Bachelor 22 - Arie Luyendyk Jr - Episodes - Mar 5th FRC ATFR - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

Caroline had her hair colored Thursday or Friday. That's when I knew she was going to be on the show again.

Until I see evidence that the new trend in this show is not proposing, I personally am going with the assumption that a proposal is a done deal with the end of the show. 
I do believe if that had been an option, we would not be seeing what we are going to see. My opinion. 
Sooner or later this man is going to have to decide what he wants in life and not live a life based on who his family wants him to be. His decisions may not always work out for him, but living your life to please someone else IMO never works out.

Doats wrote:Well, now I feel I know why Arie first picked Becca. He may have wanted Lauren but was over influenced by his family.

He is a grown a** man. I love my family and listen to their opinions, but ultimately I make my own choices. I was like that as a child. My mother just shook her head when I would make my pronouncements of what I was going to do....and it continues to this day.

ElonM wrote:So, Arie doesn’t want someone to mother him but he prefers to forever reassure and father someone. Damn, that’s a task by itself.

Arie wants someone he can pull the wool over. Fangirls are good for that

Sprite wrote:

Kolormiblnd wrote:Oh my, you need a kick in the azz!!! Priceless.

  I'd like to volunteer for the assignment Sr.

Too late @Sprite, that sweet Lauren got the job now.

Kashathediva wrote:This is what did it. He chose who he felt his family wants him to be. He is not that person. He wants to be the guy to offer support, to be the more dominant and not have someone having to mother him and give him that kick. 
JMO

Rofl I miss Nick. At least he liked and appreciated strong women.

Stone_Hedge wrote:

sanlee088 wrote:

Doats wrote:Well, now I feel I know why Arie first picked Becca. He may have wanted Lauren but was over influenced by his family.

BINGO!

But in the end...he chose his type that he always chooses

After trying it out with Becca...I mean haven’t we all dated many of the same types of people and then there is the one, eventually?

Arie doesn't know who he is or what he wants. 


jmo

Kolormiblnd wrote:

Sprite wrote:

Kolormiblnd wrote:Oh my, you need a kick in the azz!!! Priceless.

  I'd like to volunteer for the assignment Sr.

Too late @Sprite, that sweet Lauren got the job now.

Arie’s next tat will be on his butt for Lauren to kiss

GuardianAngel wrote:Becca is no Jilly, not even close.

So true.....Jilly is more true and down to earth then Becca. Jilly says it like it is, not what others want her to say, do. Jilly is her own person.....Becca is who everyone wants her to be or say. IMO kind of a fake-ish quality

AllAboutLove wrote:I think Arie's family has seen Arie go with Lauren types before and it never works out.

IA with them, I don't see it working out at all.

But eventually Arie's meek little women grow up and become women who expect him to act like a man and he gets bored and starts looking for his next little woman to protect. And Arie's family have probably seen more than one Lauren who they loved and Arie eventually broke, they probably wanted to see him with a woman who is equal and were excited to see him actually "love" someone who could do without him.

Arie pathetic.

BTW, I happen to agree with everything Caroline said and I thought she looked beautiful.

I don't think Becca is fake at all