Ben Higgins - Bachelor 20 - Discussion

sweeti810 wrote:

AllAboutLove wrote:

sweeti810 wrote:

Lauren is the Queen of BS lines IMO.

I am sorry but Lauren being the Queen of BS lines IMO is just false based on Ben saying everything is great in his relationship and any rumors of problems were just "fake news" while Lauren was the one who said things weren't perfect and they were trying. One spewed BS the other was more transparent and honest (which is the opposite of BS). jmo

I was talking about the BS stuff she said during Ben's season. IMO, she told Ben all the things she thought he wanted to hear. IMO, she's not the girl she claimed to be on the show.

I agree.
Ben has his fault, and I never thought he is a good Bachelor and his season bored me. But he fell so hard for the imo, fake Lauren Bushnell, he thought she is the woman of his dream, thought she is as simple and as ready as he is.

So I would not blame him to not want to marry someone who manipulated her way to get picked. Imo.

sweeti810 wrote:

AllAboutLove wrote:

sweeti810 wrote:

Lauren is the Queen of BS lines IMO.

I am sorry but Lauren being the Queen of BS lines IMO is just false based on Ben saying everything is great in his relationship and any rumors of problems were just "fake news" while Lauren was the one who said things weren't perfect and they were trying. One spewed BS the other was more transparent and honest (which is the opposite of BS). jmo

I was talking about the BS stuff she said during Ben's season. IMO, she told Ben all the things she thought he wanted to hear. IMO, she's not the girl she claimed to be on the show.

Nothing Lauren said on Ben's season comes close IMO to what Ben himself has said on K's season to BS his way to be the next lead, his own season (two ILY's), and HEA tv show (breaking off the wedding) and off-show on his own IG talking about problems in his relationship being "fake news". Sorry but the only thing that is fake news is Ben, IMO.

Well, at least I see Ben is being pretty consistent. He has always been like this, talked about an aspired politician.

I just don't understand so many comments over various platforms about Ben being this incredible boyfriend, bachelor, human being etc and then Lauren is the one looking for fame blah blah. Ben did this show twice. 3 times if we add in HEA. I'm so sick of Ben being portrayed as Jesus Christ. It's annoying. It's like he poops glitter to these folks, no offense. Everyone is entitled to their different opinions of course. It's just a little bizarre to me the way people view Ben. JMO My rant for the day. Sorry, carry on guys.

@Cila51290

Yeah I never really understood the pedestal Ben was put on. I remember back then being surprised he was even picked as the Bachelor and all the praise for him. To me he was just another boring vanilla guy on Kaitlyn's season along with Jared, Cupcake and Ben Z. He didn't stand out to me at all. I mean I think he's a decent enough guy but is he really all that amazing? JMO.

He's tall and good looking. I think he seemed more enthusiastic to "find" love than farmer douche before him, and "perfect" than JPG before that. I think TPTB hoped he would be Sean the brunette version. For me his season was so unwatchable I gave up after episode 2 and only came back for the final. I have no desire for Ben 2.0. All JMO.

"When you really care about somebody and you really love somebody and that has to end — for whatever reason, even for reasons that either person can't really explain, it's just a feeling and you have to go your separate ways — it hurts. It hurts bad," the Bachelor alum, 29, says in the clip.

Ben Higgins Says His Split From Lauren Bushnell 'Hurts Bad'

Ladybug82 wrote:

"When you really care about somebody and you really love somebody and that has to end — for whatever reason, even for reasons that either person can't really explain, it's just a feeling and you have to go your separate ways — it hurts. It hurts bad," the Bachelor alum, 29, says in the clip.

Ben Higgins Says His Split From Lauren Bushnell 'Hurts Bad'

All right I have tried to be nice, but I am finally on board. Ben just shut it for a while. You have officially turned into an "oh poor me". Put on your big boy pants, drink your whiskey, eat your ice cream and stop ruining the pretty by talking. JMO.

He's just something else. He really acts like he did so much for this relationship and is now so hurt and in shambles over it. Shutup, Ben.

What a piece of work. JMO.

Omg he's still talking about this? Dude stfu and go away.

Why are so many of the Bachelors such duds? No one wonder the ettes have better track records..

Go home to your mommy and shut up, Ben.

JMO