Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #5

Seems like Lauren and Ben were at church this morning (IG story.)

I just looked and Ben's not in the video, so technically, he might not have been there, but who knows

Ash2214 wrote:I just looked and Ben's not in the video, so technically, he might not have been there, but who knows

Whoops, yeah, he's not in the video. I'm assuming he's there, cause he loves church IMO.

Lauren commented to someone starting off saying "I usually don't defend myself..." but it had nothing to do with Ben, it was about the cat cafe (on her most recent pic.)

Interesting how she doesn't really care to defend her relationship with Ben. I guess she was indeed reading all those comments and maybe only found the one about the mask and cats ridiculous. Maybe what she shouldve said was "I usually don't defend myself but this is getting ridiculous. Ben and I are happily engaged and whatever you folks are spewing is simply not true" JMO

But what if they aren't happily engaged. "I don't usually defend myself, so I'll just go on record to say that we're going through some difficulties and trying to figure out if this is worth saving."  No winning. Better off staying quiet IMO. 

did you guys see the comment to which Lauren replied???

Lauren could help control some of the narrative by posting different pics and with different captions. Posting things were her ring isn't present, saying how this was her best trip yet (one without Ben), planning her next one (leaving Denver yet again), etc. invite more comments than other pics and captions would. JMO

Simon21 wrote:did you guys see the comment to which Lauren replied???

About the cat cafe? I didn't, because the person deleted their account. But I think it's pretty easy to understand based off Lauren's answer IMO.

She replied back to that woman because she was making some serious accusations on Lauren's character . She thought Lauren was making fun of the Asian woman who was wearing mask on her snapchat and called Lauren a bully for finding it funny and weird and asked her followers/fans to not follow her on that footstep and many more stuff. That commenter had zero idea it was a cat cafe and Lauren was indeed trying to snap a cat sitting in the Asian woman's shoulder . Accusing someone of being bully is pretty serious , hence Lauren might have replied IMO. Soon after Lauren commented , that woman deleted her comment .

umngirl wrote:Lauren could help control some of the narrative by posting different pics and with different captions. Posting things were her ring isn't present, saying how this was her best trip yet (one without Ben), planning her next one (leaving Denver yet again), etc. invite more comments than other pics and captions would. JMO

I'm thinking the same thing, which is why I think she MAY like the attention IMO.

Perhaps Lauren has nothing to say about the relationship. Maybe they're having difficulties, and she doesn't want to give updates to ig followers on that. If she did actually post something about the relationship, most people wouldn't believe it, and would pick her statement apart. IMO.