Re: Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #5

by Cocoasneeze Thu Feb 02, 2017 1:40 pm

@Lennoxcolinrolland ahhh, a good point. IMO Lauren's bags are mentally packed though, she's out. JMO

by Mommyof2 Thu Feb 02, 2017 1:41 pm

Cila51290 wrote:Going back to their Bachelor season, I think his mom obviously knows him best. She didn't pick Lauren for him which makes sense now. Lauren probably doesn't baby him which in return makes him feel "unlovable". I think they have lust/love but not love/friendship. JMO

Agreed. I always thought Ben should have chosen JoJo, but now I'm glad he didn't. She is much better matched with Jordan, imo. As for BenLo, it's good you find these things out before you tie the knot. They will both find their HEA's someday!

by casjacknick Thu Feb 02, 2017 1:42 pm

Ugh. I just adore her too much to see her continue this relationship. It seems like this last month she has finally given up on him and moved on with all sorts of girlfriend support. Good for her. Happy birthday Lo. I hope they let you call this a draw and you can move back to LA and buy a darn puppy. Keep those shots of you by the ocean in that swimsuit and you won't be single for long.

by Cocoasneeze Thu Feb 02, 2017 1:43 pm

Mommyof2 wrote:
Cila51290 wrote:Going back to their Bachelor season, I think his mom obviously knows him best. She didn't pick Lauren for him which makes sense now. Lauren probably doesn't baby him which in return makes him feel "unlovable". I think they have lust/love but not love/friendship. JMO

Agreed. I always thought Ben should have chosen JoJo, but now I'm glad he didn't. She is much better matched with Jordan, imo. As for BenLo, it's good you find these things out before you tie the knot. They will both find their HEA's someday!

I don't think anyone can manage the amount of constant fangirling and swooning over, that Ben requires. Jmo.

@casjacknick
I'm there with you. IMO Lauren is a doer, and she's now doing her thing. I love seeing her with her frirnds and mom and sister. Great support system. IMO.

by Mommyof2 Thu Feb 02, 2017 1:48 pm

Oh no. Will he end up on BIP? giggling

by Kashathediva Thu Feb 02, 2017 1:50 pm

Just for discussion's sake, other couples have broken up that have had things scheduled. The event just gets cancelled. In fact one time, I called a venue to ask if schedule even was still going to occur since the couple had now broken up. They were not aware the couple had broken up and said they would look into it. rofl

by Alanna Thu Feb 02, 2017 1:53 pm

Cocoasneeze wrote:IMO Ben is a bit passive aggressive atm. He doesn't reply to Lauren's texts, can't be bothered about making any effort even to tweet about her birthday. IMO he's been pulling back from this relationship for a while, first taking the wedding back, IMO he also suggested they do more of their own thing, and now that Lauren is reacting to that, doing her thing, traveling, seeing her friends, Ben's becoming pissy about it. IMO ths relationships is done, I'm predicting, that once Lauren gets back from her trip, she'll pack her bags and move. Jmo.

How insane that even tweeting is an "effort" for this guy? You're moving your fingers on a phone.

by Cocoasneeze Thu Feb 02, 2017 1:56 pm

Alanna wrote:
Cocoasneeze wrote:IMO Ben is a bit passive aggressive atm. He doesn't reply to Lauren's texts, can't be bothered about making any effort even to tweet about her birthday. IMO he's been pulling back from this relationship for a while, first taking the wedding back, IMO he also suggested they do more of their own thing, and now that Lauren is reacting to that, doing her thing, traveling, seeing her friends, Ben's becoming pissy about it. IMO ths relationships is done, I'm predicting, that once Lauren gets back from her trip, she'll pack her bags and move. Jmo.
How insane that even tweeting is an "effort" for this guy? You're moving your fingers on a phone.

He's made more effort when tweeting about Nick's season's episodes. Jmo.

by Guest Thu Feb 02, 2017 2:01 pm

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by Mommyof2 Thu Feb 02, 2017 2:05 pm

Cocoasneeze wrote:
Mommyof2 wrote:
Cila51290 wrote:Going back to their Bachelor season, I think his mom obviously knows him best. She didn't pick Lauren for him which makes sense now. Lauren probably doesn't baby him which in return makes him feel "unlovable". I think they have lust/love but not love/friendship. JMO

Agreed. I always thought Ben should have chosen JoJo, but now I'm glad he didn't. She is much better matched with Jordan, imo. As for BenLo, it's good you find these things out before you tie the knot. They will both find their HEA's someday!

I don't think anyone can manage the amount of constant fangirling and swooning over, that Ben requires. Jmo.

@casjacknick
I'm there with you. IMO Lauren is a doer, and she's now doing her thing. I love seeing her with her frirnds and mom and sister. Great support system. IMO.

That shows he is very insecure. Ben needs to realize that no one can give him that security he is looking for except for himself.

by aviej Thu Feb 02, 2017 2:07 pm

Mmm, no ring again. Maybe she left it home in Denver for Ben's "safe keeping" question

by Mommyof2 Thu Feb 02, 2017 2:09 pm

Btw, Lauren has been looking very thin lately. IMO Trouble in paradise = no appetite. IMO Been there, done that...during my dating years.

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