Nick Viall & Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - Discussion

happydays wrote:why did they go to ny? was it just to promo tim hortons?

With his busy schedule I doubt they would fly L.A to NYC just for Timmy's. They went to visit Nick's family so it may have been a stop over on their way since they arrived not long after in Wisconsin or they may have visited Sharleen and Andy.

GuardianAngel wrote:

happydays wrote:why did they go to ny? was it just to promo tim hortons?

With his busy schedule I doubt they would fly L.A to NYC just for Timmy's. They went to visit Nick's family so it may have been a stop over on their way since they arrived not long after in Wisconsin or they may have visited Sharleen and Andy.

Doesn't make sense of a stopover as its virtually on the other side of the country. I'd think that Sharleen/Andy or Nick/Vanessa would have posted some pics of each other if they did meet up.

I don't think Nick has had much to really smile about since we've "known" him. Say what you will, but two back-to-back dumpings like that on national television is a major ego/confidence blow. I believe his brother that he had a cloud hanging over him.

These days, when I see Nick smile, it's actually reaching his eyes... for the first time. It's nice to see.

I agree with @eliza3. Being a male model, they aren't exactly requesting a smile in photo shoots. I'm not sure I've ever seen a selfie of just Nick with a smile on his face. Add Vanessa, and it's almost like he doesn't even think about it...the smile just comes. I love Nick but his insta stories leave alot to be desired!! I'm sure in time V will add a lil sauce to them, though!

@notarose
Thank you for bringing that forward. That is a teachable moment for us all, IMO.

Some rude commenters are having a fit, because Vanessa blocked them. I'm baffled at this 'I'm just saying my opinion, I'm allowed, freedom of speech, deal with it!!' attitude, when they can't handle 'It's Vanessa's account, she blocked you, she dealt with it' attitude back. Vanessa's dealing with the negativity really well. Don't engage, just block. JMO

Amen. It's her account and if I were her I'd block too.

Cocoasneeze wrote:Some rude commenters are having a fit, because Vanessa blocked them. I'm baffled at this 'I'm just saying my opinion, I'm allowed, freedom of speech, deal with it!!' attitude, when they can't handle 'It's Vanessa's account, she blocked you, she dealt with it' attitude back. Vanessa's dealing with the negativity really well. Don't engage, just block. JMO

I'm really surprised she has waited this long!!! I would have hit the "see ya" button long ago!!

I unfollowed friends all the time when I don't want to see their views or commentaries. It's my page. My right.
I don't think Vanessa was ever big into SM and I say good for her for making that personal statement.

Cocoasneeze wrote:Some rude commenters are having a fit, because Vanessa blocked them. I'm baffled at this 'I'm just saying my opinion, I'm allowed, freedom of speech, deal with it!!' attitude, when they can't handle 'It's Vanessa's account, she blocked you, she dealt with it' attitude back. Vanessa's dealing with the negativity really well. Don't engage, just block. JMO

ITA. The smartest thing any of these people can do is use the block option. If someone takes the time to write rude comments, they're not worthy of seeing your posts anyway. Shutting them out is far more likely to teach them a lesson than giving them the attention they so crave. JMO.

I don't get the whole WS thing and why Nick is potrayed as such a male whore. His question to Andi on ATFR to me indicates that when he is intimate with someone it means something to him. With Kaitlyn he felt taken advantage of and with Liz, she was the one who made it a one night stand. He has also indicated that the intimacy means more to him than the act of sex. To WS I would say I am the mother of three daughters and I hope each of my daughters find someone that is as caring and tender as Nick.

Blocking trolls is the smartest way to deal with them IMHO. Say nothing, just block. She should go on a blocking frenzy, they all should, block the heck out of everyone.

If she continues to do it perhaps it will shut others up and they'll just move on to someone else they can torture. I'm sure there will always be others but it must be frustrating to see that crap on your SM.