Dean Unglert - BIP 4 - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

@rachelisqueen I think someone mentioned it about a week ago, if I remember correctly.

Moved from Becca Tilley's thread.

TheWrongReasons wrote:I do think Dean bears an uncanny resemblance to Chris Soules in certain pics/angles, such as this:

Credit: @Dean Michael Unglert

Shawn and Kait on their podcast are wondering if Dean is part of one direction with the fan love But Kait thinks he needs to go on BIP 3 more times before he's ready for an actual relationship. So funny and so true.

Cute but immature. Who could be so insensitive to women he cares about?

Dean is playing the field. He isn't ready to settle down anytime soon. He reminds me of Jef Holm looks/personality wise. Kristina is so sweet but seems like she got caught up in Dean;s mess.

I used to think he was naive during Rachel's season or maybe he is just that clueless, but the head games he seems to be playing with Kristina are horrible. I used his behavior to make a point with my 14-year-old (who never watches the show but was enthralled) about never letting a guy make her feel the way Kristina was feeling. He's definitely not ready to settle down.

He is not naive for sure! He has problem in relationships. Kinda understandable, but still doesn't look good at all!
Kristina has her own problems, so it makes everything even worse.

cantstopwatchin wrote:I used to think he was naive during Rachel's season or maybe he is just that clueless, but the head games he seems to be playing with Kristina are horrible.  I used his behavior to make a point with my 14-year-old (who never watches the show but was enthralled) about never letting a guy make her feel the way Kristina was feeling.  He's definitely not ready to settle down.

I think the real message from Dean's behavior is to LISTEN and watch and behave accordingly. Dean was very honest and upfront with Christina BEFORE the rose ceremony. She did not listen. He told her she was free to date other people. Anytime a man tells you that, it's because he plans to do exactly that. Dean is conflicted because he has a conscience. Many men do not. As bad as this situation is, it is mostly of her own making because she doesn't want to believe what he tells her. 

She wants what she wants. He does not. Pain will naturally follow.

wishesfireworks wrote:Dean is playing the field. He isn't ready to settle down anytime soon. He reminds me of Jef Holm looks/personality wise. Kristina is so sweet but seems like she got caught up in Dean;s mess.

Kristina ran into Dean's mess, locked the door and refused to come out.   She looks sweet but she's actually trying to force him to do what she wants by whining, looking sad, crying on other guys' shoulders, etc. Where I'm from, we call that manipulation, no matter who does it.

Chgohighlife wrote:

wishesfireworks wrote:Dean is playing the field. He isn't ready to settle down anytime soon. He reminds me of Jef Holm looks/personality wise. Kristina is so sweet but seems like she got caught up in Dean;s mess.

Kristina ran into Dean's mess, locked the door and refused to come out.   She looks sweet but she's actually trying to force him to do what she wants by whining, looking sad, crying on other guys' shoulders, etc. Where I'm from, we call that manipulation, no matter who does it.

I haven't seen a member of the squad outside of Dani M who I wouldn't describe as manipulative. Raven hides it the best but it's there always lurking, IMO.

Are Dean and Kristina seeing each other again?

mprssdbyu wrote:

Chgohighlife wrote:

wishesfireworks wrote:Dean is playing the field. He isn't ready to settle down anytime soon. He reminds me of Jef Holm looks/personality wise. Kristina is so sweet but seems like she got caught up in Dean;s mess.

Kristina ran into Dean's mess, locked the door and refused to come out.   She looks sweet but she's actually trying to force him to do what she wants by whining, looking sad, crying on other guys' shoulders, etc. Where I'm from, we call that manipulation, no matter who does it.

I haven't seen a member of the squad outside of Dani M who I wouldn't describe as manipulative. Raven hides it the best but it's there always lurking, IMO.

That's because she isn't a member of the squad.

As much of an idiot I think Dean is, I'm not buying Kristina's shtick either. She has to take some responsibility as well. She saw what was going on. She knew how the show works. She was the one who wanted to torture herself by watching Dean make out with DLo even when Robby was trying to get her to go else where and then cry and whine about it.