The Bachelorette - Season 12 - JoJo Fletcher - Social Media - Media - Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - #6

GuardianAngel wrote:

northernviewer wrote:Thanks GA

I couldnt help but cringe when Jojo said ...thats what Ben said, in reply to Jordan trying to tell her how he felt.   I get that shes insecure and doubting everything because of how Ben treated her but thats something she should have kept to herslf, or revealed in a PI...but her constant questioning could be a big turnoff if she doesnt let hp.  

I felt bad for him at that moment. IMO one of the worse things to do is be compared to a previous relationship.

Over and over again I might add. She wouldn't like it if Jordy did the same

To quote Emily Maynard, she needs to put her big girl panties on.

His face when she dropped the Ben line was priceless and I felt bad for him when he looked utterly confused and upset during the RC when she was going on and on about how much she cares about the two of them, although that probably wasn't her fault as it's the spiel all leads give during that RC. It did seem to affect him though judging by the preview where he's starting to worry about Robby still being there.

He seems to be working hard post show to prove himself to her, so hopefully she's let up. I hope she's happy and enjoying herself and likewise for him, no matter if it lasts or doesn't last. IMO

Alanna wrote:snipped..
I don't understand how this is different than any other lead that's conflicted until literally the morning of the frc, according to what we see? Why is this season she's confused for real versus every other season, where it's just making a show?

Imo, she's the least confused and knew her f1 from night 1.

I think for me is I believe she really is conflicted. I know it was Jordan from day 1 but IMO she is afraid of making the wrong decision. With many others, IMO it was just producer induced verbiage. DeAnna wanted Graham, that was obvious, Ali wanted Frank, Kaitlyn wanted Shawn, all very obvious.

She says from the beginning she wanted it to be him, as per vo's, that's what she wanted but she was unsure and it showed through out the whole season IMO.

Revealing interview with JoJo.

http://www.glamour.com/story/the-bachelorette-jojo-fletcher-finale-robby-jordan

I would love to know more about what happened with JoJo's 4-year-long relationship that sounded to me like they ended up in different cities, and it then became a long-distance relationship.  And, it sounded like he was the one that broke it off.  That appears to be the longest and probably the most significant relationship that she has ever had.  So, did he cheat on her too, or did they just grow apart?

Since JoJo has said that she had never broken up with anyone before, there is something in her past that has given her this feeling that a guy will eventually lose interest in her and will end up leaving her.  I honestly feel like this is what is driving her to constantly worry that the same thing might happen with Jordan, so she is always in a constant state of panic when she is around him.  JoJo just needs to get out of her head so much, because it just feeds into her insecurities.

I do think that once they get through this next week and they can be together away from all the cameras and the distractions, JoJo will be able to settle down (come down off of the ledge) and will learn to trust Jordan more.

^ She said she ended up getting with Chad because she needed that void/distraction from the 4 year relationship, but didn't realize it until after the fact (or something to that degree. I think she actually said that on her first 1 on 1 with Jordan.)

Regarding Aaron:
Wishes Jordy well in THE COMPETITION.

http://m.wisn.com/news/aaron-rodgers-mum-on-relationship-with-brother-jordan-rodgers/40891874

Personally I love the shade Aaron threw at Jordy. Right on!

Alanna wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:

SueSt wrote:

ITA, GA.

I agree, also.
When it is right, there is no doubt.
If you have to doubt, than you need to sit back and not make a decision.

I don't understand how this is different than any other lead that's conflicted until literally the morning of the frc, according to what we see? Why is this season she's confused for real versus every other season, where it's just making a show?

Imo, she's the least confused and knew her f1 from night 1.

IMO, Jojo is not conflicted on who she wants as her F1.  IMO, she's mostly conflicted on whether or not she can trust Jordan.

ForeverLove wrote:Regarding Aaron:
Wishes Jordy well in THE COMPETITION.

http://m.wisn.com/news/aaron-rodgers-mum-on-relationship-with-brother-jordan-rodgers/40891874

Personally I love the shade Aaron threw at Jordy. Right on!

Some of us discussed this yesterday and didnt see it as "shade".  Many of us call this a competition ... Hence the words ... Winner , contestants ...and they have challenges to see who gets more time with the lead and they do all kinds of competitive stuff to get the attention of the lead.    Oh, its a competition alright:giggling:

I thought he was being classy and handled it as discreetly as possible, just like Jordan his brother and parents did.   Its tptb and social media who blew it out of proportion IMO

2observe wrote:

Alanna wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:
I agree, also.
When it is right, there is no doubt.
If you have to doubt, than you need to sit back and not make a decision.

I don't understand how this is different than any other lead that's conflicted until literally the morning of the frc, according to what we see? Why is this season she's confused for real versus every other season, where it's just making a show?

Imo, she's the least confused and knew her f1 from night 1.

IMO, Jojo is not conflicted on who she wants as her F1.  IMO, she's mostly conflicted on whether or not she can trust Jordan.

Plus she doesnt want to hurt anyones feelings. I know all the leads are bothered by that but I think Jojo stresses over it more than Ive seen in any other lead. Its getting so annoying though.

northernviewer wrote:

ForeverLove wrote:Regarding Aaron:
Wishes Jordy well in THE COMPETITION.

http://m.wisn.com/news/aaron-rodgers-mum-on-relationship-with-brother-jordan-rodgers/40891874

Personally I love the shade Aaron threw at Jordy. Right on!

Some of us discussed this yesterday and didnt see it as "shade".  Many of us call this a competition ... Hence the words ... Winner , contestants ...and they have challenges to see who gets more time with the lead and they do all kinds of competitive stuff to get the attention of the lead.    Oh, its a competition alright:giggling:

I thought he was being classy and handled it as discreetly as possible, just like Jordan his brother and parents did.   Its tptb and social media who blew it out of proportion IMO

Having followed Aaron for the past decade this is classic shade from him.

So everyone in the family is secretly shading each other? Maybe that's why they're having all these issues.