Ben Higgins - Bachelor 20 - Discussion

sosleepy wrote:Honestly, I wouldn't be surprised to see him get back with Shaelin his ex.

Me neither. She's the one that got away, IMO. After reading on here, that she follows Lauren's ex, IMO she was way too invested in Ben and his now ex fiancé.

Article from 2016. Interesting how she mentions he has trust issues. Wonder if it still rings true today.

http://www.lifeandstylemag.com/posts/bachelor-ben-higgins-ex-tells-all-87828

sosleepy wrote:Honestly, I wouldn't be surprised to see him get back with Shaelin his ex.

Ha maybe. She lives in Austin, and seems to love it there. And like with Lauren, I don't see him leaving Denver anytime soon. Sooooo idk.

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:

sosleepy wrote:Honestly, I wouldn't be surprised to see him get back with Shaelin his ex.

Ha maybe. She lives in Austin, and seems to love it there. And like with Lauren, I don't see him leaving Denver anytime soon. Sooooo idk.

He did want to move with her, when she broke up with him, right? In reality, it might be just words, though.

Cocoasneeze wrote:

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:

sosleepy wrote:Honestly, I wouldn't be surprised to see him get back with Shaelin his ex.

Ha maybe. She lives in Austin, and seems to love it there. And like with Lauren, I don't see him leaving Denver anytime soon. Sooooo idk.

He did want to move with her, when she broke up with him, right? In reality, it might be just words, though.

I dont think he will take back someone who dump him.

Alanna wrote:

sosleepy wrote:Honestly, I wouldn't be surprised to see him get back with Shaelin his ex.

Is she single? Why did it end?

According to Shaelin he was too needy and clingy. They were college sweet hearts. She got a job in Austin. He apparently wanted to move to be with her. She didn't want him attached to her. So he moved to Denver instead with his friends. They dated back when he was still in Indiana, I believe.

reason wrote:

Cocoasneeze wrote:

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:
Ha maybe. She lives in Austin, and seems to love it there. And like with Lauren, I don't see him leaving Denver anytime soon. Sooooo idk.

He did want to move with her, when she broke up with him, right? In reality, it might be just words, though.

I dont think he will take back someone who dump him.

It could be an ego boost too, her telling him, how hard it was to watch him with Lauren, and how she made a mistake dumping him, now they're older, she wants him back. Ha ha, my imagination is running wild.

sosleepy wrote:

Alanna wrote:

sosleepy wrote:Honestly, I wouldn't be surprised to see him get back with Shaelin his ex.

Is she single? Why did it end?

According to Shaelin he was too needy and clingy. They were college sweet hearts. She got a job in Austin. He apparently wanted to move to be with her. She didn't want him attached to her. So he moved to Denver instead with his friends. They dated back when he was still in Indiana, I believe.

Gotcha, thanks. Sounds like they broke up because of age and distance, basically, timing. I bet they'll get back together too.

Is Shaelin's IG public? I follow her so I can't tell..

@Lennoxcolinrolland what is her IG username?

^ It's private.

I thought she recently made it public? I follow her too. She likes everything Ben posts, minus the few things with Lauren. She's still SUPER close with all his friends, especially Naz and what's his name, the couple that lives in Texas that started Humanity and Hope. And she never took down a lot of Ben pictures from her IG back when they were together. They are still all there. She stated in an interview when Ben was announced that no way was he ready to get married and he wouldn't get married from this show. We should have listened to her. She also said they were young and she would take him back if the circumstances were right.