JoJo Fletcher - Jordan Rodgers - Bachelorette 12 - Discussion

Alanna wrote:And I don't know what outcome she's hoping comes from this? Jo to breakup with BBJ? That's not going to happen imo. A public apology? Also not happening. Attention from Steve and tabloids? I guess that's the best she can hope for. 

I feel badly for her, he's her own Chad R but she needs to go and find a reformed Baddy now that is willingly to make sacrifices for her, sleep with her dog in his arms and share his passwords with her. It sucks but that's the reality imo. Some men won't change until the time is right and the woman is right for them. I don't even know if he's changed but he certainly seems to be trying imo, and she's barking way up the wrong tree now.

That's what really eating her up IMO. Not just that he cheated or whatever else that was wrong with their relationship, but that he seemingly has changed for the better and has moved on and has no interest in her. Right now other than the rumours, everything is going well for Jordan, he has a life now in Dallas with Jojo and jackie, and his new SEC job, and he seems really happy, and she's clearly not IMO. She might still have issues caused by that relationship that make it hard to move on and it sucks seeing him get on with life while she's stuck, it might not be fair, but it is what it is, she can choose to stay hung up on him or she can move on and be happy with her life IMO

StacyNor wrote:I am sorry, but I find it immature. The season is over, it has been 3 years, move on already. It is obvious that Brittany is holding on to something, if she still gets angry about a relationship that went bust 3 years ago. She just seems bitter. I know she was hurt, but when are you going to move on from it? He has a fiancee, whom he lives with and wakes up to every morning. There she is talking about things from years ago, sounding bitter. Jordan might be all those things, but coming for him in public after 3 years does not make her look good, when he has a fiancee.

It's been 2 years actually, since those texts were from 2014. And I think she got angry because he painted her as a liar. I wouldn't take well to that either, but then again I wouldn't go exposing my exes in the first place. She did however, whether it was right or not, and now she sees him presenting himself as the victim of slander. I get why she'd want to defend herself, the same way I get why Jordan was defending himself when the Raya stuff came out. When you're the "victim" and the other party tries to turn things around and make you the bad guy, it's hard to just brush it off. I think she would've let it go already, if when questioned about the rumours Jordan had simply said the past is the past and it has no bearing on the present or the future. If she needs to move on then so does he and that involves taking some responsibility for his own mistakes. JMO.

umngirl wrote:I know she probably won't outta embarrassment, but I'd love to know which Bella. I may have to rewatch the movie for the 100th time and play "guess who Jordan cheated with".

Kelley Jackle

All I have to say is, I ask you this:

When was the last time HUGE cheating/ex tabloid rumor final 1 actually ended in marriage from this show? Yeah, Jordan would be the first.

mindless wrote:

StacyNor wrote:I am sorry, but I find it immature. The season is over, it has been 3 years, move on already. It is obvious that Brittany is holding on to something, if she still gets angry about a relationship that went bust 3 years ago. She just seems bitter. I know she was hurt, but when are you going to move on from it? He has a fiancee, whom he lives with and wakes up to every morning. There she is talking about things from years ago, sounding bitter. Jordan might be all those things, but coming for him in public after 3 years does not make her look good, when he has a fiancee.

It's been 2 years actually, since those texts were from 2014. And I think she got angry because he painted her as a liar. I wouldn't take well to that either, but then again I wouldn't go exposing my exes in the first place. She did however, whether it was right or not, and now she sees him presenting himself as the victim of slander. I get why she'd want to defend herself, the same way I get why Jordan was defending himself when the Raya stuff came out. When you're the "victim" and the other party tries to turn things around and make you the bad guy, it's hard to just brush it off. I think she would've let it go already, if when questioned about the rumours Jordan had simply said the past is the past and it has no bearing on the present or the future. If she needs to move on then so does he and that involves taking some responsibility for his own mistakes. JMO.

But he has taken responsibility IMO. When he spoke on the show he took blame for the relationship ending saying it was his fault, he said he never physically cheated but he did things he shouldn't have (i.e. talking to girls ect) and said he didn't treat her well. After the show in all the interviews I watched he talked about the rumours questioning his integrity and character (i.e the ones saying he was only on for fame, that he's a fraud, that he's using Jojo etc)  were hurtful. He's NEVER in all the interviews I've watched speak about her or address her in any way other than Jojo saying brittany's not the ex she met. His brother said they were lies but not Jordan. It could also be that he doesn't consider it cheating but she does ala ross and rachel from friends. They might have been together 3 1/2 years but it was on and off, he might have done things on the off using the 'we were on a break' excuse and she still considers it cheating and he doesn't idk but she's clearly hurt. She says he cheated, Jordan's brother and a friend defended him on a podcast and Jordan himself hasn't acknowledged her publicly since he's been on the show.

mindless wrote:

StacyNor wrote:I am sorry, but I find it immature. The season is over, it has been 3 years, move on already. It is obvious that Brittany is holding on to something, if she still gets angry about a relationship that went bust 3 years ago. She just seems bitter. I know she was hurt, but when are you going to move on from it? He has a fiancee, whom he lives with and wakes up to every morning. There she is talking about things from years ago, sounding bitter. Jordan might be all those things, but coming for him in public after 3 years does not make her look good, when he has a fiancee.

It's been 2 years actually, since those texts were from 2014. And I think she got angry because he painted her as a liar. I wouldn't take well to that either, but then again I wouldn't go exposing my exes in the first place. She did however, whether it was right or not, and now she sees him presenting himself as the victim of slander. I get why she'd want to defend herself, the same way I get why Jordan was defending himself when the Raya stuff came out. When you're the "victim" and the other party tries to turn things around and make you the bad guy, it's hard to just brush it off. I think she would've let it go already, if when questioned about the rumours Jordan had simply said the past is the past and it has no bearing on the present or the future. If she needs to move on then so does he and that involves taking some responsibility for his own mistakes. JMO.

This woman has video, screenshots from years ago, about an ex. Who does that? Whatever Jordan said it still does not make Brittany look good. She is out there posting screenshots, videos about an ex that broke up years ago. Does she have pictures of Jordan and her together if she still has those type of things? She is not well and needs help to get over this relationship. It is very obvious she is still living in the past. She could have defended herself better, by maybe talking with Jordan and telling him she didn't appreciate what he said, asking him to apologize on SM or apologize to her. All this tells me this girl is not well. I can't fathom keeping things about an ex from years ago. When a breakup happens, usually people delete everything about them on SM, pics etc to move on. Brittany hasn't moved on, that is obvious.

The last time the F1 had cheating rumors, those F1's were actively cheating while with the lead during, in- between and after filming. I don't think this one cheated during or after filming of the show and the clingy lead since then, haven't let him out of her sight so, this relationship might actually work, JMO.

She does have pictures of them together. He was all over her Insta with happy pics before the show. I think this is less about revenge and more about being devastated that he's with someone else because imo, she's still in love with him despite everything.

She had no issues keeping pictures of him all over her social media that claimed he was "the best boyfriend ever" long after he supposedly cheated on her. She deleted those pictures two days after pictures came out of JoJo in Chico filming Jordan's hometown date.


Also, she used a line that JoJo and Jordan said on the ATFR in her IG post, so she's clearly keeping up with them. IMO

StacyNor wrote:

mindless wrote:

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It's been 2 years actually, since those texts were from 2014. And I think she got angry because he painted her as a liar. I wouldn't take well to that either, but then again I wouldn't go exposing my exes in the first place. She did however, whether it was right or not, and now she sees him presenting himself as the victim of slander. I get why she'd want to defend herself, the same way I get why Jordan was defending himself when the Raya stuff came out. When you're the "victim" and the other party tries to turn things around and make you the bad guy, it's hard to just brush it off. I think she would've let it go already, if when questioned about the rumours Jordan had simply said the past is the past and it has no bearing on the present or the future. If she needs to move on then so does he and that involves taking some responsibility for his own mistakes. JMO.

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Brittany hasn't moved on, that is obvious.

People react differently to situations, as is their right to do so. I don't see anything malicious in her behaviour, but take it simply as "her way" of dealing with the break up with Jordan. There are no lies in her posts, just proof of cheating, and even Jordan admitted that he may have treated her badly (cough,cough). If this expose finally enables her to put the past behind her, then I say all the more power to her. You go, girl!

And to JoJo, watch your back.

ReneeM wrote:

mindless wrote:

StacyNor wrote:I am sorry, but I find it immature. The season is over, it has been 3 years, move on already. It is obvious that Brittany is holding on to something, if she still gets angry about a relationship that went bust 3 years ago. She just seems bitter. I know she was hurt, but when are you going to move on from it? He has a fiancee, whom he lives with and wakes up to every morning. There she is talking about things from years ago, sounding bitter. Jordan might be all those things, but coming for him in public after 3 years does not make her look good, when he has a fiancee.

It's been 2 years actually, since those texts were from 2014. And I think she got angry because he painted her as a liar. I wouldn't take well to that either, but then again I wouldn't go exposing my exes in the first place. She did however, whether it was right or not, and now she sees him presenting himself as the victim of slander. I get why she'd want to defend herself, the same way I get why Jordan was defending himself when the Raya stuff came out. When you're the "victim" and the other party tries to turn things around and make you the bad guy, it's hard to just brush it off. I think she would've let it go already, if when questioned about the rumours Jordan had simply said the past is the past and it has no bearing on the present or the future. If she needs to move on then so does he and that involves taking some responsibility for his own mistakes. JMO.

But he has taken responsibility IMO. When he spoke on the show he took blame for the relationship ending saying it was his fault, he said he never physically cheated but he did things he shouldn't have (i.e. talking to girls ect) and said he didn't treat her well. After the show in all the interviews I watched he talked about the rumours questioning his integrity and character (i.e the ones saying he was only on for fame, that he's a fraud, that he's using Jojo etc)  were hurtful. He's NEVER in all the interviews I've watched speak about her or address her in any way other than Jojo saying brittany's not the ex she met. His brother said they were lies but not Jordan. It could also be that he doesn't consider it cheating but she does ala ross and rachel from friends. They might have been together 3 1/2 years but it was on and off, he might have done things on the off using the 'we were on a break' excuse and she still considers it cheating and he doesn't idk but she's clearly hurt. She says he cheated, Jordan's brother and a friend defended him on a podcast and Jordan himself hasn't acknowledged her publicly since he's been on the show.

It just seems pretty straightforward to me that he cheated. RS had that email from someone saying their friend met Jordan while they were filming Pitch Perfect 2 together and that Jordan told her he'd broken up with Brittany 2 weeks prior. Then they dated on and off for a couple of years. Brittany's texts show they were still together at least in some capacity while he was away filming. It just all adds up. There's Brittany telling her side of the story and then there's the other girl's friend telling that girl's side of the story. I highly doubt it's all lies, so Jordan shouldn't be calling it that, and I do think he did. He may not have been spelling it out that's what he was talking about, but that's how I took it as well when I listened to those interviews post-show. Just don't say anything if you can't be truthful. I just really hope he's been truthful with Jojo about everything, because I can't imagine how she's feeling if those texts go against what he's been telling her.

It's already made it to E! News and other major outlets just like it did last time, but ok Brittany, you don't want the fame or name recognition