Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #2

GuardianAngel wrote:Poor Vanessa I used to get sea sick on a sail boat. If anyone came near me, I'd freak. Don't touch me! Nick is rubbing her gently trying to comfort her. That would do it for me.

It's the worst feeling, awful. As soon as I stepped on land, it immediately went away.

Do we know what they did after that?

Catdwoman50 wrote:@mprssdbyu - So is that where he "shows up" according to CH and so Nick tries to start building relationships with the remaining ladies?  Is this where he searches his soul - what does happen if the lady he was chasing leave before the journey is over?

Catdwoman50 wrote:

notarose wrote:^^^
My tidbits:
The theme of the show is "will she say yes" IMO. To me that says Nick does legit fall in love but tptb want 3 things to be ambiguous.
1 who is "she"?
Is she the obvious FIR Rachel who is obviously shown in Finland?  Is she the less obvious Raven who met Bella and took some time to see (obscured in the Finland pic). Or is she the one he never saw coming?
2 is "she" in love with him? So far we see clips of Vanessa having doubts and some ITM doubt statements by Raven.
3 yes to a future proposal, or a proposal at the FRC?  Nick saying it's the experience.  A journey ends while experiences continue throughout life so I take his words to be far more optimistic as to the outcome of the show.  Uncertain if a proposal happens in the typical timeline.

As to CH and his comment about Nick "showing up" , I think that means Nick was reminded that he would have to be more vulnerable sooner than might have been in his comfort zone toward those he was truly interested in, that it wasn't enough to just let the women take the lead so he could get to know them.  He would have to let them get to know him.

Or could it be that he has shown vulnerability to one woman only - obvious in those in the Vanessa dates - but he needs to be vulnerable to more than 1, in case "she" leaves.

notarose wrote: