia's answer.

Nikita arrives and calls Lilya. What did he tell her before giving her the rose?

Dasha is called next. What did he say to her before she got her rose?

Sophia's turn. What did he tell her? Something about her father, her laughing and not listening? And yet she gets the rose. Ugh. She gives him the t-shirt they made together. What did Lilya and Dasha say after Sophia got the rose?

And that leaves Marina without a rose. What did he tell her? I knew she was going based on the fact that he was physically more into the others. She seemed the most mature and the one who appeared to be the most independent and that is not what he wants. He seems want someone who wants to have babies and be a doormat. The sexual stereotypes I am seeing on this version of the show are driving me batty.

Nikita escorts Marina out. What did they talk about while waiting for the limo? She gives him a hug, but he just seems so cold. Too bad. She looked so pretty tonight. I loved that colour on her. I would love her for a Bette.

What was Marina saying in the limo? She looked sad on the AFTR.

I don't see a happy ending happening here. I just don't see him with any of these women for the long term.

Sprite wrote: She takes him to a some kind of design/dress making business. Apparently this is what she does and she demonstrates for him. They work on a t-shirt together. What were they chatting about while they worked?

Actually she is learning it there where she brought him. And on one t-shirt was her heart and on another one was a key to that. Nikita asked her who was going to have this key. She said of course him. She told him that she liked making close.

Sprite wrote:Sophia takes Nikita to meet her mom, sister and nephew. What did her mom say that Sophia was not happy about … twice? He seemed to be enjoying listening to whatever was said. They looked through a photo album.

Sophia hates pics of her, she was very unhappy they brought a photo album and was telling stories from her childhood.

Sprite wrote:Mom takes Nikita for a chat. What did they discuss? Whatever it was, it seemed to give him pause. While they were talking, Sophia was talking with her sister.

Mom told Nikita that Sophia had to finish her education. She went to study to USA, but didn't finish it there. Now she has to do it.

Sprite wrote:Sophia then gets annoyed with her sister because of what sis said. What was it?

Her sister told Nikita that Sophia didn't like to eat and she was feeding Sophia till she became 11 y.o.

Today Nikita will introduce 3 girls to his family. Next Friday we'll see a finale with e dates with F2. The next day they'll be filming after show that we are going to see on 31st of May I guess.

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First meeting the folks is Sophia. Mama doesn't look thrilled and pulls her aside. What were Nikita and his dad talking about while they were gone?

I think mom asked Sophia about kids and seemed to warm up after the answer. What did she say that made mom hold her hand? Clearly it was what she wanted to hear since she started crying.

Dad's turn next for a chat. What did they discuss? Dad looked to be a tougher nut to crack.

After they leave, Nikita and Sophia go for a walk to a university I think. What were they discussing after the makeout? There seemed to be a bit of a disagreement. I think he was trying to be serious and she did that stupid giggling thing that she does.

Nikita meets up with Dasha and they do some sightseeing. What did they discuss?

They meet up with some old man … grandfather? … to do some cooking. There is some panic there for Dasha. They make cabbage rolls.

Mom, dad, brother and some other woman show up for dinner. What did they discuss?

Mom and dad pull Dasha for a chat. What did they discuss? Mom and dad are cute holding hands. What was Nikita saying while they waited?

Brother and mystery lady go for a chat. What did they discuss with Dasha?

Sorry I have to leave to go pick up my car. I may have to come back and watch this when the episode come out.