The Bachelorette - Season 12 - JoJo Fletcher - Social Media - Media - Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - #6

ForeverLove wrote:So does this mean that Jordy met the Fam first and Robbie second? I thought usually the F1 met the Fam second, but they just edit it as if he was second?
To me, even if there was another person after me, I'd ask if that's what I wanted. This is about your future and not the other person . He only reacted after Jojo's meltdown and it felt more like damage control . If Jojo didn't react like she did, would he have initiated that same gesture? Tbh, this reminds me of his Raya fiasco. Getting caught doing the wrong thing, then rectifying it quick by backtracking . IMHO ,cheaters are very good at that because after all, they always have to cover their tracks. I think Jordy has become very good at this, along with being a master of the snow job. Again, AMO

Ash2214 wrote:For something a little more light:

https://twitter.com/eonlinetv/status/759043810877771781

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:

ForeverLove wrote:So does this mean that Jordy met the Fam first and Robbie second? I thought usually the F1 met the Fam second, but they just edit it as if he was second?
To me, even if there was another person after me, I'd ask if that's what I wanted. This is about your future and not the other person . He only reacted after Jojo's meltdown and it felt more like damage control . If Jojo didn't react like she did, would he have initiated that same gesture? Tbh, this reminds me of his Raya fiasco. Getting caught doing the wrong thing, then rectifying it quick by backtracking . IMHO ,cheaters are very good at that because after all, they always have to cover their tracks. I think Jordy has become very good at this, along with being a master of the snow job. Again, AMO

The F1 has their MTP date first, but their LCD second, I believe. At least, that's what happened on Ben season (Lauren met his parents first) and JoJo season it seems like (Jordan met her parents first.) Then for the past two seasons, it looks like they aired/are going to air the F1's MTP AND LCD first.

HEA wrote:the funny thing is few days earlier he said to her how important (if the most important to him) was to look in the eyes of THE dad so that HE knew how much in love he was with HIS daughter... (eyes wandering away as usual)

no use of YOUR father. He did not made it intimate and personal

JMO

GuardianAngel wrote:I can't think of one reason other that script induced reasons, not to ask her dad for his blessing. On this show, if you're in love and you want to marry the person, you ask when you meet them. It doesn't matter how many guys are left. IMO Ben's was also script induced reasons, so he could make the phone call later. Jordan's reason doesn't make sense, and probably will sound like BS because he himself was just doing what he was told IMHO.

How did he even know Robby didn't meet them yet.

HEA wrote:the funny thing is few days earlier he said to her how important (if the most important to him) was to look in the eyes of THE dad so that HE knew how much in love he was with HIS daughter... (eyes wandering away as usual)

no use of YOUR father. He did not made it intimate and personal

JMO

rhondam wrote:I don't think it's out of his character not to ask. Risky yes, and perhaps even dumb, but he said on the rock, (paraphrased) that the only concerns he has because of this process, is that he's not able to look her dad in the eye and for her dad to KNOW that he IS in love with his daughter and will love her forever etc etc. 

Her dad doesn't know him—at all. They've never even met at the point of him saying this and they're only going to know each other for, what? 3hrs? 4hrs? 6hrs? Here is where the integrity part comes in; he doesn't feel right having her father say, yes go ahead marry my daughter even though I've only just met you. 

Add to this, the fact that there's another guy about to ask her dad the exact same thing, lessens the importance and meaning for him and he assumes her dad, in this once in a lifetime moment. 

JoJo explains how upset she was tha t he didn't ask and in the morning he realizes he doesn't want to lose Jo over this so asks her dad last minute and I think he will ask her dad the way he's always wanted to, down the road when that "real" time comes. I think this is part of what's in his letter. This is AJMO as I see it.

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:Also, in Us text print issue, a bachelorette insider says "JoJo and the winner are going strong. They are very happy together." So there's that, I guess.

http://www.usmagazine.com/entertainment/news/bachelorette-jojo-tells-runner-up-i-wanted-it-to-be-you-w430969