Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #4

sosleepy wrote:

Ladybug82 wrote:At some point every couple has received the same overanalyzing and picking apart, IMO.  Ben and Lauren are no different or any more special to keep themselves from receiving it, than any of the other couples, IMO.  If they have received more speculation and observation than others, it IMO is because they have kept themselves out there in the public eye for HEA.  

IMO, if one does not want the attention, speculation, etc., they will keep their lives a little more private.  It can and has/is being done by plenty that are associated with the show.  Well...those that don't rely on their popularity from the show to be some form of income, whether shilling, another fashion blog, etc.  

If one does not like to read the negative, picking apart, overanalyzing, etc. and can't show respect for their fellow posters, then they are more than welcome to stay out of the thread.  There are plenty of other threads that range from real life to fan threads.  Take your pick.  

JMOAA

I think you misinterpreted my post.  By no means do I think Ben and Lauren are special little snowflakes who are "hands off" for over analyzing. It's just my opinion right now that there is more over analyzing going on in every look/tweet/retweet/action and some of that, imo, is overkill and maybe not so relevant to whatever B&L are going through privately. I also agree they bring this on themselves and yada, yada. By no means am I telling people to stop overanalyzing and I certainly didn't think I was disrespectful to anyone here. It's just my opinion that in this case, there is a lot of reaching and mind reading going on. I feel as though I should be allowed to state that opinion.

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:I'm gonna guess they're heading to: LA, Portland, or Warsaw (cause those seem like obvious choices IMO ) Maybe some wedding planning?!