Bachelorette 14 - Becca Kufrin - Media SM - Discussion - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #5

But someone always had to be dragged along for the ride, no matter who the lead, Bach or Ette.  There always has to be an F2, F3, F4, etc.  

So I not sure I can hold that against her.  Unless she handles letting them go, like her ex did, with IMO absolutely no emotion, sympathy or feeling whatsoever.  Then I might have a problem with it and her.  

JMO

Diana wrote:Becca has said in a few interviews she had to follow her heart. Her F1 may not be the most liked but that is okay JMO at the end of the day we don't have to be with him she does imo

Ash2214 wrote:

albean99 wrote:I'm just happy for Becca and have no reason to believe that she didn't pick the best guy for her. I don't even consider him a baddy. Lots of people hunt, including some of my family & friends. I don't have to like it.

For me, t wasn’t even just the hunting. I just don’t like guns or knives and personally don’t like it when people show off their weapons on social media. I think some are already jokingly giving him the baddy title because his social media already caused a stir, which IMO caused him to make his profile private again and then he deleted a majority of those pictures..

I am sorry but that is just not true. He never deleted any more photos from when he went pubic to private to public again. He has only deleted one post and that was before he went public in the first place. JMO.

Someone did create a fake account for him (none of his friends or family follow that account and he posted on the real one) that deleted those photos but they are on his public page. I don't like the photos either but I just don't want false info being thrown around about him deleting stuff he didn't. All JMO

I saw quite a few pictures on Reddit that were apparently from Garrett’s IG that I no longer see on his IG. When did he delete the picture of his collection of knives? Or the one with the dead pig? Or the clip of him at the shooting range?

As I said, to each their own. It doesn’t make him a bad guy.

ETA: I’m assuming this means he deleted the majority of those pictures before he made it public, but regardless, his social media causes a bit of a stir and pictures were deleted.

Ladybug82 wrote:But someone always had to be dragged along for the ride, no matter who the lead, Bach or Ette.  There always has to be an F2, F3, F4, etc.  

So I not sure I can hold that against her.  Unless she handles letting them go, like her ex did, with IMO absolutely no emotion, sympathy or feeling whatsoever.  Then I might have a problem with it and her.  

JMO

I think she lets Blake go before the RC. And could she have let Jason go before Blake bc she saw Jason as more invested?

Girl crush keeps getting stronger and stronger  






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Diana wrote:
She said her favorite thing about her fiancé is that "he put up with me the entire journey" that is sweet.  

What! Isn’t that what he’s supposed to do? I mean that’s to me a given or a boot out the door.  Why would she even consider otherwise would be puzzling to me.

Yeah, I don't like this. I understood it when Rachel made a similar comments about their SHVs, since the girl is A LOT (in the best way), but Becca seems super chill and low-key. This just makes me feel like the relationship is unbalanced. Maybe this is just my dislike of Garret talking though. IMO.

I don't like it because it makes it seem like she dragged Blake and Jason along for the ride when she knew it was Garrett the entire time.

That's just the show though. If it was up to her, I'm sure she would have wrapped filming on night. It's their job to go to the end and someone always has to be an F2. I also think it's very possible that she still had strong feelings for Blake. Kaitlyn told Nick she loved him, despite always knowing it was Shawn; Ben told Jojo he loved her, despite always knowing it was Lauren. Sometimes your #1 stays constant throughout the show, but your #2 gets pretty damn close and it doesn't mean that relationship didn't matter. IMO.

Ash2214 wrote:

I saw quite a few pictures on Reddit that were apparently from Garrett’s IG  that I no longer see on his IG. When did he delete the picture of his collection of knives? Or the one with the dead pig? Or the clip of him at the shooting range? Were those not his?

As I said, to each their own. It doesn’t make him a bad guy.

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Deleted one post sometime between may 15 and 16th


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Went back to public and had the same amount of posts. Only one was deleted. JMO

Rolly wrote:There are very real diffences between Becca and Garrett and their view of the world. She seems to be very much in love but still in the bubble and they haven’t really confronted some of these issues. I will be very interested to see how they navigate this. I have always admired her willingness to take strong stands and speak her mind. The red flags do make me cautious though.

There are many things to really like about Garrett. He has a great sense of humor and is close to and loves his family. He is handsome and has committed to a relationship before and is willing to try again. He is employed. If he is the one she chose I am excited to see their journey. I hope they show us the love story.

We had similar assumptions about Sean and Cat...they were very different....conservative, religious, meat eating Texan vs. liberal, non religious, vegan. Some thought it was never going to work and he was/should pick the expected southern blonde like Emily. We now know how that turned out.

Yes, Becca and Garrett may be very different and are willing to work together on compromising or they could be more similar than we give them credit for. As good as sluethers may be at figuring people out, we still only know a fraction of what they are like and what they are looking for. Not to mention, some times people don't know what they are looking for until they find it. All I know right now is that the girl is glowing and can't stop smiling. I am looking forward to seeing how their "journey" pans out ... on the show and off.

@Diana Whether they were deleted while it was private or while it was public, Garrett has deleted more than one picture. I obviously can’t link to Reddit, but the snap shots are there.

Again, just to reiterate, this doesn’t make him a bad guy. He seems nice. Becca seems incredibly happy and I’m looking forward to seeing them together.

He is at 564 and posted one pic when he got back? so he deleted at least two plus his link is the way I see it.

The link removal was noticed May 11th at 10:14am by @havadrpepper and it was there the night before around 10:30 pm, which means to me he removed it sometime after the FRC Thursday 3pm and 7am Maldives time on the Friday.

I must admit... This is probably my favorite season of #TheBachelorette — EVER!!!

— Mike Fleiss (@fleissmeister) May 23, 2018

i just found that its hilariously ironic that the most romantic and fav season of The Puppet Master is getting spoiled with such an-earth shattering spoiler, when the season hasn't even begun. Ben and Courtney must have passed the torch to BnG... (Ben-Court was leaked a couple of days before FRC, wasn't it?). This is a new record, for sure. Poor Becca. I am curious to see how all the fans and BN IG accounts react.

^^ True that.  Kinda makes you wonder who’s running the store?

I’m imagining Jimmy Kimmel’s interview with Becca and his prediction of who she chose.  

Connor's "who's the engaged guy" comment on Blake's IG post seems so mean to me now. But Blake did end up liking it, so maybe he's already over it or at least has a sense of humor about the situation.

Maybe it's even like Kaitlyn/Jojo and all the guys knew who it was going to be while they were filming.