Bachelorette 14 - Becca Kufrin - Media SM - Discussion - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #5

Thanks for clarifying RS. I thought he was given the info aka the pics but didn't post them soon enough.

Now I'm curious who that was, it couldn't be just a vacationer that close could it? Or maybe taken with a special zoom lens from their own resort.

The email said it was someone celebrating their honeymoon at the same resort.  They also had numerous pics of the crew and were on a flight with crew members talking about rose ceremonies.  Production was super lax it seems.

Diana wrote:
She said her favorite thing about her fiancé is that "he put up with me the entire journey" that is sweet.  

What! Isn’t that what he’s supposed to do? I mean that’s to me a given or a boot out the door. Why would she even consider otherwise would be puzzling to me.

@Kashathediva Yeah. If he couldn't put up with her on a free, all expense paid vacation with 0 real life stressors, she's got a problem .

Becca has said in a few interviews she had to follow her heart. Her F1 may not be the most liked but that is okay JMO at the end of the day we don't have to be with him she does imo

Ash2214 wrote:

albean99 wrote:I'm just happy for Becca and have no reason to believe that she didn't pick the best guy for her. I don't even consider him a baddy. Lots of people hunt, including some of my family & friends. I don't have to like it.

For me, t wasn’t even just the hunting. I just don’t like guns or knives and personally don’t like it when people show off their weapons on social media. I think some are already jokingly giving him the baddy title because his social media already caused a stir, which IMO caused him to make his profile private again and then he deleted a majority of those pictures..

I am sorry but that is just not true. He never deleted any more photos from when he went pubic to private to public again. He has only deleted one post and that was before he went public in the first place. JMO.

Someone did create a fake account for him (none of his friends or family follow that account and he posted on the real one) that deleted those photos but they are on his public page. I don't like the photos either but I just don't want false info being thrown around about him deleting stuff he didn't. All JMO

bleuberry wrote:@Kashathediva Yeah. If he couldn't put up with her on a free, all expense paid vacation with 0 real life stressors, she's got a problem .

I don’t know, some of the women leads act like insane asylum patients and their f1’s really do need to put up with them to make it to the end, so I can see it. In many ways, real life is less stressful than the show, or at least, differently stressful than the show.

@Diana

I agree. I really don't like the fact that the fake IG account gets thrown around out there all the time. IMO he is very upfront about who he is and not trying to hide things. The only thing I did notice on his IG is no photos of the ex-wife. However, if there were any at all, they may have been scrubbed when they split which was 2 years ago. And, since none of us knew who the guy was at that time, we can't say one way or another if that happened.

There are very real diffences between Becca and Garrett and their view of the world. She seems to be very much in love but still in the bubble and they haven’t really confronted some of these issues. I will be very interested to see how they navigate this. I have always admired her willingness to take strong stands and speak her mind. The red flags do make me cautious though.

There are many things to really like about Garrett. He has a great sense of humor and is close to and loves his family. He is handsome and has committed to a relationship before and is willing to try again. He is employed. If he is the one she chose I am excited to see their journey. I hope they show us the love story.

Kashathediva wrote:

Diana wrote:
She said her favorite thing about her fiancé is that "he put up with me the entire journey" that is sweet.  

What! Isn’t that what he’s supposed to do? I mean that’s to me a given or a boot out the door.  Why would she even consider otherwise would be puzzling to me.

Yeah, I don't like this. I understood it when Rachel made a similar comments about their SHVs, since the girl is A LOT (in the best way), but Becca seems super chill and low-key. This just makes me feel like the relationship is unbalanced. Maybe this is just my dislike of Garret talking though. IMO.

She is happy and that’s all I can wish for her. I don’t know what will happen after this is all over but I wish her the best. She seems like a genuine person imo




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Aria wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:

Diana wrote:
She said her favorite thing about her fiancé is that "he put up with me the entire journey" that is sweet.  

What! Isn’t that what he’s supposed to do? I mean that’s to me a given or a boot out the door.  Why would she even consider otherwise would be puzzling to me.

Yeah, I don't like this. I understood it when Rachel made a similar comments about their SHVs, since the girl is A LOT (in the best way), but Becca seems super chill and low-key. This just makes me feel like the relationship is unbalanced. Maybe this is just my dislike of Garret talking though. IMO.

I don't like it because it makes it seem like she dragged Blake and Jason along for the ride when she knew it was Garrett the entire time.

alwaystulips wrote:The email said it was someone celebrating their honeymoon at the same resort.  They also had numerous pics of the crew and were on a flight with crew members talking about rose ceremonies.  Production was super lax it seems.

Unfortunately, knowing who she picks takes away some of the excitement and I would think gives them (the couple and TPTB) less incentive to hide things. I was looking forward to the sleuthing of the their SHV but now what’s the point?!? TPTB really screwed this up!