Re: Ben Higgins - Bachelor 20 - Discussion

by **GuardianAngel** Tue May 16, 2017 5:14 pm

Can someone please tell me her IG username so I can check it. If it's private, we cannot discuss her IG activity.

by Alanna Tue May 16, 2017 5:15 pm

sosleepy wrote:I thought she recently made it public? I follow her too. She likes everything Ben posts, minus the few things with Lauren. She's still SUPER close with all his friends, especially Naz and what's his name, the couple that lives in Texas that started Humanity and Hope. And she never took down a lot of Ben pictures from her IG back when they were together. They are still all there. She stated in an interview when Ben was announced that no way was he ready to get married and he wouldn't get married from this show. We should have listened to her. She also said they were young and she would take him back if the circumstances were right.

I love hearing this heartbeat

I bet this is where it's going. She seems to know him well and fit into his life and friend circle well. Maybe he needed this whole "thing" to go back to the start pretty much, it's happened before.

by Lennoxcolinrolland Tue May 16, 2017 5:15 pm

GuardianAngel wrote:@Lennoxcolinrolland what is her IG username?

@shaeadam

by mindless Tue May 16, 2017 5:16 pm

I thought the IG was public until a few days ago and then changed to private when it was mentioned here. I wonder if she's reading these threads.

by Mommyof2 Tue May 16, 2017 5:17 pm

Is she a Christian? I would think that would be important to Ben.

by **GuardianAngel** Tue May 16, 2017 5:17 pm

@Lennoxcolinrolland Thank you.

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by Alanna Tue May 16, 2017 5:19 pm

mindless wrote:I thought the IG was public until a few days ago and then changed to private when it was mentioned here. I wonder if she's reading these threads.

We're mostly harmless, rarely bite unless hungry, Shae, please don't worry laugh out loud

by sosleepy Tue May 16, 2017 5:19 pm

Alanna wrote:
sosleepy wrote:I thought she recently made it public? I follow her too. She likes everything Ben posts, minus the few things with Lauren. She's still SUPER close with all his friends, especially Naz and what's his name, the couple that lives in Texas that started Humanity and Hope. And she never took down a lot of Ben pictures from her IG back when they were together. They are still all there. She stated in an interview when Ben was announced that no way was he ready to get married and he wouldn't get married from this show. We should have listened to her. She also said they were young and she would take him back if the circumstances were right.
I love hearing this I bet this is where it's going. She seems to know him well and fit into his life and friend circle well. Maybe he needed this whole "thing" to go back to the start pretty much, it's happened before.

Well... don't get TOOOO excited. She seems to party a lot too. Kinda like Lauren light, imo. Seems to travel a lot, lots of drinking with girlfriends. But yeah, won't be shocked if she is endgame for him. To me, she kinda looks like Kaitlyn before all the plastic surgery, but also kinda a brunette Lauren. Same slight/petite frame, and similar bone structure.

by Alanna Tue May 16, 2017 5:21 pm

@sosleepy I will temper my excitement laugh out loud

but I can see Ben with someone like that. He is vanilla-y and boring and does need a partner with some pizzazz imo so I'm not too deflated laugh out loud

by Cila51290 Tue May 16, 2017 5:28 pm

Shaelin seems less high maintenance than Lauren so maybe that's better for vanilla Ben.

by sosleepy Tue May 16, 2017 5:29 pm

Also, pretty common knowledge that Ben went on Kaitlyn's season to begin with to get over her. He was pretty hung up on that for a long time. If you go back to his first date with Kaitlyn, he talks about her in vague terms, and you can tell the whole situation is still distressing for him.

by Cila51290 Tue May 16, 2017 5:32 pm

sosleepy wrote:Also, pretty common knowledge that Ben went on Kaitlyn's season to begin with to get over her. He was pretty hung up on that for a long time. If you go back to his first date with Kaitlyn, he talks about her in vague terms, and you can tell the whole situation is still distressing for him.

He probably views her as the one that got away. His "unlovable" remarks probably stems from the fact that she didn't want him moving with her. It probably made him feel like he's not good enough or "is there something wrong with me".

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