Bachelor 22 - Arie Luyendyk Jr - Episodes - Mar 5th FRC ATFR - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

Since when do parents specifically choose the one??? this is unreal! they've gone to new lengths!!!!!!

Arie and his family lack any sort of understanding of other people's feelings. what a shocker... NOT....

Oh my, you need a kick in the azz!!! Priceless.

Kashathediva wrote:There is the word SOLID. It was meant as a positive thing. 
It would drive me crazy that his parents want to talk to Becca about Lauren and show is showing us that. That would be a huge splinter in my mind. HUGE.
His mother stopped short of saying who she would choose or the edit left it out. I think she was going to say Lauren.

Personally I think she did say Lauren. I noticed that the camera panned to Arie during that time.

I think Becca handled the talk well and didn't talk down about Lauren at all.  But to each their own opinion.

I think Arie's parents realize that Arie won't have the ability to continue to reassure Lauren, he will grow bored with reassuring her when he is out on the road.

But little Arie wants Lauren and honestly, Arie doesn't want to be kicked in the a** or he might be with Courtney.

Well, now I feel I know why Arie first picked Becca. He may have wanted Lauren but was over influenced by his family.

Aunties_Love wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:Wow lets talk about the F2 between the Dad and the f1

Ohh, a catty side of Becca coming out.  She's trying to talk down about Lauren.....talk about catty.  Then in ITM's about wanting to puke about Lauren and Arie together....hmmm

I didn't take that as a put down to Lauren. Just that at this point when there are only two of them left, it is difficult to think about Arie with someone else.

It’s a no brainer to me that Arie loves both girls and his parents thought Becca was better for him therefore to me that’s why he chose her. However looks like they are wrong in the real world!

tbh Arie needs someone he can walk all over and control, Becca was never going to be that and good for her.

This is what did it. He chose who he felt his family wants him to be. He is not that person. He wants to be the guy to offer support, to be the more dominant and not have someone having to mother him and give him that kick. 
JMO

Aunties_Love wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:There is the word SOLID. It was meant as a positive thing. 
It would drive me crazy that his parents want to talk to Becca about Lauren and show is showing us that. That would be a huge splinter in my mind. HUGE.
His mother stopped short of saying who she would choose or the edit left it out. I think she was going to say Lauren.

Personally I think she did say Lauren.  I noticed that the camera panned to Arie during that time.

Yet after the commercial she said Becca. I think they feel Lauren is sweet and Becca can make Arie a better man.

not Caroline again