Bachelor Ukraine - Season 9 - Nikita Dobrynin - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

@Sprite have your opinion changed about the show so far. It’s kind of hard, but the hope I had for Nikita and the ladies has dwindled. I don’t really care for this group of women, my opinion.

Idlemess wrote:@Sprite have your opinion changed about the show so far. It’s kind of hard, but the hope I had for Nikita and the ladies has dwindled. I don’t really care for this group of women, my opinion.

I agree with you. I really don't see him lasting with any of them. In fact, I can't truly see him with any of them at the end. Marina and Dasha are the ones that I think may be the most compatible, but I just don't see anything from him for any of them.

I can't get over how much time Lilya has with him.. he is really interested in her and needs that time or what??

LeapofFaith wrote:I can't get over how much time Lilya has with him.. he is really interested in her and needs that time or what??

That's what I'm seeing as well. Yet she gets drunk and that's something that he and his dad has/had issues so thought that would be a turn off. Very strange.

iamreal2u wrote:

LeapofFaith wrote:I can't get over how much time Lilya has with him.. he is really interested in her and needs that time or what??

That's what I'm seeing as well.   Yet she gets drunk and that's something that he and his dad has/had issues so thought that would be a turn off.   Very strange.

Lilya is very open about who she is, she is not trying to look better than she is. And she told him yes, she drinks and she smokes, but for a guy like him she would quit all of that.

LeapofFaith wrote:I can't get over how much time Lilya has with him.. he is really interested in her and needs that time or what??

He said he was attracted to her exotic beauty from the very beginning. But then she was not on any dates for a while. She was very closed off, maybe he was waiting for her to get comfortable. Even girls said that before the kiss with Dasha they never heard her talking.
First 1-on-1 date went well, they couldn't have enough with each other. She told him that she was afraid of water so she got the second 1-on-1 where he was teaching her swimming and they were building a trust. But she was still pretty closed off. He felt he needed one more date to get through her walls (that's how I felt). And it did happen in Paris. In order for relationship with her to be where he wanted it to be he needed that much time with her otherwise they would get nowhere. She became more open and comfortable. And they have a good connection.

Maddy wrote:

iamreal2u wrote:

LeapofFaith wrote:I can't get over how much time Lilya has with him.. he is really interested in her and needs that time or what??

That's what I'm seeing as well.   Yet she gets drunk and that's something that he and his dad has/had issues so thought that would be a turn off.   Very strange.

Lilya is very open about who she is, she is not trying to look better than she is. And she told him yes, she drinks and she smokes, but for a guy like him she would quit all of that.

Usually that's true, but she is also jealous and should you change for someone or yourself. I remember seeing her drink excessively and Sophie was attempting to take the drink from her cause she had enough. He seems to care for her though so who knows.

Sprite wrote: What where they all going on about here? Nobody looks happy. Nikita takes some pics of the ladies. They still look miserable. Geeze...I'd be dumping both of them for this attitude.

He wanted to end the date at some point. Sophia and Dasha don't like each other, I think that's why they ended up on this date. And Sophia hates when pictures of her are taken, so I guess that's why he showed up with a camera on this date.

Sprite wrote: What did he say to them?

He said that he had enough of this miserable date and was ready to end it if they didn't care for it. Dasha said she didn't want it and Sophia said the same.

Sprite wrote:After they go to some room for some wine and he pulls Sophia. Starts something about her secret. What was that? He did not look or sound too happy.

Yes, probably he was asked to ask her about her secret. She told him that before the married guy she was dating a guy who had a GF.

I have some time to watch the next part of the last episode.

Lilya and Olga on their 2:1 date. No love lost there. They get on some kind of fishing boat and get to put on fishing waders. I kind of get the impression that this is not what they were expecting. Dasha and Sophia got to stroll through France and take photos and they get to fish in mud. Hmmm....

Nikita helps them get into their fishing gear and to pull them out of the mud when they get stuck. They seem to be turning over crab traps. What fun. Olga seemed to be more helpful while Lilya was swearing like a trooper. What did Nikita say at the end of the day?

Back at the manor the ladies are working out together....whether they want to or not. Seems more like another excuse to advertise the workout gear.

Evening portion of the date at another manor house and the ladies get some nice duds to make up for the crappy date earlier. They get to eat some of their hard work...oysters. Too bad Olga does not care for them. What was Lilya talking about during dinner? What was Olga going on about France?

Olga starts some of her dramatic laughter. Lilya is not impressed. Nikita pulls her aside for a chat. Naturally drama ensues. She is pissy about something. Awkward silence followed by awkward talking. He is frustrated...it's your own bloody fault for keeping her... and she is crying in her ITM. Just get rid of her!!! WTH wants to live with that all that drama all the time? The stupid phone gets brought up again. She is a manipulative, game player IMO. I seriously want to slap her back to reality. The woe is me wasn't working so she opts for the awkward laughing. He is giving her some serious side eye. What was she going on about during this time? Something about him not listening?..."nije sluzal". More tears. I seriously can't with this witch. Finally he has had enough and takes her back inside.

Nikita take Lilya outside. She cuddles up to him for warmth. Much better body language with these two. He looks much more relaxed. Naturally, Olga has to go to the window to see them and more tears and dramatics ensue. Guess what she does through her tears? Just guess? She storms of in a dramatic huff...as usual. Please. What is she whining on about? Does she know what show she is on?

Meanwhile Nikita and Lilya are blissfully unaware of the drama that awaits them. What were they talking about? He gives her a forehead kiss before heading back inside. A producer seems to have persuaded Olga to go back to the table to await their return. Naturally as soon as they get back, he can see that the drama queen is upset and takes her for another chat. :shootme:

Drama continues with Olga playing her woe is me emotional roller coaster. Nikita is pacing. What is she yelling at him about and what does he reply? She is bawling and he does comfort her by putting his arm around her, but she just doesn't stop! I think she is jealous that Lilya got the Paris date. I'm not sure if Lilya can hear what is going on or if they are editing to seem that way.
Finally he leaves and she slams the door on the camera.

Nikita returns to Lilya and she seems to have had enough and I think throws Olga under the bus telling him about "vjecne sloze, pretenzije""...constant fights, pretensions, etc. What did she say? and what was he saying in his ITM? He seems upset that she is trying to hold it together and not start crying and as he is comforting her we hear Olga yelling at producers. He looks sick to his stomach.

Olga continues with the drama and storms off and into the waiting van. Slams the door and wails in the van as she is driven away. Has she left? Please make it so!!!

Nikita is talking with Lilya and she is getting more upset and almost in tears. What were they saying? He takes her and pulls her in to comfort her.

We are transported back to the chateaux where the other three are forcibly waiting for the return of the ladies. They see Olga return, but she ignores them and goes to her room to cry and pack. They follow and try talking to her, but she can't answer as she is too busy having a pity party for one! What did Dasha say when she was giving the sign for ? Olga drags her stuff downstairs and once again gets in the van. More crying, yadda, yadda, yadda.

Thankfully Nikita finally had enough/wised up and didn't chase after Olga and her drama. Ding dong the witch is dead!

What were the other ladies saying after she left?

Lilya returns and they want to know what happened. She says it was horrible..."uzastno" and she is crying and upset. I guess it wasn't editing, she did hear what Olga was saying … "tesko slusat". What did the others say, particularly Dasha and Sophia who were laughing a bit in their ITMs?

The final part of the episode.

Nikita is watching the videos from the ladies. What were they saying...particularly Sophia? That woman looks stoned all the time.

The ladies arrive in some little town where they go to meet Nikita. They arrive separately and don't see one another...just go and talk with him. The edit bounces around between the ladies.

What did Dasha say to him? Something about strip tease and they showed all her sexy Instagram posts? How did he respond?

What did Nikita ask Marina and how did she respond?

What did Nikita and Lilya discuss?

Marina gets the first rose, Lilya the second and Dasha the third.

What was going on between Nikita and Sophia? He leaves the rose on the wall and walks off and then she followed him? What were they saying and why was she laughing in her ITM?

Eventually Sophia shows up back at the chateaux with her rose. The others aren't too thrilled. What did she tell them and how did they react?

What did Nikita say at the very end?

I wish they had previews for the next episode. Is it HTDs?

Yes, today are HTDs.

Thanks for the updates everyone! I enjoy following along!