Ben Higgins - Bachelor 20 - Discussion

@aviej she follows Avery

Ok thanks.

That's nice. We have nitpicked back and forth about them, but all things considered this has been one of the classier Bachelor breakups thus far, relatively speaking. You know, for Bachelor world standards.

  Yup! The Bach world standards are so low now that a guy who imo blindsides his fiancee by calling off their wedding on tv and then imo uses his breakup for his podcast and to gain sympathy for himself is seen as a "champ" by the media and worthy of being the lead again. It's a crazy crazy world 


jmo

This is the aspect of Ben that I appreciate. His volunteering side has always been his best quality IMO.

Romantic partner....not so much. He is better off with Mom and Dad.
JMO

AllAboutLove wrote:  Yup! The Bach world standards are so low now that a guy who imo blindsides his fiancee by calling off their wedding on tv and then imo uses his breakup for his podcast and to gain sympathy for himself is seen as a "champ" by the media and worthy of being the lead again. It's a crazy crazy world 


jmo

Touché.

So Ben ran a half marathon this morning in 1:40 and got 89th overall. That's pretty damn impressive. I'm glad he's happy and active and Lauren B free.

I actually think Ben will be a decent partner for someone who doesn't mind giving into his likes and wants. That was why I didn't get Lauren who seemed to love life as LA girl wanting to do all Ben's charity work, his endless church stuff and going to Indiana to be with Mom and Dad. To a girl who enjoys all that and is attractive enough to give Ben the butterflies that Lauren gave him, he may be a decent partner. I do think it will mostly be Ben's way or no way, but some women might not mind that. JMO.

http://people.com/tv/bachelor-in-paradise-ben-higgins-weighs-in-controversy-never-forced/

Ben Higgins needs to shut up and sit down Imo. He was not there on bip, he has no clue what happened, and his opinion is irrelevant. Just because he was treated with kind kid gloves means nothing Imo.

He also said on his and Ashley's podcast along the lines of "let me make this clear, there is no storyboard, the story is edited around what actually happens" when we all know from the BIP discussion is false since the parties involved agreed to hookup per the storyboard. Ben is such kiss-up. He tip-toed through the whole podcast. A true politician he is.

He's stepping so hard on other people on his way to kiss TPBP's behind. His comments on this issue did nothing, but show how self centred and fake he is, IMO.

I hate how he always acts like his words are always telling the absolute truth. No one asked for your opinion Ben.