Josh Murray - Amanda Stanton - BIP 3 - Discussion

I want to know the cause of this latest breakup? What could interfere with true love in such a manner? The Vegas thing? Was the Alpha Male of Bach Nation not invited or something?

I am guessing that it's obvious he was not included. Otherwise, he would have been there is my opinion.
I don't know if this was the cause of the issue.

Well I don't think Ben even knows Josh, so no reason for him to be there. Josh probably just saw something he didn't like on someone's snap or she didn't reply to his texts fast enough or something.

I can believe that he wanted her to decline the invite because he wasn't included.

I can't believe the level of maturity between them. Wow.

They are really childish .

These 2 are really playing out their relationship on SM . Josh is over 30, Amanda's younger but she's got 2 children, and they're doing silly sh*t like this on SM. Grow the hell up.

Kashathediva wrote:I am guessing that it's obvious he was not included. Otherwise, he would have been there is my opinion.
I don't know if this was the cause of the issue.

IMO I think Josh didn't want Amanda to go since he wasn't invited and Amanda decided to go anyway. You know that didn't sit well with Josh.

bleuberry wrote:I can believe that he wanted her to decline the invite because he wasn't included.

I can't believe the level of maturity between them. Wow.

I remember in Andi's book that Josh blamed not being invited to Bach nation events on her.

In a healthy relationship, you are not glued to each other. IMO
It is good to do things independently, IMO. Growth, learning, individuality, all fostered by following separate identities and interests. JMOAA.
Are there times you wish your S.O. were not going to be doing _________ or be away, of course. That's normal life stuff.

umngirl wrote:How does someone get hacked so much? How easy are your dang passwords? Newsflash: your birthday, Sabel, or mommasboy aren't good passwords.

Oh darn it! Did those fictional hackers also unfollow Josh's brother back when he was with Andi? Bad, bad hackers!

Kashathediva wrote:In a healthy relationship, you are not glued to each other. IMO
It is good to do things independently, IMO.  Growth, learning, individuality, all fostered by following separate identities and interests. JMOAA.
Are there times you wish your S.O. were not going to be doing _________ or be away, of course. That's normal life stuff.

ITA I've always been one of those people that enjoy being around people, my family et cetera but I also value what I call my alone time. My husband and I both worked different shifts until I retired and believe it or not we both loved that. Since we semi-retired he still works 3 days a week doing something he loves and I work at home, I have to admit I hunger for some alone time. But being I work at home I get so many interruptions from my son, my husband, et cetera that I find myself working late at night instead of what I should have done during the day. Don't get me wrong love my family but also love my alone time.

During our marriage he was always going on weekend golf outings and I would occasionally meet friends for a weekend away. When I want to go home to visit family I talk to him about it but never feel I have to ask his permission. I just was never a clingy person. I just can't imagine being around someone, love them or not, 24/7. All this works for us. Going on 39 years of marriage.

Hope these confessions don't make me a bad person.