The Bachelorette - Season 12 - JoJo Fletcher - Social Media - Media - Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - #6

Ladybug82 wrote:

northernviewer wrote:My guess would be that if they break up soon it wont be because he cheats, its going to be because she pushes him away with all her insecurities.  Im getting annoyed and Im not the one shes questioning

So agree!  When the sleuthing first started, all the rumors that started swirling about his name being released early, his alleged cheating and relationship problems, etc.  I didn't expect to really like him all that much.  But looking at his SM and the closeness to the family members he does speak with, their silliness and humor, etc.  began to win me over.  But I honestly didn't have high hopes for a long term relationship out of it.  

Now, I feel like if it doesn't work (no matter how long or short it maybe) he'll take all the flack and criticism, like Brad did with Em.  And honestly, I wouldn't blame him if he had bailed during filming.  She's been all over the place and the continued questioning is beyond irritating.  It's exhausting to me, I can only imagine being in his shoes.

Hopefully once public in the real world away from the mind games and manipulation, she'll settle down some and probably already has and doesn't question his every thought, just a few .  And I'm sure he'll continue to baby when needed, ignore when needed and simply let her be herself, while being a calm, grounding force for her.  

Regardless so far, he's stuck by and they both seem happy from what little we've seen of them out and about.  JMO

Mommyof1 wrote:ITA.  If I were in Jordan's shoes, I would have left the show by now.  She has been grilling him since their first 1on1 (with prompting by production). Oh JoJo, in the words of Elsa, "Let It Go!"  

SueSt wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:

The episode ends with a glimpse of next week's finale. JoJo explains her predicament to her parents. You see, she worries that if she chooses Jordan and things go sour, she'll regret not picking Robby, but if she picks Robby, she'll always wonder if things would've worked out better with Jordan.

If she truly is so conflicted, then IMO neither one of them is the right one for her.

ITA, GA.

northernviewer wrote:Thanks GA

I couldnt help but cringe when Jojo said ...thats what Ben said, in reply to Jordan trying to tell her how he felt.   I get that shes insecure and doubting everything because of how Ben treated her but thats something she should have kept to herslf, or revealed in a PI...but her constant questioning could be a big turnoff if she doesnt let hp.  

Kashathediva wrote:

SueSt wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:




If she truly is so conflicted, then IMO neither one of them is the right one for her.

ITA, GA.

I agree, also.
When it is right, there is no doubt.
If you have to doubt, than you need to sit back and not make a decision.

Kashathediva wrote:

SueSt wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:




If she truly is so conflicted, then IMO neither one of them is the right one for her.

ITA, GA.

I agree, also.
When it is right, there is no doubt.
If you have to doubt, than you need to sit back and not make a decision.