Dean Unglert - BIP 4 - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

Yeah, I've been over feeling sorry for Kristina for a while now. Girl needs to help herself and if she refuses to, then good riddance. 

I'm sure DLo has closed that door by now - and good on her. Time to find a real man.

Contrarian I know, but if true, I get where K/Dean are coming from. It might be reaching too far, but maybe after some introspection, they have both learned something from their time in paradise. Due to their traumatic pasts, they are likely more reflective than most. I'm going to support them and stay open-minded about what the future holds for these two, whether it be moving past BIP and remaining friends or more. Dean is at that age where he may be able to change and heal past hurts with the right person.

@agentcurls I don't think so, because Dean was pulling the same ish after BIP. Saying on camera that he loved Kristina, then sleeping with DLo once the cameras were off. Giving her the impression that things were done with DLo and hanging with her, until she found out through leaked photos. The only reason it's done with DLo now is that SHE actually has some self-esteem and stopped it once she realized she was being played. Dean is going to string Kristina along for his ego and his image, while he dates other women who are more his type. Kristina just has a bad picker. Jef and now Dean? Come on, girl. Love yourself. IMO.

bluwavz wrote:Eff the both of them. #TeamDLo

Aria wrote:@agentcurls I don't think so, because Dean was pulling the same ish after BIP. Saying on camera that he loved Kristina, then sleeping with DLo once the cameras were off. Giving her the impression that things were done with DLo and hanging with her, until she found out through leaked photos. The only reason it's done with DLo now is that SHE actually has some self-esteem and stopped it once she realized she was being played. Dean is going to string Kristina along for his ego and his image, while he dates other women who are more his type. Kristina just has a bad picker. Jef and now Dean? Come on, girl. Love yourself. IMO.

summerdayze wrote:Yeah, I've been over feeling sorry for Kristina for a while now. Girl needs to help herself and if she refuses to, then good riddance. 

I'm sure DLo has closed that door by now - and good on her. Time to find a real man.

 
And ugh... the Ellen thing - I don't want any more of this Jared/Caila/AI deja vu. Stop it!
Well, I guess Kristina only subtly (as in as subtle as a ton of bricks) sl*t-shamed DLo with the whole "not even a woman but a girl" because of ocean straddling/Jack Stone joking makeouts... instead of outright calling here a "whore" ala AI to Caila, so progress  

Kristina is a poster child for women who grow up unloved by their parent(s) and continually seek out those same types of relationships in adulthood trying to "repair" what was broken inside. She needs counseling and I hope she comes to know that instead of chasing the Deans of this world.

So basically Dean wants to have his cake and eat it too? Liked Kristina, then shiny, new HAWT DLo comes along. Wants to sample DLo but have his fallback girl too once the shiny wears off. Hmmm. It must be working.

Why is Dean suddenly dressing like a middle aged woman? JMO
Check his Instagram for proof.

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Dean in the headlights.
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https://www.instagram.com/p/BY6K09KgmhQ/?taken-by=theellenshow

https://www.instagram.com/p/BY9EIJqApCH/?taken-by=daniellellombard

Maddy wrote:
https://www.instagram.com/p/BY9EIJqApCH/?taken-by=daniellellombard

I don't get it. Reading her caption to the photo she wants us to think of her relationship as deeper than was shown....not just physical...and she wants to have fun, but still wants monogamy and thought they wanted the same thing, but implies they don't...and this is the photo she chooses to post. I thought she was all done with him?

At this point, IMO it just comes off as a lack of self- respect. Like, fool me once, shame on you. Maybe another chance or two, to get clarity on the situation.
But now, it just looks sad. How is competing and "winning" Dean's attention a prize? The cliche, many fish in the sea. How is this one such a catch?
All jmo