Josh Murray - BIP - Famously Single - Season 3 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #2

Alanna wrote: I'm so curious to know how it went in reality, but of course nothing is real with these people so no one knows, not even them probs.

Well, you know spending time on your phone, seeking out negative posts about yourself and the person your engaged to, even ones you aren't tagged in, and responding to them has to be such a bonding experience.    Interacting by phone is so much better than actually interacting in person, even when your all together in the same place.    Just one big happy, SM loving, oversharing, attention seeking family.  

How long do you think it'll be before they start tweeting about us here or join to defend themselves?

JMOAA

I would say a negative number if it were possible.

Ladybug82 wrote:

Alanna wrote: I'm so curious to know how it went in reality, but of course nothing is real with these people so no one knows, not even them probs.

Well, you know spending time on your phone, seeking out negative posts about yourself and the person your engaged to, even ones you aren't tagged in, and responding to them has to be such a bonding experience.    Interacting by phone is so much better than actually interacting in person, even when your all together in the same place.    Just one big happy, SM loving, oversharing, attention seeking family.  

How long do you think it'll be before they start tweeting about us here or join to defend themselves?

JMOAA

I'm guilty of joining the fray and tweeting back to one of his majesty Josh's defenders. I couldn't deal with one more tweet of Josh is the hottest man in the entire universe and JJ or any other man who dares mock him is just out of jealousy. I personally, DO NOT find Josh sexy at all. He reminds me of some character in an SNL sketch even when he kisses a woman. Just no.

Add me to that mix.
And it grosses me out when his sexiness and handsomeness is defended by his mom. It reminds me of Mrs. Bates.

As I've stated before I'm not a psychologist but..... it does seem inappropriate at best, creepy at worst. I think it's called enmeshment.

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I definitely find it strange that someone in his 30s has his mom scrolling through SM looking for tweets about her son so she can defend him and posting on FB. It's definitely not healthy, imo, and is shows me that Josh's fixation on "image" is likely enabled.

The worst part of it all, imo, is that Josh seems to be someone who gets the women in his life to go on defense (and offense) for him on SM which I find very unhealthy.

There's something amiss, imo, when Josh's fiancee and mom are the ones writing blogs/FB posts and not even Josh. It comes across like he gets to manipulate and use the women in his life to fight his wars for him. What a man (not).

I actually wish Andi had spilled a bit about that weird Mama Murray/Murray family dynamic. Say what you will about her and her tacky book, she left them out of it, and that showed some restraint. You know she probably has her opinions about this very odd dynamic. How could she not?

MM is so weirdly and unhealthily enmeshed in Josh's life that the idea of being married to him reminds me of Princess Diana's (RIP) comment "there were three of us in this marriage,so it was a bit crowded"...

If Josh and Amanda can't handle snarky tweets on a reality show hashtag, why on earth did they go on a reality show? The show encourages social media snark, takes part in it, it's a huge portion of the viewing appeal. (And I don't mean straight up harassment, which JJ wasn't doing). Don't read through the show hashtag, it'll be full of snark and unfavourable tweets.

Josh (and his posse of bodyguard women) acting like victims, when nothing is being done to them is sad. His mom posting about how the family is dealing, seriously!!! It all just reeks entitlement, and hypocritical victim act.

Josh was snarky about Nick all through Kaitlyn's season and Nick never responded to him nor did he need his mommy to come to his rescue. Josh needs to grow a freakin' pair already. He's a 32-year-old self-proclaimed grown azz man. :babies:

That Danni person is actually the 2nd fake Twitter account that jj exchanged tweets with. Another one was created last thu I think. I took a couple of screenshots because this person also tweeted andi and what they tweeted was very, very strange. It made me think it was from a close family member as well because who else would know or even THINK that Josh's mom would pack Andis things? Here are a few of the tweets.

That's hilarious! The good mommo murray at it again?