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Re: Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #6
Cocoasneeze wrote:Ben has been on the Woe is me train for weeks now, I see no issue with Lauren putting her side of the story out there. Jmo.
I agree. It seems like these are just excerpts from the full article which will be released on Friday.
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Re: Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #6
Basically Ben using the break up as his promo material hurt Lauren a lot. Each interview etc has been hard for her, and his furniture gate got the fans to hate on her again. Smh. She did the sensible thing and unfollowed him. She Imo wanted to move on from the franchise, but Imo Ben kept them stuck on it. He's still stuck on it. Jmo.
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Re: Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #6
Thanks everyone. I missed the "except Ben" part in that one small paragraph.
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Re: Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #6
IMO the hurt is deeper when it's a "nice guy" with the "best intentions" I think Lauren could say much more than she is saying at the moment. We know and can point out more things that hurt the relationship than she's admitted to. I really think they were just very very different people who were not compatible. Olivia said as much in an interview from seeing them in person. I honestly think Ben was infatuated with Lauren and 1 or 2 attributes of hers rather than connecting to many different aspects of her personality.
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Re: Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #6
@Emusha, the interview with Olivia, how long ago was this? I want to know if Olivia spotted this early in the relationship or when the public were beginning to sense that things were going downhill, thanks.
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Re: Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #6
she shared what she was thinking during the filming from watching ben and lauren in person - she said she could tell the entire time that Ben would pick lauren and that she could tell the entire time that there was something off. she shared this after the news of their break-up had been announced.aviej wrote:@Emusha, the interview with Olivia, how long ago was this? I want to know if Olivia spotted this early in the relationship or when the public were beginning to sense that things were going downhill, thanks.
starts at 18:55min source: https://build.aol.com/video/591c45bab90afb49f952c135/
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@emusha I think Olivia has definitely changed her tune... on all her past interviews she mentioned how perfect they were for each other and how she knew that Ben was always going to pick Lauren. BAsed on the interview her opinion changed after watching HEA. IMO I just remember how happy Lauren was when he proposed and even the months after the show... remember her valentines heart thing that she shared on her blog...
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I'm sorry I know this is not Olivia's page but this is why she rubs me the wrong way.
When 'People' asked Caila about Ben and Lauren breakup during their recap show.. Caila said that public breakups are difficult and it's hard for them but also very private so she won't comment on it. Amanda did the same, was positive about the relationship, said she was sad for them and didn't say anything else. Both ladies were close to Lauren so could have said more if they wanted to... then you have Olivia "mouthing off" and talking about second chances with Ben.
When 'People' asked Caila about Ben and Lauren breakup during their recap show.. Caila said that public breakups are difficult and it's hard for them but also very private so she won't comment on it. Amanda did the same, was positive about the relationship, said she was sad for them and didn't say anything else. Both ladies were close to Lauren so could have said more if they wanted to... then you have Olivia "mouthing off" and talking about second chances with Ben.
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For those who followed BenLo, did they ever talk about when Ben told her that he also said 'ily' to Jojo? Because ...
"I don't think I've ever talked about how hurtful that was," Bushnell told People of watching the finale.
Source"I always try to be really strong because I wanted to move forward from it," she told the magazine. "But because I wanted to move forward from it, I don't think I ever really opened up about how hard that was just in terms of, like, I wanted to make that decision to get engaged one time in my life and I felt like I wasn't told everything that had happened."
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Yeah. That Olivia interview rubbed me the wrong way. AFAIK, she literally had no interaction with them like at all in the real world. She spent like 4 weeks with them on set before she was eliminated, then she saw Ben at WTA. And that's like it. Not even like she was friends with Lauren.
Her opinion means basically nothing.
Her opinion means basically nothing.
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ReneeM wrote:For those who followed BenLo, did they ever talk about when Ben told her that he also said 'ily' to Jojo? Because ..."I don't think I've ever talked about how hurtful that was," Bushnell told People of watching the finale.Source"I always try to be really strong because I wanted to move forward from it," she told the magazine. "But because I wanted to move forward from it, I don't think I ever really opened up about how hard that was just in terms of, like, I wanted to make that decision to get engaged one time in my life and I felt like I wasn't told everything that had happened."
According to Ben, he told Lauren "everything" the day after he proposed while they were still in Jamaica. At the time, Lauren was basking in the glow of the engagement and the gravity of it hadn't hit her yet. It got progressively harder as time passed, especially watching it back. It sounds like Lauren bottled a lot in, and Ben, as has been detailed thourougly, was totally selfish, not just in the act, but in not taking ownership of that and helping his fiancé move on in a less me-centric, but more empathetic way. Cause the "2ILYs spit him out to Lauren" so no harm, right? Worked out for him. Who gives a flip how the other girls feel. Douche light.
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