Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #4

Where is she going again ? She keeps traveling . Maybe she cannot take the cold weather in Colorado that much since she lives in Cali before bachelor . I mean if this is the case then she needs to know that as long she is engaged to Ben they will stay in colorado . Jmo.

I am sure she knows staying with Ben means Denver. As for where she is going, my guess would be Mexico. Mexico and Alaska were her favorite flights and since the tweet before said she is waiting for summer I am going to guess Mexico. Or maybe Hawaii, she does go to Hawaii with her family.... I still guess Mexico.

They spent christmas apart odd, she stays with Amanda in L.A. 4  extra  days really odd something doesn't smell good here and Lauren posting a lot of things in social media of her plans lately is like she wants everyone to know what she is doing your thoughts

mindless wrote:Yesterday when they were going to see the animals I thought they were fine, but now I'm back to getting a weird vibe. It does kind of seem like they're leading increasingly separate lives, unless she's going to see wedding venues while Ben has to work. JMO.

What did/do you think about their retweets?

mindless wrote:Yesterday when they were going to see the animals I thought they were fine, but now I'm back to getting a weird vibe. It does kind of seem like they're leading increasingly separate lives, unless she's going to see wedding venues while Ben has to work. JMO.

What was your weird vibe about animals? I thought they seemed fine there.

I agree they have been doing a lot of things separately, but other than that I feel like their social media has been fine. They are still liking each other's stuff, Ben/Lauren related posts, interacting with each other's friends, etc.  I feel like there is a lot, and I mean A LOT more than the norm of picking apart every little thing they do/say/like/RT right now. I know that's what we do here, but I feel like the analyzing and picking apart of B&L right now is next level. Not everything has a hidden meaning and not every look has significance. I think it's just at a point where people assume there is trouble based on the postponed wedding and the fact that they've spent some time apart and are using that as a basis (maybe justifiably) to over analyze every breath they take.

At this point, I don't know what I think TBH. I've always felt the world would end before these two EVER broke up and went their separate ways (for some weird reason IMO)...sooooo...

Febraury 2 is Lauren's birthday . So it must be for her birthday .

@Simon21 good call. Maybe a family birthday vacation? Still guessing Mexico.

At some point every couple has received the same overanalyzing and picking apart, IMO.  Ben and Lauren are no different or any more special to keep themselves from receiving it, than any of the other couples, IMO.  If they have received more speculation and observation than others, it IMO is because they have kept themselves out there in the public eye for HEA.  

IMO, if one does not want the attention, speculation, etc., they will keep their lives a little more private.  It can and has/is being done by plenty that are associated with the show.  Well...those that don't rely on their popularity from the show to be some form of income, whether shilling, another fashion blog, etc.  

If one does not like to read the negative, picking apart, overanalyzing, etc. and can't show respect for their fellow posters, then they are more than welcome to stay out of the thread.  There are plenty of other threads that range from real life to fan threads.  Take your pick.  

JMOAA

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:

mindless wrote:Yesterday when they were going to see the animals I thought they were fine, but now I'm back to getting a weird vibe. It does kind of seem like they're leading increasingly separate lives, unless she's going to see wedding venues while Ben has to work. JMO.

What did/do you think about their retweets?

Nothing to be honest. The content of both those tweets was pretty general motivational stuff to me. I would have to stretch my imagination pretty thin to think they were subtweeting each other.

@sosleepy, I think you misread my post. I thought they were fine as well yesterday, so no vibe regarding the animals.

This is how I see it if it is a girls trip is fined, if it is a family trip and no ben or by herself there is trouble in their relationship

It's a girls trip , Lauren just tweeted about it .