Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #6

Idk if this "relationship" is for a good time, or a long time, but regardless, he seems like a fun guy, and Lauren deserves! imo.

Thanks @charmained Not only is Devin very good looking he seems like a lot of fun!  Yay for Lauren to have fun and happiness in her life again. And someone who likes to travel. What a drag these last several months have been for her. Hurray to good times ahead!!!
JMO

That twitter person Hayley King @Hayleyking76 is a certifiable crazy nutjob. IMO. Yikes!

ReneeM wrote:Idk if this "relationship" is for a good time, or a long time, but regardless, he seems like a fun guy, and Lauren deserves! imo.

Yup! I saw her snap and it was refreshing to see him smile when the filter went on unlike *ahem*

bleuberry wrote:

ReneeM wrote:Idk if this "relationship" is for a good time, or a long time, but regardless, he seems like a fun guy, and Lauren deserves! imo.

Yup! I saw her snap and it was refreshing to see him smile when the filter went on unlike *ahem*

That's so true. Ben was always annoyed when she snaps. They're just not compatible I think.
But this guy is still on the dating stage so maybe he's also just taking on the ride. Well let's give him a chance.

Dang I was @ the Dodgers game Thursday! She should have gone then

She seems happy so good for her!

IMO, the first one to "move on" is usually the dumpee bc they want to make the dumper jealous. IMO, if Lauren dumped Ben she wouldn't have gone on a date to a baseball game where she's pretty much guaranteed to be shown bc her friend is the host. I say that bc I would think if she dumped him, she would care about his feelings like a normal human. Maybe she's just a bitch, but IMO, this makes me more confident that Ben dumped her fake azz

sweeti810 wrote:IMO, the first one to "move on" is usually the dumpee bc they want to make the dumper jealous. IMO, if Lauren dumped Ben she wouldn't have gone on a date to a baseball game where she's pretty much guaranteed to be shown bc her friend is the host. I say that bc I would think if she dumped him, she would care about his feelings like a normal human. Maybe she's just a bitch, but IMO, this makes me more confident that Ben dumped her fake azz

It's kinda obvious already that their relationship didnt work out because Ben didn't want to marry her as soon as she'd like. It doesn't matter at this point. She has a new man and Ben can do all the podcasts he wants and stay unlovable as much as he wants. He's all words, tbh. Even his blog about finding the perfect wife. Excuse me, but I don't know if any woman would like to do all the work in a relationship.

@sweeti810 why does it matter who dumped who? They're adults, the relationship wasn't working, they ended it. There are no brownie points for being the one to end the relationship.

And Lauren most likely had free tickets, and wanted to have this experience with that guy. It most likely has nothing to do with Ben, not all of her actions are related to Ben, and now even less, when they've broken up, and Lauren is back in LA. Jmo

sweeti810 wrote:IMO, the first one to "move on" is usually the dumpee bc they want to make the dumper jealous. IMO, if Lauren dumped Ben she wouldn't have gone on a date to a baseball game where she's pretty much guaranteed to be shown bc her friend is the host. I say that bc I would think if she dumped him, she would care about his feelings like a normal human. Maybe she's just a bitch, but IMO, this makes me more confident that Ben dumped her fake azz

Who cares? Serious question, what does it matter? What exactly is she suppose to do to show that she cares for his feelings? Stay home and knit? I'm not sure what you expect her to do and I'm not sure how you know how hurt she was or wasn't?

If it somehow makes you feel better to think Ben was the one who broke things off then go ahead and think that. I choose to wish them both well as they move forward.

sweeti810 wrote:IMO, the first one to "move on" is usually the dumpee bc they want to make the dumper jealous. IMO, if Lauren dumped Ben she wouldn't have gone on a date to a baseball game where she's pretty much guaranteed to be shown bc her friend is the host. I say that bc I would think if she dumped him, she would care about his feelings like a normal human. Maybe she's just a bitch, but IMO, this makes me more confident that Ben dumped her fake azz

I'm less interested in who-dumped-who in the pathetic farce that was BenLo than in who-dumped-who in the Lauren & Devin matchup pre-Bachelor days! Hopefully whatever caused that relationship to fail has been repaired by Lauren's reality tv "fame" and SM celebrity status.

GuardianAngel wrote:

sweeti810 wrote:IMO, the first one to "move on" is usually the dumpee bc they want to make the dumper jealous. IMO, if Lauren dumped Ben she wouldn't have gone on a date to a baseball game where she's pretty much guaranteed to be shown bc her friend is the host. I say that bc I would think if she dumped him, she would care about his feelings like a normal human. Maybe she's just a bitch, but IMO, this makes me more confident that Ben dumped her fake azz

Who cares? Serious question, what does it matter? What exactly is she suppose to do to show that she cares for his feelings? Stay home and knit? I'm not sure what you expect her to do and I'm not sure how you know how hurt she was or wasn't?

If it somehow makes you feel better to think Ben was the one who broke things off then go ahead and think that. I choose to wish them both well as they move forward.

No one is saying she needs to stay home and wallow, but going to a baseball game, putting him in her stories and tweeting a rose in reference to a tweet about him seems to have shades of wanting to rub it in Ben's face. If Ben were the one doing this, I think people would be judging him more harshly.

Also, since this is a discussion forum, I think it's not necessary to draw conclusions about what makes posters "feel better" etc etc. That seems a little personal. JMO.

GuardianAngel wrote:

sweeti810 wrote:IMO, the first one to "move on" is usually the dumpee bc they want to make the dumper jealous. IMO, if Lauren dumped Ben she wouldn't have gone on a date to a baseball game where she's pretty much guaranteed to be shown bc her friend is the host. I say that bc I would think if she dumped him, she would care about his feelings like a normal human. Maybe she's just a bitch, but IMO, this makes me more confident that Ben dumped her fake azz

Who cares? Serious question, what does it matter? What exactly is she suppose to do to show that she cares for his feelings? Stay home and knit? I'm not sure what you expect her to do and I'm not sure how you know how hurt she was or wasn't?

If it somehow makes you feel better to think Ben was the one who broke things off then go ahead and think that. I choose to wish them both well as they move forward.

GA's post was too good for just a like.