JoJo Fletcher - Jordan Rodgers - Bachelorette 12 - Discussion

I don't feel sorry for any of these people.  Not Jordan. Not Brittney. Not Jojo. In life, you cannot control what actions others take, but you do control your own actions and reactions. If someone is treating you poorly, dump them and move on. If someone is stirring up trouble for you, be honest and then take the high road. If your gut and your family's intuition is littered with red flags, ignore them at your own peril. The choices we make have repercussions. That is life. Tick, tock, tick, tock.

Well Chad is following Brittany now. We shall see what happens.

MiaHawk wrote:I don't feel sorry for any of these people.  Not Jordan. Not Brittney. Not Jojo. In life, you cannot control what actions others take, but you do control your own actions and reactions. If someone is treating you poorly, dump them and move on.  If someone is stirring up trouble for you, be honest and then take the high road. If your gut and your family's intuition is littered with red flags, ignore them at your own peril. The choices we make have repercussions. That is life. Tick, tock, tick, tock.

I also will add have hope. Seek healing in your own emotions and healthy relationships will follow you.

Jordan clearly did some things in previous relationships that were wrong, especially the cheating allegations. I will never defend that. Hopefully he's matured and he loves Jojo enough to be on the straight and narrow. I don't feel that strongly about what he said on the show however and didn't see where he called her a liar although I believe he should have just said something about making some mistakes and let it go at that.

Didn't Brittany bring this out in the first place? To me this latest thing comes across a little like sour grapes when he's happily with someone else. She has the right to give her side but I'm not sure she'll get what she appears to be looking for. It would be a lot healthier for her to move on and not worry about what Jordan is doing. All JMO.

albean99 wrote:

Jordan clearly did some things in previous relationships that were wrong, especially the cheating allegations. I will never defend that. Hopefully he's matured and he loves Jojo enough to be on the straight and narrow. I don't feel that strongly about what he said on the show however and didn't see where he called her a liar although I believe he should have just said something about making some mistakes and let it go at that.

Didn't Brittany bring this out in the first place? To me this latest thing comes across a little like sour grapes when he's happily with someone else. She has the right to give her side but I'm not sure she'll get what she appears to be looking for. It would be a lot healthier for her to move on and not worry about what Jordan is doing. All JMO.

Exactly my thoughts. I was actually wondering if I had missed some interviews where Brittney was brought up.  I don't see what she's accomplished with these posts other than bring unwanted attention to herself. If anything, and from my biased  perspective (I must admit), Jordan can't be that bad since it's obvious to me, she still has feelings for him. She still had his pictures on her insta up until he went on the show. If I had a horrible BF, I would literally erase everything and anything that will remotely remind me of him. If anything, her posts prove how jealous she is to see him happy and in a loving relationship. Statements made by his family, especially Luke about how they've never seen him this happy or this crazy about a girl must sting.. But she should have moved on a long time ago, especially if Jordan was that lousy of a boyfriend. I just don't get it.

Alanna wrote:I think this post is really interesting:

https://twitter.com/leahdaviesandco/status/766846490195005440

Wow i am in awe of Leah Davis whoever she is.
Go girl!

have no words for the best trainer ever. And zero respect. Get a life lady.

Poor Brittany, I don't think she's heard that Jordan now has a job...a second job. Too late for her to undo the post, but I hope this will be her last.

It is also funny that we see Jordan being quiet for now but for sure he is aware what is happening with him in Sm chaos about his ex ig posts. He is favoriting some immature tweets about his ex gf. I am loling . I wish he should stop doing that and just be quiet . Approach the better way . Hope he is really going to make jojo a happy person and won't go back on his douche bag days going forward when they are not hot at all.Jmo.

julychild wrote:Poor Brittany, I don't think she's heard that Jordan now has a job...a second job. Too late for her to undo the post, but I hope this will be her last.

That probably makes it worse. From her perspective, she stuck with him when he was struggling, moved for him, stood by him when he was no one, and he treated her at best, carelessly and at worst, borderline abusively (in her mind, I think). And now, he's gotten a great new job, invested in a new company with Metpro, and there's a new girl who is getting a diametrically opposite treatment. Like wtf???! I'm mad on her behalf from this side of the house  

So I get how this would hurt, especially because she's clearly still in love with him and like @Lily said, had pics all over her sm calling him the "best boyfriend ever" before the htd pics came out. However, nothing will change, she's making herself look bitter and very sad, and it just makes Baddy look reasonable, sane and like the normal one here, if a bad bf in an unhealthy relationship in the past.

I am really about woman having power and sticking up for themselves but it takes two to tango. I think I have heard Jordan apologize to her now it is time for her to take her responsibilty in a failed relationship. It is never one sided she needs to forgive herself and maybe realize she may have been part of the problem.  Self reflection and taking responsibilty for her actions will do more in gaining her own happiness than this negative behavior.  This rant of hers is very malicious and damaging to her.  It might be time for her to apologize to Jordan and JoJo.  That might be her first step toward her own healing.

She's still deleting comments and blocking people. I wonder if she stayed up all night doing that?!

I don't see what's wrong with deleting hurtful comments and blocking people?  It's the only real sensible thing she's done in the last 48 hours.