The Bachelorette - Season 12 - JoJo Fletcher - General Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - #4

I find it fascinating how the mind works to "tell" each of us who each contestant "is". I can watch a season more than once and can completely change my opinion about someone. The same goes for seeing them in "real life"/SM. 

I don't know if this makes me wishy-washy or open-minded but I don't have a problem switching gears and admitting I "read" so-and-so wrong. Does anyone else also frequently change their opinions after watching a second time or from seeing them post-show?

I did with Ali. 
I did not like her on the show.
Loved her on First Look.

Kashathediva wrote:I did with Ali. 
I did not like her on the show.
Loved her on First Look.

I kept trying to see a match with Whitney and Chris... because I liked her so much, but... it always just felt off to me between them. But I sure tried to like them, but they were not a good match in real life. Andi I was not a fan of hers on JuanP, show... , she was always a a bit harsh to me. But for sure, I think each of us has our favorites and "not" favorites. Always liked Sean and Cat and Ben and Lauren... I hope that Jordan and JoJo end up a success story... they seem to have a similar level of sophistication and lifestyle... they could be a good match in RL.

I liked Jake on his season, but after all was said and done, I wanted to tar and feather him. Of note, I did not watch him on Jillian ' s season, so go easy on me!

northernviewer wrote:Im finding as each year passes ... I get older....it seems like the guys get younger, and are now about the same age as my sons .... And personally Im having a hard time taking many of them seriously!  Im finding most immature and kinda shallow lately but thats just the musings of an aging cougar

This is just how I feel, too! I like JoJo and Jordan as I do think they are both intelligent, kind, fun but I think they are just so beautiful (especially JoJo) that they almost feel Barbie and Ken -ish to me. I'm enjoying the season and like JoJo better this time around but I connect better with people like Des and Chris and Ben and Lauren. JMO

I just need to share that IMO I don't like the way that Jordan kisses - it's not passionate at all, just closed mouth short sort of non passionate. Compared to the way that Luke, Robby and Chase kiss. Of course it might be the way that it's shown. Does anyone else feel this?

See, Luke is far too intense of a kisser for me. The constant face grabbing, the constant intense eye contact and the slowness of it all. I'd get annoyed really quick if all of my kisses were like that with him. I don't need that type of intensity and passion in every single kiss.

Robby is my cup of tea and Chase and Jordan seem pretty normal/average. A few slips of the tongue that we've seen, but otherwise just normal kissing

it's the edit. they have panned away from most of Jordelles kissing interactions deliberately and used s zoomed in technique for all the other guys and their kissing,

Ash2214 wrote:See, Luke is far too intense of a kisser for me. The constant face grabbing, the constant intense eye contact and the slowness of it all. I'd get annoyed really quick if all of my kisses were like that with him. I don't need that type of intensity and passion in every single kiss.

Robby is my cup of tea and Chase and Jordan seem pretty normal/average. A few slips of the tongue that we've seen, but otherwise just normal kissing

I agree. Luke's style of kissing is only okay when you want to "get it on", otherwise it's just too much. And seriously, how much "getting it on" do you do in one day?

Jordan and Chase's style of kissing is too pecky pecky slurp slurp though. They remind me of how Tanner kissed Jade on BIP.. Nightmare. (Tanner's kisses were just not okay.. IMO)

I haven't even noticed how Robby kisses, so he might be the most normal of the bunch I think Robby's kisses are a good mix of passionate and peck peck...which is nice.

IMO.

nd4reality wrote:it's the edit. they have panned away from most of Jordelles  kissing interactions deliberately and used s zoomed in technique for all the other guys and their kissing,

Yep. When they HAVE kissed open mouth, passionate..I've noticed the camera always pans away...unlike with Luke where the camera zooms in

IMO Robby's kisses are the most "normal"

I don't think Jo has any concerns with her baddys kissing skills  And the 1000s of women he's been with (allegedly) seem to have educated him really well on all the other stuff needed other than making out: being affectionate, kissing her forehead, hand holding, etc.

But Robby is my favorite!!! I think he's the most naturally open and loving and affectionate. There's a future girlfriend/wife wandering around this world that's going to be very loved up once she meets Robby.