Nick Viall - Bachelor 21 - Discussion

IMO Nick is trying to find himself with all that he has gone through in the past 4 years. I still believe that he loves Vanessa and is probably going through a grieving time at this stage. I just do not understand since they have blocked/unfollowed each other how they can see or know what the other is thinking. I would love for them to try again but I really do not see that happening. I do wish for the two of them to find what completes them. JMO Especially my man Nick .....

whit90 wrote:IMO Nick is trying to find himself with all that he has gone through in the past 4 years. I still believe that he loves Vanessa and is probably going through a grieving time at this stage. I just do not understand since they have blocked/unfollowed each other how they can see or know what the other is thinking.

Well, technically they don't need to follow each other on social media in order to see each other's pages--the only barrier would be if they blocked each other which I'm not entirely sure if they had (I mean, obviously Vanessa blocked and then unblocked Nick on Instagram but I'm not sure if she blocked him again after that etc.). It's possible that they still communicate via text although I'm getting the sense that Nick is giving her some space at the moment so I don't know if they are communicating right now. However, with Vanessa going back to LA, I just find it hard to imagine that they won't cross paths at some point during her stay. I still believe that there are some unresolved feelings there and so I would be shocked if they didn't make an effort to see each other...and maybe it would give Nick some clarity and/or closure if he does see her. I think that he needs that at the moment. JMO

It might just be me but I'm hoping their story isn't over yet.

KayP wrote:It might just be me but I'm hoping their story isn't over yet.

Haha trust. It's not just you

Bluejay271 wrote:

whit90 wrote:IMO Nick is trying to find himself with all that he has gone through in the past 4 years. I still believe that he loves Vanessa and is probably going through a grieving time at this stage. I just do not understand since they have blocked/unfollowed each other how they can see or know what the other is thinking.

Well, technically they don't need to follow each other on social media in order to see each other's pages--the only barrier would be if they blocked each other which I'm not entirely sure if they had (I mean, obviously Vanessa blocked and then unblocked Nick on Instagram but I'm not sure if she blocked him again after that etc.). It's possible that they still communicate via text although I'm getting the sense that Nick is giving her some space at the moment so I don't know if they are communicating right now. However, with Vanessa going back to LA, I just find it hard to imagine that they won't cross paths at some point during her stay. I still believe that there are some unresolved feelings there and so I would be shocked if they didn't make an effort to see each other...and maybe it would give Nick some clarity and/or closure if he does see her. I think that he needs that at the moment. JMO

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] I do definitely see where you are coming from though right now I feel more like [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] that I can't see them meeting up right now at this point especially since it seems V is trying to erase/cut off anything specifically Nick related which makes me sad but it is her right and choice to make as far as how she handles the break up. Maybe when more time has passed the two can reconnect as friends and be around one another if an occasion allows. It is curious to see that while V has unfollowed/blocked Nick, she still follows and has liked posts (very recently one of his mom's) of  many of his family including his mom, a couple brothers and a couple sisters. I noticed just earlier this week per IG she followed his sister Sarah Viall so atleast for now the thought of his family reminding her of any break up angst with Nick is not an issue. Sorry about being a debby downer about it but I think there is still some time that needs to pass for healing/coming to terms before both see one another, at least on V's side. I wonder though if maybe V has to get some things of hers still in L.A. in which then possibly she'd have to go to their apartment. I could be totally wrong though who knows. My track record in predicting/guessing what will happen with couples I like on this show has proven to be very shaky at best. All I hope for at this point is for Nick to eventually find all the peace and happiness in the world whenever/whoever that is meant to be with.

Edited to add: I would think if they do meet up either soon or in the future, I would guess they may try to do it very discreetly as I doubt they want any media scrutiny on top of what already has happened. JMO

I agree that any meeting will be done in private. It's been a month since the break up and IMO I do believe they have been communicating. I think they will meet while she's in LA IMO.

KayP wrote:I agree that any meeting will be done in private.  It's been a month since the break up and IMO I do believe they have been communicating.  I think they will meet while she's in LA IMO.

- IMO - I do want them to do it low key...I won't act surprised if marriage plans will take place early next year or they'll get married in private... Lol!!...

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Wonder if Nick's latest tweet has a cryptic meaning or just  a random tweet?

If Nick is not trying to get back with Vanessa, then he has another former lover in mind. Put this with the Blue Jays cap and I say he is trying to tell Vanessa something.

Based on Kaitlyn's season, we know that if Nick wants a woman he goes for it. Maybe the break from each other was just what they needed???

Mgrissom wrote:If Nick is not trying to get back with Vanessa, then he has another former lover in mind.  Put this with the Blue Jays cap and I say he is trying to tell Vanessa something.

Based on Kaitlyn's season, we know that if Nick wants a woman he goes for it.  Maybe the break from each other was just what they needed???

My gut is telling me that he's going to chase Vanessa...and I am living for that thought . I guess we'll see but either way, I just want Nick to be happy.

If and that's a big IF they do hook up meet, in order for them to get back as a couple, the issues that caused the relationship to sever have to be non-issues for them to reconcile. If those issues are still in play, they will just breakup again. All JMO.

I don't know if they are trying to rekindle things but my personal hope is that they don't go public about it anytime soon and work on it in private (assuming they are giving it a shot). I do believe they are on good terms though coz Nick is still out there liking Vanessa's brother's pics and she liked his mom's IG pic 2 days back. I don't know about these people but if I am totally done with someone, I don't go around liking their family member's pics.

All JMO